I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and it started out right until the economic recession started having its toll on my bf, that notwithstanding, I supported him emotionally, financially and otherwise. But he started withdrawing, calls or chats me less frequent than usual which he attributed to his financial stress and I tried to understand though wasn't easy. We both stay in the same town but might not see for a month or two. At a point i started getting drained emotionally but I still kept faith with the hope of a "better tomorrow". It got to a point that i was making more of the contacts and anytime he initiates a call, it is mostly always for one financial request or the other. I started feeling used though he kept professing love, that he was only just troubled etc. The high point was yesterday when I received his call after a couple of days and it turned out to be financial request again. The situation was a crucial one though not necessarily a "do or die" affair, I had the money but I didnt want to give in to his request this time around. I started feeling guilty later on and wished I had assisted (though one mind kept telling me it was a good decision). Pls babes/guys in the house, what would u have done in my situation?