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can you tell your best friend about your spouse bad performance on bed?

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I won't marry a man bad in bed in the first place.

But if he is my guy, yes I will.

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Nope i cant.

I probably would with someone i know that has ma best interest at heart.

I would talk to ma spouse for sure - i would talk him through what i want and introduce certain measure in the bedroom that would help us along the way.

In marriage, the most important part i feel is the bedroom duties - if he isnt doing what i want, i would just tell him.

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No maybe not - maybe someone that is ma blood or someone i know always has ma best interest at hand.

I will wisely discuss it with husband first - i will introduce certain measures and ways in the bedroom that will help him/ us.

I will talk him through what i like and he will do the same to me and i'll give him what he wants so he has to give me what i want too.

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i can talk about my GF but never about my wife

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@topic,

depends on how close this friend is to me.

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good to hear.

Nuns are cool. It's their church that sucks.

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no need to get on the defensive, i just wanted to be sure the term "spouse" still meant what i thought it did.

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got any problem with that ?

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I agree dear.

I have many friends and acquaintances but 2 best friends

And we do discuss stuff like that,get tips ranging from lingerie to,you know.

what good is a close friend that you can't open up to.

Best friends are a great gift,every girl needs one.

somone who can hear you out and a shoulder you can lean on and she'll not be bored to listen to all your tales of woe.

I can be on the phone with each of them for 3 hours and we just got started

We know deep things about about each other.

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lol, bf yes, but when married, nope

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never

spouse is more close than anyone else, talk to your woman.

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To me it does not matter. it depends on the kind of friends you keep. A good friend will/ can tell you what to do to enjoy yourself on bed with your man. You know sex issue is so sacred that our parents do not teach us how to do it. So the experiences what we got is from friends, things we read and hear, or movies we watch. Things you might see as being bad may turn to be good only that you fail to respond the right way. So feel free to discuss sex with your good friends. Both party stands to learn. If you are not sure of your friends, tell it as a story, don't present it as you are the one involved.

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when did ify get married?

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only if your best friend is willing to coach while you both fumble foolishly

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I suppose this begs the question: Why would you do that?

If your spouse's performance in bed proves to be unsatisfactory to you, it is your spouse with whom you should discuss it, not your friend.

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