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Caring- Is It All About Guys?

Hi dears, is caring all about taking a girl oüt? Gifts? Calling her every second? Giving her money 4 upkeep? Please is there more 2 caring than de above listed. Because every girl seem 2 say am not caring when i've done everything that i've listed above. Must it be de guy alone 2 do de caring? Your opinions please.

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Naija men are not romantic, they are not caring, they don't know what love is, they don't send flowers, they don't open car doors, they are not this, they are not that! I agree! 100% true as of Nov. 2008? but one thing I still don't get up till date is how silly some naija girls are especially those that run their mouth and generalize all Nigerian men to be the same. Any naija woman or girl that is still complaining about poo like this in 08 need to zip the 4k off and go get herself a guy from somewhere else or better still get a Love Machine! no one is mandated to date a naija guy incase you don't know!

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hey dude, you done so much but you don't have "bleeping HARD" included , So my guy i want you to know that all ya gurl friends will appreciate you alot if you can remove two among what you listed and replace them with bleeping, guy wise up, no woman will appreciate a man that is not active on bed.

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we guyz care alot actually , we try our best to meet ladies want

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my bands are linkin park,cold play n greenday

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Carring shouldn't be only about the guys, but there are very little things that are difficult for we guys to do. For me, I find sending text message to my hubby a herculian task, I'd rather call.

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I'd so love it if you revise/edit your post

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of course i know that. very stingy. i know that.

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You know, if I say naija men are stingy, that'd be an [i]under[/i]statement

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it is easier to get God using naija person than God fearing.  you have better chance of marrying oyinbo in naija than meeting God fearing one.  you stand a better chance if you say i want one that goes to mosque every friday, church every sunday and baba ifa every tuesdays

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you cannot give what you dont have or know nothing about. i think the concept of love and caring is alien to most of our people.  for the girls having a pair of child bearing ribs is all they show for being a woman. i will not go into the boys today because like many are saying here taking her out - bla bla is is equals caring.  

God help us with boys like these however i think many naija girls deserve some of these boys because they dont have anything to show for being a lady too.

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Scratch romance out, scratch special treatment out. A man should be willing to cook for his wife, atleast once in a while.

It's just plain outrageous that she has to do sth to get special treatment.

Can't a man just tell his wife, atleast once a week or month or once in a well that she "shouldn't worry. I'd deal with the cooking tonight. You need the rest". That's caring. or am I wrong?

Men, we're not saying it has to be the man's job, all we're saying is, show her that you care.

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But not to talk down on those men who are actually caring. I just wish all guys held this criteria within themselves but I guess that is just wishful thinking.

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If u really did care, u wld think nothing of these things. . . to care means u feel sumthin, it cant be quantified!

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