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Do Cute Girls Avoid Cute Guys?

Why is it that the cute girls run away from the cute brothers? Everytime, its the not-so-good-looking sisters that wanna dance with me in a party while the cuteys just wink from the angles, Everytime, a cute sister will stare at me sitting in a bus or train and end up sitting with the white guy on the opposite side - and keep staring at me, every single time! its just so sick, why cant girlz create an atmosphere for the brother to make his move?

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so a cute guy cannot also be a real man?

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They run because women are not looking for cute , they want a real man who will take care of her.

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well i am handsome but yet am not a player,i do not know the reason why many girls do think handsome guys are players,i think they should stop thinking that way.

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yeah! cos cute dudes smells trouble

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sum cute gals are friendly, and sum can b vry proud. I detest proud gals and i ignore them immediately i notice any atom of pride

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I dnt know why every girl thinks,cute guys are playas.my gurlfriend once told me,and its very shocking.

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Lets leave out the hussling for mirror issue u can always buy more mirrors; whitelexi is just that girls what to be centre of attention and a cute Guy means competition; once had a girl tell me that she would not go out with me because am good looking and probable have too many girls after me with some much confident that you would think she has known me all my life. Add being well paid and head screwed on etc to being cute - my man u have an uphill task- Girls just conclude you are playa.

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What would we define as cute - i hav seen cute guys with bad attitudes, maybe thats a cause.

Oga o Whitelexi, if nobody blows ur trumpet abeg do it urself jare - declare that you are cute everywhere u go.(but u fine sha no be joke)

I feel that its because 'cute' sistas nos how much hussle it is being with a 'cute' guy. Cute guys are alwys the centre of attention, they always attract the ladies even though they dont wanna - the ladies just keep coming at them.

But if its with a guy that isnt all that, lets say a low maintenance guy, he will give u the most attention, girls wont be swarming around him that much.

I personally like all the attention going to me, and i compliment anyone am with. also i dont wanna have to be hussling for the mirror in the house cause ma man thinks he is cute.

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Well said ma sister, its usually the pride thing.

Think this topic is cool, from personal observations,when out on student nights. I realise it takes more effort to pull that (verry cute) chic, cos she wants to pass a message "I'M NOT LIKE ONE OF THEM GIRLS" While the guy feels "WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT". While the guy talks/walks with confidence, it is mistaken for arrogace, While trying to be cool, she goes (he too dey pose). Usually the guy walks away impatientley, cos he feels "humilated" by not being received they way "other" girls would. And the chic herself, she's not willing to give herself just like that so there's usually this repulsion out of selfpride which is good atimes, but to some extent.

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most cute guys r full of themselves their egos are as big as airplanes and their female counterparts r sumtimes like that which results in a massive personality clash since pride takes over, it's all abt d personality 4 me b4 looks!

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I am a fine girl by God's grace and I expect nothing less as in my guy. But with a good personality too.

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I was gonna post this topic. It seems that cute guys are always overlooked by cute sistas because they dont want to play with fire. Sistas dont to share with someone. There is impression that cute guys can never be single and you find out that some of them are single and nice. Its just a public percetion of cute guys.Ladies think they are players and cannot settle down. People think that they are not sexually adventurous because they cant go an extra lenght  to satisfy their ladies since  they can easily get lady's attention.

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Anywayz i tink itz about d person not necessarily d looks, so cute or not, if his personality ticks, why hold back?

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I think he's sayin dt relatnships r about who's boss so a leader wud look for a follower

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well since every body want where he or she will be the governor of the house,then positive will always be looking for negative right?

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u and ur dirty mind. only said sth bout wrappers and blankets oh

enways, i settle for that. howz it over there?

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u've got some luck u r in canada, how's it over there today? Freezing?

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its an ego issue.

On the guys part he is like: am cute enough to go meet her, let her create the enablin enviroment, i may end up toasting her.

while the gal is like: am a very cute gal y should i be seen droolin over him, when there r lots of guys waiting to ask me out.

But realistically, they both want each oda.

mind u its not a one way thing!!!!

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whitelexxi

BBBBBBSSSSSSSSSSSSS u look like a player, err well from my experience on this lifetime i would say alittle bit more than that, but as for the whole cute thing, i try not to dwell on looks but coincidentally my bf has been handsome, as for hte cute girl running from cute guys thing well maybe thats in london shasha. cute guys can be nice actually from my excperience the cute nigerina guys are very sweet while the unattractive ones just make themselves look worse with their irritating attitudes. o and by the way whitelexi

u are not cute u are VERY HANDSOME, GIVE CREDIT TO THOSE GENES BRO. i have spoken and u know im telling the truth byebye

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ur in tha university because the school system is different in nigeria.

i agree wit whitelexi on this one

i feel u ladies too tho

self absorbed guys r so lame its pathetic

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Hey, no hard feelings, just making sure i'm being "my brother's keeper."

