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Disturbed, Did I Get It Wrong?

Hi all,

I don't know if I got this all wrong. I told my boyfriend that I had some feelings for another person. He felt very bad but we talked about it and it seems that all is well.I however feel that this might have caused or will cause a scar in the relationship. I really don't want to leave, I see a future with him, but I dont know if I have used my hand to spoil something beautiful.

Please your contributions will be appreciated.

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Hmmm. . .humans! Never satisfied. Na greed go kill una.

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u dont have any problem what u have is just a small mental in ur head by teling him that kind of thing. if i am ur guy i will just get myself a new car. and pack the old car in my back yard.

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U said too much Koko is bad 4 u

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All is well hun just re-adjusting my priorities etc

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Im ok thanks. How are you?

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Y d hell did u tel him dat? I knw of a friend who went 2 visit her best friend's bf and got Molested, she came bak scarred and foolishly told her boy friend, the heart break she got , kept her on a hospital bed 4 a week.

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Atleast you were honest. Now if your serious with your bf, the real test is not to act on those feelings. Goodluck.

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Everybody is crucifying me. The person in question is very far from where i stay right now so there is no question of cheating. Its just dat i got to know dat he wld soon get married and i suddenly felt like i was losing something. I love my boyfriend greatly and hope to marry him soon. However, I havent noticed any negative behaviour in the part of my boyfriend.

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@Poster,

So sad. I don't think you want to be with ur boyfriend. He's just your fallback guy. Being honest was out of guilt not because you care.

You needed to get it out of your system. This unknown feelings is likely to fade and when it does, you'll be sad & alone.

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Yes you got it completely wrong and if i were your bf then i will let u go and be with that person.

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oh goodness. Why on earth would you tell a person you see a future with (and want to be with?) that you have feelings for someone else?

Do you really want to be with him? Or is are you just pitying him?

Yeah of course it'll scar the relationship. You estimated that really well.

Pele.

Do you have feelings for your boyfriend? Who do you want to be with? If it is him, let him know it.

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