My girlfriend told me that her ex invited her for his wedding in May. I know this issue has be trashed out (being invited to an ex's wedding), but i want to know it from the significant other's view. When she told me that and asked me whether she should go or not, all i simply said was "if u feel it is right, u can go, but if u feel it is not right, don't go". i didn't mean to impose her onto anything as the decision is hers, but she told me my statement is really "pregnant" with meaning (what she meant by that was i was indirectly telling her to use her senses to decide whether to go or not, which i wasn't) and that she would not go, cos she doesn't want a situation whereby something like this will occur in the future and i would refer to this issue (my girl is the very jealous type and though she doesn't show it, i know she's not really happy when i talk to my ex, which is not often).
this is a guy she told me left her in her dire time of need, when she was in a critical life-threatening situation in the past, and who left her to tend her wounds alone. she had vowed not to date anyother man again in her life b4 i met her. it even took me so much of my time and patience b4 she even agreed for me to take her out on a date. afterwards the guy came running back to her, pleading for her to give him another chance, even calling and talking to her mum to plead with her daughter on his behalf. he later said that he was getting married to his present gf because he was getting older and that forever in his life, he will know he has lost a precious gem.
did i reply her right?