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maybe what you can do is that you make him promise that if he sees you this time, you will go and see him next time?

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You need to ask for my permission first if you wanna speak with her. And also you have to make payments to me if you wanna speak with her. It cost 550 dollars for every minute of conversation havent include government tax and service charge. So do you wann apay via Cash, credit card or Cheque? Payment made via Cheque and credit card will have an additional interest charge of 30%. Its a pleasure doing business with you. Thank and have a nice day.

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AnthonyKil,

WHAT Happened?

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Wendy,

I believe that with a relationship that is well defined, there are no rules. If I had a girl friend, she could call me at will. It is better for a man to be silent in the face of a conflict with his girl.

If I am sorry, I would tell my girl that I am sorry. The problem with women is that they are self centred. When you begin to take them on that pedestal, it will get into their head and they become naggy.

It takes two to tangle, If you don not want him to call you at midnight, then you are not truly his.

If I had a chance, I would marry an asian as well.

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OK Wendy, (U asked for my story, )#2

I'm one of those that ended up in the emergency room after a late night fight! After i started to find out so many bad things that my ex was doing, i confronted him. he didnt know that i had already saw text messages on his phone from a woman who was asking him to come back to her house. I woke him up to talk, then i asked him why a girl was texting him to come over. he couldnt come up with a lie fast enough, so he was like "where did u see that ?" i went to pick up his phone and he FLIPPED OUT!he ran to the kitchen, grabbed a butcher knife and started swinging it around screaming "put my phone down!!" i reached out n told him to put it away, right at that moment he sliced across my left pointer finger as he was swinging. i went OUT OF MY MIND. he threw the knife, so i clawed the hell out of his face and chest, and slapped him sooo hard. he wouldnt move after that, just let me hit him. blood was on the walls, on our bed. He was stunned when he realized he actually cut me VERY DEEP so he went into "sweet innocent" mode and said he has to take me to the hospital. he didnt want me to have him arrested. he was like " you see what our relationship has come to"?

Hell yes i saw! We ended up in the hospital for hours. he begged me to forgive him and says that he never meant to hurt me. the bleeding wouldnt stop. i had to get 7 stiches in my little finger! I didnt want him anymore, so those words meant nothing! but this is what can happen when things get TOO crazy in a relationship. all in a short period of time i saw his true colors, and we were FINISHED.

Now u all can see why i call him balding baboon? It turned out he was so much more UGLY ON THE INSIDE. How did i know what other crazy things he was capable of? Wendy hopefully your not taken advantage of, since most guys here seem to think being "submissive" is a good quality in a woman. It doesnt mean u cannot stand up for yourself and be smart about how a man is treating u!

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By the way Wendy, do you have a picture of you by any chance?

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Mheen, I love Asian women.

They are submissive and soft just like their African counterpart

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Are you not ashamed of yourself? So as to pander to foreign women you are running your mouth about how compared to other women Naija girls are so "annoying" that they deserved to be beaten? Are you mentally sound at all?

Maybe in your family such dysfunction was cool but those of us who were raised in normal surroundings didnt go thru such nor were we raised with such a pitiful mentality.

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he must be a handful for you, or you'd just keep out of his way

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cos the girls are jus so annoying , and we cant fight back in words.seems God has blessed them in the use of the tongue

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was trying to bring out smthing, and i've got it.so its actuallttrare for hm to lift a finger on you, then this guy cares for you afterall

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my thought wendy: when you dated this guy, there were times you felt wow! nigerian guys are great isnt it? see it as such, nigerian guys are great.

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I just read ur last post to Studentetc.

I apologise for being too brash.

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@ Uche2nna-

DUH, he was Prince Charming. Just because someone was ugly doesnt mean u cant love them for other reasons! Na wa for both of u, abeg, stick to the topic. if you have advice or a story post it or dont waste ur time, eh?

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Women!!!! And to think that you would have married him if not for the other girl. Na now you know say na balding baboon after shacking up with him for two years.

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Actually Studentetc,

For your info I wasnt attracted to him from the beginning. It took me a while to get to know him and see that we had so much good times going out. He had a fun character for sure, but i looked past his looks and fell in love, only to find out he was a scheming bush rat and loser with no regards for women ok? I have every right to feel this way about him now after what he put me thru. The names can go on, hes still the same guy now, even at what should be a mature age of 30.

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wow wow dude/dudette,if a caucasian described a black man in your own words they ll call them racist and all that,there are other insults other than hundreds of years old stereotypes, no vex o just an observation

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My Nigerian bfs were cheap broke A**ses

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@ gabrywyl

im not talkin bout in korea and all those places you named, here in the uk asian women are hardly seen with black men. someone told me that its against their tradition/its a taboo and that the asians look at blacks as being inferior to them asians (especially the chineese) and personally i have noticed thesame characteristics in the asians, especially the females.

i guess u have a different view cos u are enlightened

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Oh No Gabe. The world is changing. If you happen to go to Korea, China, Malaysia. . . Asian people got married to Black people and the population is increasing. I guess you are not aware cause I'm sure you know people like Amerie or Tiger Woods or Kimora Lee Simmons where their parents are half black and half Asian.

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i never knew an asian could date a black guy, talkless of a typical african. i always thought they detested anything with a black skin.

personally, ive never seen an asian girl and a black guy together or vice-versa

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My boyfriend would keep quiet when it comes to anything which he dont like hearing. He would keep quiet and walk away and after a few minutes, he would come back and make like nothing has happened. We never quarelled but we discuss. So usually I would ask him like which part is he not satisfied with and what made him angry. He would tell me and we will work things out from there.

I ask my bf why is he like that and he told me that when his mother fought with his father, his father would argue back. And then his mother would tell him that his father is acting like a childish woman. His mother told him that if he ihappens to argue with his gf, make sure he keeps quiet and dont talk back because he is a man and not a female. Only females would yap left and right and up and down.

So I guess thats the reason? Not sure. Every individual is different. Why dont you ask him?

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Make una hear oyibo!!

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