there certain types of people you feel will be more likely to cheat?
I agree with Oyinda's first post/analysis, a lot of cheaters will fall into this category.
I think you can't see a man and know if he's a cheater, many good looking guys are annoying because they barely have time for other women, which can give the impression that they are egotistic or cocky, when in fact, they minimise the time they give other women, so they never get in a position to be disloyal to their current girlfriend.
I think a lot of cheaters do it because deep down inside they don't want to work on he hormones or that little voice that tells them to be reckless. Almost like when you get a food craving, and you find yourself eating all those chocolates, it's happened before, you understand how it progresses, from want, to have but you can't really honestly, be bothered to resist or work on preventing a 'relapse'.
the minute anyone believe they can spot a cheater before the cheating occures is the minute they FAILED.
as much as there are signs that can lead to cheating, until the deed is done, no one should be labelled/blamed for something they havent done yet.
nothing worse in relationship than being accused of something you are not.
there sre no definite signs to notice a cheat! not by size, mannerism or even intelligence.
religion itself is not a yardstick, as its been confirmed that most cheat have actually been active in their respective believes.
what i just feel is that if a guy really does love yuou, he would be able to overcome whatever type of temptation comes his way.
and i must tell you that there are and will be more temptations after he meets u than before he met you.
@rokiatu, thank you for clearing things up
@oyinda, u confuse me
u were jst saying that i was wrong, now you agree with rokiatu
A nice guy doesnt reek of tetoterone, never talk of sex all the time, and all those things that you alluded to in your first post, the statistics never get it right
What you described earlier are the xteristics of a blatant player (the type that always get caught), not a cheat or a smooth operator
-the dudes that reek of testosterone. most athletic built and hairy dudes fall into this category. alpha males basically.
- the guys that usually talk about sex. they're Hot 80+% of the time and always talk nasty. they're addicted to sex and always crave it.
- the more opportunity the guy has with women (money, goodlooks etc) the more likely he is to cheat.
-the insecure dude that gets "esteem boost" from having different women.
- the dude that has had soo manyyyy partners before you came along. he's used to change and more likely will want some change
- the burnt dude who had a bad relationship, hasn't recovered from it and doesn't believe in love or faithfulness anymore.
- men that have fallen out of love with their partners but are too chicken to dump/divorce her due to what people will say. kids involved etc
some of these are stereotypes although they're my own personal opinion.
so seriously, without consulting my list up there, if you feel your partner is cheating, chances are that he is.