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Can You Tolerate A Violent Girlfriend?

I mean can you stick to a girl you love,

but sometimes slap or hit you to any slight

provocation?

Do you think love would condone such

acts and tolerate it?

Just kinda confused here,

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I am not violent and I don't condone it in guys or girls so if my gets violent, she gets the boot

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Nah! Dats a No no for me

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Yeap cos if two ppl i mean twn lovers are in a room & 1 as violent attitude while d oder as a meek character.it is d 1 wit a meek character dat will prevail over d violent 1.

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A slap to any other part of the body even in anger could be termed romantic depending on the motive. but a slap in the face?! , boy, I'll break some vows if you know what I mean. lets try this, try to warn her and if she continues, personally, I'll quit cos I hate violence.

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@topic,

sure; why not?

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Yes with daily beating until the devil in her disapear,

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that was harsh mehn, what makes u think so?

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becos na you born her

why not marry her sharp sharp becos your life depends on her violence and stupidity

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i laugh because i foresee violent gf in ur future

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otoromagbe, why u dey laugh in greek? why not contribute yours?

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girl hitting me? uhm, well she go even fear to look into my eyes not to talk of hitting me.

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Its not easy to stick to a violent girlfriend, I once had a temperamental girlfriend that we cant stay 5 minutes without a quarrel. If I tune the telly to one station she will change it to another, if we are driving in the car she will be directing which lane i should enter, she will change the radio station to another even if i say i am listening to an interesting news, if i buy something in the house she will condemn it that it is fake. If I say one thing she will say another thing haa, I saw hell in that girls hand, she is just impossible. I told her its only a stubborn fly that will follow a dead corpse into the grave. So let everybody bear their fathers name. Now i have peace of mind and i have started regaining my lost weight and my blood pressure has come down. I can never ever condone a violent girl and i don't advise you to accommodate it talk less of tolerating it. If you well good luck if you leave long to tell the story

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*yawns*

I feel like bleeping sleeping

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There was one time I fcked a girl and after she wanted to fight me.

She slapped me and I slapped her back and kicked her out of my pad.

Then she called the police,

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Her cousin guy just called me now telling me about

how he got home and saw her crying, telling me to explain

what happened. I explained to him, and said well it will be

better for the mum to talk to me.

Problem is, the bond we have is too strong, aint easy

to let go, at the same time am in danger, wetin that girl

do today pass my power. She started shouting in the estate

assive someone is being murdered, omo mehn this shyt no funny.

My darling Amaka, werin happen?

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u should have done that long ago. just dont forget to give her a sweet upper cut as u leave just to keep things in perspective

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Same thing happened today again.

I think I might just have to back out

and restrain from making up this time.

I DON TIRE!!!

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Violent friend =YELLOW CARD

Violent girlfriend = RED CARD!!

Violent spouse = [color=]A SEASON BAN!!![/color]

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no i can' and is just because she can take me for granted.

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nope,

the last girl that made me even feel like hitting her, i had to drop her straight.

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maybe that is why you are in the girls life to change certain things.

if you endure and u can change her ok.

but if not well have u watch bolt recently just do that before she kill herself and you.

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Not in a million years. I'd endure 4 sometime n then take a HUGE revenge she'll never forget.

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I believe a girl should not raise her hands to hit her boyfriend,that also goes for a guy too.So you have to talk to her,and if she still continues with her behavior,leave her alone.SCREW LOVE

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I couldn't tolerate a violent friend I had no emotional attachment to. A Violent girlfriend's even more intolerable.

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A violent girlfriend or boyfriend should not be tolerated. Violence breeds violence and the degree is higher. That is why we see men/women shoot down their exs. Be careful. Early warnings should be considered. Might be a sign of dangers to come

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Love? Condone voilence? any guy who raised his hand to hit a lady, according to some elders will never be succesful and the same goes to a lady that raise her hand to hit a guy should be avoided.

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^^^^ you mean teeth for a tooth, not tooth for teeth^^^

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If you tolerate any abuse then obviously you think that's what you deserve, otherwise you won't tolerate it. Simple!

If she hits you, hit her back and end the relationship.

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i will advice you to leave cos nothing good comes out of a violent relationship

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d babe dey violent for bed, old boy she go ki me o

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that was really nice, she do all things for love

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I presume you dnt understand the contents of my post. If you did

you wouldnt speculate if i was a man or not.

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NO, life is too precious

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I HAVE A QUESTION (pls dont crucify me oh!!)

IF A MAN HITS A WOMAN (maybe slap) AND SHE HITS HIM BACK (harder!!! With a pestle.)

DOES THAT MAKE HER VIOLENT (abi na self defence?)

JUST WONDERING!!!

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You men are funny.How can u come out here and open ur mouth wide and talk about how ur G/Fs beat u up.Are u men at all.lf u stand firm as the man in any relationship,the woman must respect you.

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Taken is very funny. Well, this is for those guys who were called honey but later were called monkey. But as for me, I can play, romance do anything with a violent girl but cannot love her to the level of taking her as a wife. I am not ready to act any Chinese action film in my house.

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God forbid! If a man as much as threaten to hit me during courtship, I will take it as a sign that it means the man will beat me when we were married. Not to talk of hitting me, I will simply leave him. I can't even imagine a man hitting me with all those muscles.

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I would always advise someone to leave a relationship where there is violence. man or woman.

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Enough of all these meaningless threads now. . .You guys should go and get laid.

MAMA GEE, are you offering? plese let me know becos i am ever ready.

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Exactly what I have been thinking regarding this one. Although she has never expressed beating as a way

of showing love to her. But she sometimes enjoy it while she cries. I would not lie, I give her a dose of

what she needs after misbehaving and hitting me.

Another thing is, I enjoy the violence, I find it sexy and romantic,

but attimes, it goes out of hand and I feel disguted and furious.

Another consideration is that babes is just 18, please dnt crucify me,

I have dated smally way younger than her that were never violent.

In my case, I can tolerate it, but can never marry such a girl

in as much as I would really love to.

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I "kinda" dated this crazy ho from the benin/ishan tribe. Binch was mad violent.Even if I decided to go steady with her, her violence would have kept me away. She always boasted of how she gave her exes crazy problems. One day, I got mad that she hit me for no reason and I had to beat the ho down; funny thing, she loved it!!! In her warped way of thinking she always said if a guy hit her it showed he loved her; I guess that's one of the main reasons I always refrained from hitting her:I aint wanna send the wrong impression! Well, the day I hit her back was the last time she seen me! So, no, a violent person, of either gender, is best avoided!!!

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violent kee, Olorun maje ari ooo

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HABA!Is dat a question?the question sud be- can a girl put up with a guy dat beats dem?

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