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Could This Be Love?

Iam in Lome she is in Abuja , we met in Lagos few months ago i asked her out she agreed but since then, i'm the only person that mail and call her on phone and the only reply i get is "pls give me more time to think about it" i really need a lady that will always tell me how she feel about me, is she in love with me?

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hello ma guy, see! just play along. But this you must do not rushinly ok?

Just take it cool with her, but respond just like she wants you to. Since you also gat feelings for her initially.Let those feelings come back.Reply her romantic smsis ,

Just do it.

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Or she played hard to get when u asked her out d first time, when she said No, u gave up without trying again, she likes u, but she might think u

re not really interested cos u didn't chase her, girls love dat!, now she's decided not to hide anymore, so wetin u go do??

or like d others said, maybe she no see anybody else

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O BOY DIS KNOW BE PROBLEM.

I THINK WHAT HAPPEN IS THAT SHE HAS TRY MANY GUYS.SHE FELL THAT LOOSING YOU TO SOMEONE ELSE WILL NOT BE EASY FOR HER.

THIS IS TRUE LOVE,

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Maybe she is someone that just like you and she is expressing her feelings. Maybe when you spoke to her at first, maybe you werent really up to her standard andnow you are trying - there are lots of things that we girls look at you know.

And maybe she is just been out with a few guys and she has found out that they were not good for her - or they broke her heart left right and centre. And you are 'old reliable' in a good way - she has known you for a long time and she doesnt mind giving it a go.

Let the test of time prove her intentions. Give it a chance now - take a risk- thats depending on you if you like her.

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I dont think its love.

Its either of these 2

1, she has no other guy to fill her interest. No available guy she can call on a whim and talk to. No available guy she can off-load her sexual energy on. You get my drift?

2, she may have secretly fancied you but for wat-ever reason neva thought you were worth the trouble or you didn't look like a potential guy and now she suddenly thinks you are. Though I would want to know why she's coming on you after so long a denial and dismissal.

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nope this is not love at all, she is a user and you are proving to be less of a man by allowing this crazy arrangement in the first place.

So sometime later in your married life you guys have financial problem would you be happy for her to sleep around just so she can help ease the cash flow problems?

Be a man and end this now, fund your own education and stop using her, at the end of the day you are going to dump her anyway and then start calling her a sl.u.t

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No o he wants u pples opinion

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@All, A P.I.M.P and his investment.

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Your the gold-digger in this situation. I guess your pride went out the window.

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yesss but think twice

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@Afro king - Thank you for the compliment huney, i'm glad someone appreciates my rantings

@cutey- sis, u know i be feeling you!! , this telepathy thing is going crazy, dont worry i'm sure some day we'll find some topic on here we disgree on, although it probably wouldnt be that bad, because we'd have different BUT VALID points

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well, Love is a very funny feeling, it shivers a guy's timbers and shudders a lady's mind. While Love leads to marriage i would say that Marriage is not the culmination of all love affairs. There are other things to marriage other than love.

Such as maturity and other factors. You would need to assess you situation and make a projection, feelings do deceive but ask yourself some questions.

1. Would i still feel the same way about this fella in the next 5, 10,15 or 20 years?

2. If the major factor(s) that makes me love this fella gets lost over time, would my feelings remain the same?

3. Does this fella feel the same way for me?

Sorry mate, but the love that goes into marriage is a 2 way thing, i would never advise you to marry someone who is not madly crazy over you. To me love is reciprocal, only when i get about twice the feeling i give.

Think twice they say, i would say think in multiples ,

Except you see divorce as an option which is not necessarily as bad as the taboo people think it is.

Enjoy

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Thanx everyone for ur reply

I really appreciate it

But I still need more reply pls

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wow- wat a tale so pathetic, but i think wen am deeply in love i dnt care bout anyone nt even my family cos they wudnt keep dat love still in next 10 years

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BREAK IT DOWN CUTE Bottom

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I once had a girl who seriously loved me , i mean she was crazy about me but she told me ho ha that if i couldnt impress her family financially and gift wise, then i should forget about getting married to her. [Ofcourse that pissed me off] But its really possible to love someone but not spend the rest of your life with the person.

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@ goldie-

so watz rilly the difference between em two love and relationship

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therez a possibility neva been a victim of true love thou

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its possible. u myt love sm1 but cant stand d person 4 d rest of ur life. marriage take a lot of courage, dats why u see some ppl wld be so in love but the marriage wont work even dou dey try cos its way different from love or a relationship.

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Yes i think it is possible

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this is a question u need 2 think about and answer by urself ain't nobody gon tell u wat it is

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@ Topic

I think that can be possible on one condition i.e the person you love so much is older than you are, Apart form that, i don't think it is possible on anyother condition except the person donesn't truly love you as he or she claims to.

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@hot chic

Do u think so

Honestly i am

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i don't think you're in love.

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@blacknbold

please can you give me instances.

am confused !!

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bustawhy didnt u call us now

could it be a bad smell or is it desorji again

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take a look at my profile pic pple, u call that fat?

did this guy really go to skool? u don't even know what fat is.

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Adesdgi, I bet 100% I weight less than you, yet, you keep calling me fat (not that I mind, na jealousy dey kill you)you seems to love calling people big and fat! wetin?

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lol am loving the pay-per view fight

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Sorry, that ain't love at all. Try again.

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its not love its boredom, go get a cat!

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Not sure, Perhaps love on one part and not on the ova.

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i understand what you are going thru

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thank u

jesus ma bless u

damn cheap nd greed

haba

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hey, on the other hand, if you can afford it, spend it, afteral, how much is it?

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Ruby Pearl

You are trying to make HCH3COO talk and from what I can see,he is not having it. You already concluded your opinion from your first statement.

HCH3COO you are a wise man.

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sounds desperate to me.

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Answer a simple question

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Invaluable lessons?

And why do you think that is?

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Invaluable lesson don't you think?

I'll leave you to your assumptions on my feelings and thoughts about women. You will never have a clue until you reach out to know.

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Is that what you learned abt women?

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You this yeye boy. You no know say if you wan chop fowl yansh you suppose bring oka ababa. No money no toto, you don miss road.

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You greddy man

You want her to spend a week in your house,and do all sorts to her body,but you're not ready to pay into her account,you must be a theif,

You claim you've been dating for only 2 weeks,too early for you to give her money,but not too early to keep her in your house for one week, You're a theif.

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congrats Ojubi on your successful awakening to the attempts of a gold digger

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Thank u guys for all ur responces they are timely and useful, there can not be a beautiful place like naira land,

I followed some of ur advice i did not call her for some time she did not even flash, when i call her yestaday her first quastion was ve u paid in my money?.

Men, this girl is into this relatinship for cash. she can go hang a thousand times. i am looking for love after finding love my money can follow. i am not selfish i am only being reasonable.

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She asking you for money?? Ha, no no. . . This is not love my brother, When real love comes, no one will have to tell you.

How will you know? Well, the day you wake up in a bathtub of ice and discover that she has remove your kidneys to go sell for money, now. . .  That's love.

True love will not beg you for money, instead she will use her initiative to starts her own business.

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LOL

Funny post.Jst pay in d money

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