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i've been having some problems with my girl lately. she says i'm quick tempered and all that. so i wrote her, asking her to choose between our going our separate ways so she could be herslf (cos she says the frequent quarells breaks her down a great deal) or to stick with me and my faults cos i don't think i'll be changing soon( no bragging). since then she has been moody. this morning she broke down and started crying, she went to work but now she is back, crying out her brains. i see no wrong in what i wrote so her current mood looks mysterious to me, i see it as a simple matter of choice. did i do wrong?

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You are mean.She had better leave you quick before you kill her with your bad temper

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u rily did wrong,dat was harsh.

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I no run her down oooo!! Just couldn't see anyone competing with her. So, I figured she must be the only contestant

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@Poster,

Bros you got to do what you have to do. Na person wey dey wear shoe dey know where im dey pain am pass.

@folapra,

The pic in the thread is better than the one in your profile. Change the profile pic to this one.

And one more thing, you're cute.

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you were wrong. you should have simply sat her down and talked to her. not yelling at her or scolding her talk to her i mean you sit and LISTEN and SHE talks. find out exactly what is bothering her and THEN decide what to do from there

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That's a silly thing to say. If a guy hurt u in the past don't take it out on the whole male gender. Jeez!!

@ poster I'm a guy, but i gotta tell u the truth: that was downright insensitive. Cmon!! U gave her an ultimatum!! If na me be the girl i for vex well well.

But since you admit you have a temper, i think the problem is already half solved. Kinda.

My advice? Don't be giving people ultimatums like that. If she takes offence and walks out of ur life u'll probably run back here screaming HEARTBREAK.

Good luck

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its amazing how men think like animals.

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y dont u try something very very very mysterious to you, like ehhh i dunno walking in her shoes for once. try imagining if u were ur girlfreind, how would u feel if someone said that to you. Now, yes i know ur neanderthral brain might not be able to compute such a task but please dont let us down. some of us on this site actually dont think u are a complete buffon.

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Bobo you dey too harsh, you should have written something much better.

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@poster

your options are just too straight. these are not options but rather ultimatums!

there is no ¨meeting half way¨ its my way or the highway.

come on now, you have to give in a little when you are in a relationship. if you want everything to be YOUR way then thats not a relationship thats dictatorship.

whatever troubles you that makes you have mood swings has nothing to do with her and therefore you shouldnt lay it on your poor girl who has absolutely nothing to do with the matter.

its too easy to have trouble at work/stress or whatever and then come home and let it all out on your girl.

its also phreaking cheap.

if by quick temper it means that you get pissed at anything and get hot headed then you have to figure out whats bothering you emotionally. either way, you are to blame if you cant have a normal discussion without blowing up.

get a grip and sort out what are the causes to the bad/quick temper. however you can.

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Did u just call that pic OKAY? u no well. The chic too fine.

Now back to your prob. U are wrong, your yeye eyes will open when she pick herself up and dump u.

Try to show her respect and love. I think u are too big headed. She may be the one doing the loving thing while u seat and enjoy.

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tnks. will definitely try to. didn't know i was harsh. going to see what i can do right awayyyyy. folapra, i ain't got no Plan 'B', and, is dat ur pics? u are just my definition of a normal african beauty. no artificial. u r okay.

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@poster,

I second it, you are too harsh. Just pet her pet her pet her, but still be urself. if u are quick tempered learn to always embarrass her with pet and love after each feat of hot temper.

But try control ur temper oohh, u might shoot her dead someday cause women can be really silly and can do very annoying stunts.

U just hav to find a way to keep loving her and petting her, it will make her stop complaing about ur hot temper.

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Really, i think u'r wrong,rada 2 harsh wif ur options,obvious u gat a plan 'B'

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