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Did I Act Well?

Hey, Just don't know what to do right now. my GF is out of town and I promised I won't do our thing with another girl.

I havnt been in love for a long time since I broke up with my girl of over two years. But this time, despite our tribal differences,

I love her and I would not want to betray that love. consequently, i have limited my activities to office, gym, light outing and fellowship.

However, on friday, late in the evening, after leaving office, I decided to see an old pal i haven't seen for a while. so I went and it was a nice outing.

He has this neighbour, a replica of the falling angel, fare and bold and she picked at me straight away. It was a mere chat i never gave much attntion. The following morning being saturday, I spent most part of the day with indoors seing a movie. at 12pm, I had a violent bank on my door with my friend's voice shouting my name. Long and short, he did not come alone, he came with CHICHI, the devil as I thought. I left them both and went to my neighnour's and spent some time. before I came back she was already in my bed room resting. At first, i felt wow, o boy see opportunity both on a second thought, i said not this time. my old self nudged me towards her but i seemed to be in control. I gently walked up to her and explained I am engaged and i won't want to hurt my girl. she was seething tears and told me she had dreamt of since last night she saw me.

I had to start consoling her and later warned my friend never to bring whores to my house. Was that right?

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y was d Dam crying

ernestly===some naija gals make me cringe

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@poster

Well done,

u must be an humble lion.

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^^

batwoman

are u sayin that 9gerian men do not have self control

then u need 2 try me~

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any way, guy u act right.

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**Sniffs the air** and declares - I smell a NARCISSIST post - then humbly strolls out

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Hey Tavelista, I did not ask out of gult or whatever, I did what i did out of respect for the mutual love we both profess. I used to be ur kind until i found love. I hope one day you will find love and stop sleeping around. I had my turn, u could check my old posts but those were the most miserable moments of my short life so far. The noblest reason a man can live for is love and dying for same is the holiest of all!

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You are a p.r.a.t

Take your  willy and ego to some sex chat forum, Mr Nigerian prat!!

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Be proud of yourself. Most men would love your type of self-discipline.

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Does this happen alot? People just crashing in strange beds without permission? Ewwww

I moving back to Pandora

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Your girl is lucky. A man like you is almost "IMPOSSIBLE"

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@OP,

That you are wondering if you did right can only mean one thing: You are regretting letting the Kitty-Cat go!

Did you do right? Maybe?

What I'd love to know is, supposing she wasn't that forward and had played it coy with you, would you have referred to her as a LovePeddler?

And once you didn't think of her as a LovePeddler, what decision would you have made?

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of course you acted well,am sure you know that.

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thumbs up i know some pple here dat wont do likewise. abeg u try

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You did d ryt thn.

Bt seriously,did ur pal fork d same gal and she xpectd u 2dig in2 d same hole?

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Yes u did the rite thing man

Im proud of you~

Im equally very good @ self control Just like u~

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You did the right thing, bro

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