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Can You Take All The Blames In The Name Of Love?

Guys n Gals, please yall should look into this issue, my gurl dumped me this morning, even though I was gonna dump her early this morin, but before then she " GBAM" send me a message that she is no more interested in the way I am maltreating her. A short story about what happened:

We decided to stop having sex, and pre-intimacy also which she likes the most, the agreement was sealed, and then we were together and she tried to seduce me into pre-intimacy, and I resisted her as much as I can until she slammed my head over the wall, it was painful but i acted assive there wasnt pain, then she slipped her knee across the chair n she fell then started crying, I pampered her and said sorry, still she would not listen.

I became tired of begging, she left the house saying nothing, and starts to send txt complaining that I do not love her, but I do.

Guys below was a ending message she sent, I was thinking if any1 of u guys can do this kind of things in the name of love as she has stated, I take so many blames that is not worthy, but when I decline some blames she would say I do not love her, read below:

I want a guy that will take all the blames even if he is right or wrong.

Can you??

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xplain urself bro based on the question I asked you.

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take which blame?

Am not Akon abeg.

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I have done her wrongs, but that is in turn of her own wrong doings. I cnt just do her wrong when she has not done anything to deserve it.

I just collected those slaps in order to satisfy her childish mentality. After I apologized( even though it took me a while before I did) she was stil crying the next day I saw her, as in heavy crying oo. I was getting tired of it, so I just had to take those slaps for the sake of getting rid of her cries.

Truly my gurl aint taking me for a mugu, she knows am gangster and romantic at the same time, her teenage character still runs in her.

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i can accept blame if i'm at fault

other than that, i cant im not biologically wired that way

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I'm just going to yan fact. . . Ur babe is looking for a mugu to blame her shortcomings, failures and whatever on. . . Pls don't let that mugu b u. . . It'll b a shame, I can c ur a nice guy-esp for chesting d slaps- don't let ur b take u for granted, cos thats what i think she's doing. . . No offence, thats just my opinion

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Maybe you're shouldering the blame because you've done her more wrong than right.

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Sitcking with someone because you tolerate that person is WRONG. Period.

Even if love is present. I don't see how thatz possible, but strange people breath too.

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****standing by, watching what is going on in this thread****

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@OP

Love isn't burdensome, . . .its pure, and its without blemish as well, . . . .

u shouldn't have to feel u need to tolerate someone based on love, . . .

nor should u feel the need to change someone u really and truly care about, . . . .

u can stand by that person, and or chose to walk out on the situation if it becomes really unbearable, . . .

but I'm a firm believer in the fact that REAL and TRUE love would stand the test of time,

and w/e 'crisis' may come along

PS. wish u well sha, cos this has gat to be about the tenth thread Ive read concerning Ur gurl

take it easy mahn!!

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Bless Bless dey JOLLY dey GO.

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mi loff, read my post well and u'll see.

We have talked it through, and she has re-adjusted.

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@Eyo

Brof i know u Love her but how long will u continue to tke the blames.

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What blames are you talking about if I may ask?

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spot on bro, but I do not allow her to get away with her tantrums all the time, if she does not get a slap, she gets better yelling.

@ beck, I dnt think so.

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WORD!! @Eyongero, I think she is so much in love with u, confusion of love makes her do all those things.

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Sorry! I don't think it's got to do with her age. I suspect you've let her got used to you taking the blame and she feels anytime you don't yield to her childish tantrums, you're far away in touch with her emotions and she in turn, vituperates.

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i dont take any blame cause of love

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seeker why u dey derail this thread na? Ok lets look at this issue in the sense that chika is a smally, does that give a reason for such act?

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I like taking the blame when I am high on my budweiser and/or my courversier (pounded yam too!). It makes me mellow and I am at peace. In fact I can take being nagged.

Aside from that, I keep quiet till she's stopped completed the rantings, then I methodically pick holes in her complaints while I stroke her ego too. That my friend is the way to treat woman.

Love is a big mirage walai talai.

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yeah right!

and have her nag all day about her not being @ fault right.

abeg ignore the issue, and when she calms down, guess she wud see her fault herself.

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and why wud i wanna take he blame!

i can only ignore her faults, but not to the point of taking blames. plsssssssssssss.

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Personally, if i'm at fault, i will take all the blame "with all pleasure" BUT if she's at fault, then she has to. There is nothing like taking the blame as a man (whether right or wrong).

In relationships, partners should own up to their mistakes, wrong-doings and shortcomings and be accoutable for them. It makes the relationship more stronger and it reminds us that we are only HUMAN and we need eachother (as partners) and the grace of God to make us perfect and whole.

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If I'm the one at fault, I would take the blame; but if it's the fault of my partner, then I can't take such blame.

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Exactly, with that reason, is there any guy that will take all the blames still? Me I cannot take it ooo, even though she ran back to me within 5 hours, I received 2 slaps on both cheeks while I knelt down, a" take me back" price.

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Come t think of it, that's takin poo. Y should i? Biko! That's modern day stupidity, who wan lick person bumbum. Every1 shld acknowledge their wrongs n learn from them.

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Folly i don stop to cheat since then, trust me eyonigger is a chaged man, na my chika i dey follow yarn about.

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In a r/s both parties are responsible for their own actions. U shud take those responsibility or suffer the concequances. No1 shud be taking a blame 4 something u didnt do even if u are a guy. What's important is 2 know when u are wrong, apologise & know how 2 fix things. If u ask me, ur babe is just being childish now.

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I wanted to be sure if it was u bed mate the gave u the letter or ur main Chic ?

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Folly what has my past mistake got to do with this?

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yeah some, but not all

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@EyoNigga

LMAO But u were cheating on her anyways,so u shldnt be that bothered .

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