i met this lady while i was having my NYSC and we started courting, immediately after the national service her mum called me and ask me how serious is our relationship, and i told her my intention to marry her daughter, she later told me to come with my parent so that she can know my people, which i did some weeks after with every intro. gift, my intention was to fixed a date for the wedding after the intro but along the line i was dupe by a family friend who ran away with my money and was even planning to assassinate me.
this disturbed and prolonged my plans for the wedding, almost a year after the intro i called my fiancee to propose a date for our wedding but to my surprise she told me she wont agree on a date unless the we pick a date for another introduction first which i dis- agree with her immediately, i told her if she want another intro we can still do everything on the same day which she refused.
she gave me the engagement ring i gave her back and left my house in annoyance, to my utmost surprised she never bother to call me again after a month i called to ask after her wellfare and she did the same back after another two months, everything was like that until after six months she called me that she want to see me and i invited her over, when she came to my place she apologised for her action and ask for my forgiveness, i accepted her apology but i told her i may not be able to continue the affairs since i dont know what she has been up to for the past six months, i did that to know if she was sobered for her past action or someone force her to come and see me. it is now a month since she came to apologise and up till now i have never heard from her, the day she left my place i called to know about her journey back home.
my question is this, did she expect me to wellcome her back just like that?