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Crossroads- Money Or Attention, Which Should I Choose?

I've got 2 serious boy friends who are both cute enough for me but-

, one is rich and well connected (from a rich background) who overwhelms me with everything money can buy but spends so little time with me.

, while the other is an hussling job-seeker with enough time on his hands to lavish on me.

I'm 28 and think of settling down but dont know which to choose.

Kindly advice me since I'm a kinda person who craves attention but also realize that marriage without money is fragile and empty.

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iice, watz your point?

Kindly open up and let's hear ur point.

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@ madlady, tanx i appreciate. My wave lenght angle of things is one thing I didn't consider. And are we really on thesame page there? I mean watz ur specifics when u say wavelenght cos I need the money and the time to be candid (even though money aint my problem cos my family is aight).

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Ah so you are using the term "dating" in the true term.

If you look you will see I did not criticise you in any way.

I've "dated" a fairly "well to do" guy, I found him to be very very demanding, I could say he wanted to be around me 24/7, it was exhausting.

If you feel you need more time and attention from whoever you choose as your life partner then pick the person who is on your wave length.

@Poster these are different days, if you are both hard working and open to working together, with a little luck and a good eduction you can make it with a guy who is not wealthy.

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Gud enuf tht I'm relating to pple who av both sharp IQs as well as eyes.

The pix ain't mine! But since the scammer who is broadcasting the pix ddnt care bout its publicity, y shld I?

The significance of the pix is just to depict an innocent gurl who needs a sincere guide, thats all.

And thanks to all of u for the posts so far:

I really wasn't double dating and FYI, I aint evn sleeping wt either of them,

I 1st got steady wt my rich bf and believed tht he was all I needed but after a while, he consistently left me alone for long spells of time. He was caring enuf to always make sure I neva lacked the material things though but for me, tht was nt the koko. Did I tell him so? Yes I did. But he always had "valid" reasons to be off again. Well, like I said, I needed company and was also lucky to get 1.

He came ova to our aus with a coz's frnd and later showed interest. To be candid, I told him all bout my bf bt tht wasn't enuf to dissuade him. Wt no promises of anytin whatsoeva, he stl satyed close and was always there for me. I'd say he's just bn nice bt i'm getting to like him kind of.

And before u start passing judgemnet, I'm sure lots of u cld do worse. So I'd appreciate comments, advice, and +ve critisisms NOT -ve blahs.

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so you play two guys now you want play NAIRALANDER'S with another persons pix? ERROoooooooooooooo you failed

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It is not nairaland. . .when u dey fall like chicken 4 her dat time. . .anyhow sha na your own be dat.

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What's the pixs for? So, after playing two guys, you want to eat your cake and have it.

Girl, Ashewo better pass you. At least they have taken prostitution as occupation.

Get out of here and please remove the innocent person's pixs you posted, we are not fools.

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^^

Then who~

U mean Opelovely's even using someone's pic

whats happening to nairaland these days!

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Hold on,

Holdd on,

Where is Pweety4me

Isnt that Opelovely

One girl that pweety4me and the_amaka know pweety well

through me

What THA F~cuk is going on here-

folexultra who the HELL are you

Opelovely come here and explain this

I smell A SCAM HERE, Using someone's pic,

here is the link,

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=71124

SCAM

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THE POSTER IS NOT THE PERSON IN THE PIC.

this pic is all over the net and has been used to defraud people online from dating sites. this poor gal's pic has been used in France by Ivory Coast scammers to defraud old unsuspecting guys. will try to find the documentary about it for y'all!

the gal from the pic knows that her picture is circulating online by fraudsters who stole it from a modeling website.

the story from the poster MAY be true but the pic sure aint.

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Lol . . . Phew!!

Finally!!!

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yeaaaaaaa got it! see ya

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I'm aiight!!!

Here is it **********************

Let me know when You get it, so I can take it down.

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Missy B wat's up na, giv me da stuff na

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@MRbrownJAY, are you serious?

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why is everyone using that poor gal picture as their own. she must be fuming knowing that there are maybe 20 people pretending to be her. . . . . . . . . . . beware poster, that pic has been used to scam/defraud others and they might think you were the one since you are using that same gal photo.

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It is not possible to love two people equally! Besides, you're double dating so don't blame your man whenever you see another girl on his bed.

Are you marrying for money & attention OR love? I don't understand

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I smell something fishy. . .

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babe, let me give it to u straigh with no strings attached. u're 28 & u desire to settle down so why date two guys @ d same time. u're definately a playa. how wld u feel if u found out d rich guy is commited to another girl.probably dats why u're not getn enuf attention from him.I was once player & can read the guys attitude. do a research on dis, try & find out from his close pals or relatives. we guyshave d tendency to love more than one chic.lavishn GIFTS on u could be a sign he's discovered its one your love languages. another love lanuguage u respond to is QUALITY TIME. babe sit and think. u know in your mind dat u love one more than the other.u cant marry both of them so decide now. am going offline now; av to do sme laundry & get ready for work. still av a lot to say. will post another reply soon. av fun and think positive

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