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Can You Tell Your Partner Your E-mail Account Password & Your Atm Card Pin?

Your e-mail account password gives access to all your confidential and informal messages both received and sent items. You were also advised not to disclose your Automatic Teller Machine (ATM) card pin to anyone. Why would you not like your fiance or fiancee, husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend to read your mails or withdraw from your account with your ATM?

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@axeman85- So u gave her the card because the account has given red signal. U are very funny.

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i dont have my gf ATM details as am not interested in it. and email password, she gave it to me once when i asked but on second thoughts i asked her to change it as i dont have to start having issues when i start seeing emails i dont like, so what i dont know wont worry me.

on the other hand she used to have my email password but changed it when it got hacked by these spam people my blackberry is passworded and i cant give her my password. its like my diary but she currently has my ATM card and pin but no kobo inside so am not worried.

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@ mama gee,afta d break up one culd easily change either email password or atm pin.

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i can tell my gf my password, i dont think there is nothing worng.Accept u are hiding something

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my hubby already has mine and i have his. no biggy

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Eazy,

Women are not the only ones that are unpredicatable, MEN ARE SO UNPREDICTABLE, YOU HAVE TO WEAR LIFEJACKET TO STAY AFLOAT,

I will keep my own personal emails of my friends and so is my fiance. We will both share a family email where all the family memebers in our household will share emails that directed toward the family. Personal emails will be in our individual boxes. TRUST is a big thing in my fiance and I futuere marriage. We trust each other completetly and I am not worrying about anything so is He. If you have to doubt or worry, then don't marry that person!

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In theory, I could tell a spouse (not a boyf). But it would be very unlikely, it would have to be like a specific situation like maybe if I wasn't able to check my email myself or get money out of the atm myself or something; I would never do that randomly as an expression of trust or love or something.

There's nothing funky going on in my e-mail but I think everyone deserves a little space of their own, even in a relationship.

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@eazyman You wouldn't have known if you didn't have her password. Thank God for letting the cat out of the bag.

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email a/c? yeah!

Atm pin? wohtz there?!

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Depends on the partner

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i won't ask for his details and won't offer mine.

hmmm, that's cool; so nairaland guys are actually trusting.

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The moderators wont allow me post the mails they exchanged tho their email addresses werent shown but the bottom line is never TRUST SO BLINDLY TO REVEAL SUCH SENSITIVE INFO AS YOUR PASSWORDS AND ATM PIN UNLESS YOU ARE DOUBLE SURE YOU WONT BE DISSAPOINTED BY THE PERSON YOU ARE REVEALING IT TO.

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@ poster  and SIZZLER, i've done that before( gave her my atm pin) and opened an email addy for her which i still had the password, i later changed my atm pin, but i hardly checked the email box i opened for her out of the TRUST i had thinking she wouldnt do anything silly as someone i wanted to marry, but one day when i returned from a field job offshore, i just checked her email but i was shocked to see that my own GIRLFRIEND of two years was  seeing her EX, exchanging romantic emails and also planning to travel out to meet him, when i confronted her bout it she denied, i was so angry and the following week she brought a letter on valz day that she's walking out of the relationship and that she has sold off an investment of bout 700k which i opened for her, i think i may have to post some of the mails she exchanged with HER EX on this forum as a learning point while also taking privacy into consideration by not showing their email addresses, you can read more on that here: http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-399786.0.html

So please i dont advise anyone to TRUST blindly as  you can never tell what could be happening behind your back, despite the fact that  relationship needs TRUST for it to thrive but you should always keep some level of suspicion. Some GIRLS could really be very UNPREDICTABLE.

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@topic, Craze dey worry me to do that?! Do u know some ppl have actually declined from receiving bank alerts on their phones lest their wife/girfriends/husband/boyfriends see it? Welcome to d real word!

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If u trust your partner and you've got nothing to hide, fine. The major problem is the uncertainty of whether the relationship will lead to marriage or not. For married couple, no excuse.

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ive done it b4

was an empty account with no money in it!

the look on his face! priceless!

my emails, dont really mind theres nothing incriminating there

i always hack into my mans inbox im a nosy mofo wat can i say!

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Hello Sizzler,

He is my fiance and we discussed this. We have trust for each other. I use my old email address for my girlfriends and he use his old emails for friends. We both have an email account for both of our use.

If you dont have trust, you dont have much of a relationship.

He told me he TRUST ME COMPLETELY, and so do I. He even left his email account open one time and I did not look into it because we have trust.

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@Queeneve ur husband wil still think otherwise if he discover the set up e-mail 4 ur gfriends so u better give him all.

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wify yes, girlfriend nope. except she gives me hers. then i can do the same

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I will give my husband my ATM number and my email address because I do not have anything to hide, but will set up a email account for MY GIRLFRIENDS BECAUSE if they are confiding in me I will not give it to my husband for he don't need to know what my girlfriends issues are.

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I think it's only my dad that knows my ATM pass and the possibility of my dad dupping me is 0/100. For girl friend, i wil be d last person on earth to do that. I rather show it to my sister than gfriend.

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i can give my husband but not boyfriend

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As 4 me i cn't give my bf my e-mail account password nt to talk of Atm pin code.But it amazed me whn my bf gave me his e-mail password ad he even told me dat, he as 2 e-mail ,while av b thinking dat he has just one.ad to crown it all, i met this guy on nairaland site .which i nvr dreamt off b4.all the same am gratful to God 4 gving me such a loving ad caring guy .i pray it end well ad if it does nairalander wil b the first to hear this great news.

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That is the answer & not the question.

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