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Distant Relationships; How Worthwhile Is It?

Distant relationships can be scary. Do you think it can be managed?

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Hmmm, distance relationship, it depends on how close you are with that person and how the kind of trust trhe two of you have for each other. A friend of mine was involved in one relationship before the guy in question relocated to UK to do his masters.They talked on phone for some time, at least once in a week, then it went into once in 2weeks, from there things changed and at times once in three weeks or so. It takes time, trust and money to keep the realtionship going.

The long and short of is that the guy came back for the dad's burial, only for my friend to realise that she was not the only girl in the guys life and the guy mite not even call her for like 2 to three days. Hmmm, long distance relationship na WHALA TO me, except if you people are married and one has to stay abroad for one reason or the other. It is not worth it

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I think it can work if you are realistic and willing to put in work, sooner or later someone will have to relocate .

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what exactly do you people mean by distant relationship? For instance, i have been dating my woman for the past four years and left for my Postgrad last yr hoping to go back by February 2012.Is this long distance relationship in its right definition or are we not safe as people have said ? People here are saying long distant relationship don't work, can you please define in simple terms when a relationship is to be classified distant relationship.

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Distance relationship? It aint even worth a dime & never would i involve myself or advice someone to indulge in it, i get myself some another chickz straight up when my gf & her family relocate down to another town not to talk of doing online crapz of a thing.

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Love has no price tags,  how to justify its worth? I asked myself the questions multiple times, why keep a distance relationship? Why not go for a local guy or someone of the same culture? I never had "special" likings for dark guys,  why I fall for a black guy 11,000km away? I can't find the answer too,  just followed my heart

Listen to your heart, if you feel the person out there somewhere is what you seek for in a life partner then work towards achieving a future together. Its not a easy love path but I would think when it does success, I am sure both will greatly treasure their togetherness. If both parties don't have the same goal, same feelings, understandings etc. even though in the same town relationships wouldn't work out too.

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truth be told without sentiments

- A man needs his comforter; a woman needs her soulmate. it's uncontrollable if you have to be away from one another for a while. However, if this goes on for an extended period of time then you MUST do all you can to either get together ASAP or you will drift apart (even if you communicate regularly).

We all know this, but some of us are more logical than others. others are emotional.

Been there, done that. Been hurt by one who meant all to me. At the same time I've hurt someone dear to me. Nobody's to blame. BLAME DISTANCE!! It messes a lot of things up.

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Distance relationship does not really mater,it all about trust.

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