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Dating Mistakes?

Okay-I have made the promise that I would no longer put too much of my personal business on NL, so I will generalize as much as possible:

Please list, or tell me all the dating mistakes or gaffes that you can make when dating a 9ija man that can make him angry with you? If you're a man, let me know what would make you not want to date a woman (especially Akata) anymore? Please remember this is only referring to new relationships/dating only.

I'm only asking cuz I know there are some cultural differences that we as Americans don't think much of, but it's a big deal to you guys. Your input, please.

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The hostile part was saying I make you sick-can we be a little more mature here? And in case you haven't noticed, I happen to be 1 of only a handful of akata women that come on here-and honestly the only one that stuck around withstanding double criticism becuz I'm American-so it's not not like I have other American women to exchange notes with on here, lol.

And maybe I should have clarified myself-I wasn't just talking of "going out" on a date as much as I was talking about getting to know a man on a deeper level.

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hostile ke? im only saying the fact. not being hostile here. i kno u hav a different cultural background but u talk like u r the only 1 dat has and is dating nigerian men even we nigerian girls dont talk as much as you do. ok which one is dating mistakes with nigerian men? dont u kno how u go on date with other men from different cultures or better still go on a date with a man?

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ooooooooh-aren't you a little hostile? LOL! Need I remind you, I am from a different cultural background and trust me when I say-THERE ARE DIFFERENCES. The only constant between Nigerian men and Akata men are what they have between their legs.

If I agree with your point, will you agree that you, as an 9ija woman and I, as an African American woman, think alike?

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this lady makes me sick. everytime nigerian man or american man,this and dat, r u d only one to date one? haba. wat do u mean dating mistakes with nigerian men, r they not men again? abeg

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