i've been having some problems with my girl lately. she says i'm quick tempered and all that. so i wrote her, asking her to choose between our going our separate ways so she could be herslf (cos she says the frequent quarells breaks her down a great deal) or to stick with me and my faults cos i don't think i'll be changing soon( no bragging). since then she has been moody. this morning she broke down and started crying, she went to work but now she is back, crying out her brains. i see no wrong in what i wrote so her current mood looks mysterious to me, i see it as a simple matter of choice. did i do wrong?