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Hey dearzi don't make me laugh. I'm in the university -- that's one.

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I'm just kidding. I'm in WV -- and I'm 17 which is "too young"

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@ Whitelexi and Zahymaka

You guys are funny, who said a good husband material shouldn't know/ wouldn't know that his lady love has insecurities and would need re-affirmation every now and again, instead of just basking in his beauty!

A relationship works when both parties give as much as they get, and maybe more, and are constantly communicating. If you're so cute, and in all your cuteness you tell your chic she's the bomb and bla, she'll stick by you regardless of wether ladies are killing themselves over you. And the same thing applies to ladies too, if you're that good looking, affirm your man! let your partner know that they're what matters, the looks and issues of looks won't be a problem!

I'm a wife material (whether or whether not, i like to think of myself as one), and i give attention and i expect it in return, it's mutual.

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I agree with whitelexi -- uuntil you give, you won't receive. Who said guys who have cute chicks aren't scared someone else would snatch them?

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@ Whitelexi

I don't know about them being cheats, but for sure there's just too much attention given to them, and if one's in a relationship with them, you can't have rest of mind, cuz you'll be up wondering what evil ideas are running through some chics' head to snatch your man.

It's good to feel confident in your looks, but, baby, when that's all you have to offer--that's not much!

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Cute guys really think they're all that, especially with ladies are all up in their faces and stuff, so they'd really think they're God's gift to women folk, and so as to avoid all that drama of a guy feeling too special, you'll settle for a guy who's got more to offer than looks.

Another thing's that cute guys are not serious--they're too cute for their own good! they enjoy a lot of frivolous things, especially when a lady's not ready to waste time, no way she's going to want to sweat it out with a "cute guy." I have a family friend, he's cute alright, but he's constantly looking in the mirror! some summers back i felt like just stuffing a pillow in his mouth--before we go to church he'd walk past a mirror a dozen times, he'd be driving--he'd be checking out himself in the mirrors. I've never heard him hold a conversation without refering to his looks, i think it's a turn off.

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i'll tell you the truth

cute guys cheat a lot and don't take their girls seriously they just wanna play and have fun

secondly 2 cute people find it difficult to maintain a healthy relationship due to personality clashes

they are both proud and full of themselves because of their looks (this may not always be true but happens)

why do you think usher and beyonce can't tango and why don't celebrity marriages not last long?

it's like a no-go area(sometimes totally depends on the individuals)

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All men are not the same

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basically, if a lady marries a man more good-looking than she is, he's practically gonna boast about his superior good looks and all that stuff

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Dont marry a man who's prettier than u,  it all sounds odd! Are u saying that a goodlooking man with the right attitude is not an added advantage to u just cos he's finer than u?

I am also worried about how goodlooking the kids would be, if both parents are goodlooking, is it logical to expect the kids would be hot as well?

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poo, that is hilarious

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Also when it comes to looks a girl or guy might think he/she is cute and the opposite sex might not agree. I knew this girl who wore he clothes way too small and & was as close to ugly as I'd ever seen. Honestly the first time I saw her I looked away. Gosh, I felt so guilty but she had the WORST attitude and would make fun of other's looks. It was so so so crazy, b/c everyone I knew thought she looked like a melted cabbage patch doll or something. Yep, beauty is subjective.

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I'm an innocent guy, I can look like a playa but not be one init?

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oneof ma brothers would say and I quote " a girl shouldn't marry a man that is prettier than she is", lol

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lol yes when we can, i cant pretty boys,

1, they know they are cute,

2, they look in the mirror more than me, no no

3.no woman actually want a man like dat

i know this guy hes very cute, and all the chicks hes ever dated since i've know him are ugly, seriously

his reason, he doesnt want to be with anything that looks better that him,

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cute girls run away from cute gu-ys because relationships isnt all about cuteness they want a gu-y who'll treat them right, a gu-y whom they love and not one who just looks cute

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Are you trying to say you're cute? That's just a shocker -- I saw your pic and I know you are [very very]. I've been wondering about this for some time because pretty girls dodge some obviously handsome guy and try to chat ugly me up but I see them looking at the guy every once in a while and I know where the interest lies.

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