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Desperate Measure: Did This Guy Go Too Far?

i don't know what the limits are but u guys should read this:

A friend of mine is dating this lady, though he wasn't so into her from day one (she made all the moves & did all the chasing) he later decided to give it a shot. it was cool initially until her arrogance(her folks are filthy rich) and possessiveness ( + constantly demanding marriage) became 2much. Knowing who she was, my friend knew dat dischargin her would be difficult so he decided on a desperate measure; he met with her and told her there's a truth that she's unaware of, he claimed he once had a mental condition for which he was hospitalised and that he still trips once in a while!

Guess what? it worked!! The girl broke into tears, broke off the relationship and left for London. My concern is what if this lady goes about telling everybody and anybody that he was once mad? (which she can), with the gravity of this lie, wouldnt there be consequences?

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She knew you were trying to brake up with her, she had seen it coming that's why she broke it off.

And guess what? No one will believe you were once mad, when the rumor starts, because the rumor is baseless.

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@samsilo: i think u did the rite thing, u used courage.

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i think this lie was rather too bogus! would the girl kill him if he honestly declared his lack of interest in the relationship? did he try to talk some sense into her head and it didnt work? for posterity's sake i hope this issue does not come back to bite him the Bottom!

well u got what u wanted, abi?

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dremoney, you are a funny lot.

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the end justfies the means

yup, because it worked. but don't u see a storm coming afterwards? it could be worse especially when people heas this & they think its true. 

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really i belive if the lady wants 2 use it against your friend it wont work unless he is not smart enough.he cahive his end though not thru the best means and any good thinking individual should see his

reason.

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I have a feeling this guy has broad shoulders, is 6'2" tall, and looks like Morris Chestnut.

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It's no big deal. Whether she dramatized on the media or not, you remain who you are. While I am not in support of abrupt termination of a relationship, especially when there is nothing to warrant such action, we sometimes  lie to save our heads. Afterall, who on earth that hasn't lied? But if he feels, that is the only way to stop what he considered unworkable in future, so be it.

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thanks for the good point u made.

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how could he had done that,  it is really a bad idea which might be used against him.

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its cool to know there's still a drop of fun in this situation (i also found it funny when he told me). But really , its like me telling my boss that my folks died just to get a week of work! it's crazy.

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yup, cos it worked. but don't u see a storm coming afterwards? it could be worse especially when pple heas this & they think its true.

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the end justfies the means

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sooooo lol looooooooolllll

hahahahahahahahahahhaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!!!

Dem gurlz yeah?

Mi'bruv, tell yer man he gat his game on point.

So what if she tells ppl your guy waz thiz and dat? This is the worst that can happen. Your guy (If he thinks it is necessary to join up issues with her) just has to tell the truth and ask whoever that if they had the same situation to deal with would they do otherwise. Hopefully her coming out to tell people stuvs about your man that was apparently told in confidence to a lover + the fact that she broke off the relationship and ran like a bat out of hell + her BAD character as highlighted in your post = People will see through her and make their own decisions. If not your guy should try this,,,,,,,

Listen attentively while the rumours are being spread then say- I cant believe this girl will turn this poo around this way, I promised her on my life I wouldnt tell anybody about HER story and I am keeping my end of the bargain. Damn, I guess she stopped taking her medication, I'm gonna call her Doctor then call her. She must be in a bad place right now, poor darling.

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Personally i don't see any major issue here.

Yes yo friend was a boy by lying, and it's his lies so even if she tells people he's mad that's his headache.

Lies have a way of comng back round to hunt u, why are u concerned?

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i think dis is funny he should ve sed d truth but who cares so far it worked

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