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Dilemma: She Is 4 Years Older Than Me. What Do I Do? Please Advice O

Friends,

I have been dying for this chic for the past 8 months now

I finally summoned courage to approach her 3 months ago and we have been talking / having a swell time.

Only to discover she is 4 years older than me (she does not look it. Am 27)

Am in dilemmatic situation right now

I like her

What do i do people?

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I have been there. It's really hard to say the truth. In my own case, I decided to take BEN JOHNSON. Things like this depends on a lot of factors for example, Does she know that she's older than you. Does she have a personality that can boss you in future? If yes, then run because she's going to drum it into your ears that she's older than you. It works for some, My aunty is 2 years older than my uncle and they're doing fine (I guess). Good luck

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Is it today that you realise she is four years older than you are? Let me tell you that syndrome of am 25 and she is 37 has gone far back when my ancestors died. Lately in us a woman of 45 got married to a man of 34 and the most unbelievable part of the confirmed story is that the man is the one bearing children instead of the woman whos is now under menopause take it or leave it . Log on to: abcnews.go.com/health/story. So dear if there is mutual love between both of you forget age matter its just number.

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OP, if you are uncomfortable with the age difference I suggest you let her know and break up now. Allow her find someone else while she still has the time.

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find younger babe pls

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Guyz Lets be realistic age is more than just a number.Do you know that ladies grow old faster than guyz?I promise you'll be suprise to see the way she wil change PHYSICALLY infact STRUCTURALLY after her first baby.Be wise ooh!

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This is not a hard decision to make, if you are really convince that you love her, i don't think age should be a bearer since she does not look older, if she is aware of the age difference and she still respect you. i don't see anything wrong with it

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she is also concerned too

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age ain't nothin but a number, grow a pair and be a man, or grow a tail and run

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ujujoan, ur harsh o,

do u want a polygamous home

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^^^ shut up please!

@ Poster

at 27 you are an adult, so you can date anybody you like, even if she's 10 years older!

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my guy no mind this ppl,

age is more than a number, if not God will have created us together n distributed ages,

imagine marryin her n when ur 55 n agile,she is 61 n wrinkled, fat n too unappealing

hit her only if it is temp.

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Wel u guys re both mature,27 n 31 u shld knw wat u want,if its cool wt u den no wahala.

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Well she doesnt look older so follow your heart.

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Age is just a number, if u like her, then continue with her if not lean back

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So what if she's older than you?

Grow some balls, and look beyond the 4-year difference, if you really like her as much as you claim to.

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