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Do Guys Know What They Really Want?

no hard feelings about this.but i`ve always wondered and i came to the conclusion that guys dont know what they want.they are just babies but the irony of it all is that they dont know and wld never accept. what do u think.when i get replies i`ll elaborate on the issue.

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Hmmm, well guys do mature slower than girls, so maybe they are still finding what they want in a woman?

I have noticed that yeah, sometimes they want everything, sometimes opposites. Like my ex liked me because I was very strong in my faith (or at least trying to get closer to God) - that's what he said (am I gullable to believe it LOL) anyways, but he probably left me because he had too much sexual frustration and wasn't ready for such a committed woman.

Apart from that example I believe that there are women out there who can be these things, a woman who is willing to be adventurous in the bedroom because she is very intune with her body and doesn't mind trying new things, but knows that sleeping with many men isn't going to do her much good. A woman who is humble but knows how to defend her beliefs and not just fighting over the toilet seat lid. A woman who knows how to look good but also took time to learn how to cook and take care of home.

Men are entitled to that, same as how I expect my future husband to be strong but emotionally open at the same time, tenacious but understanding at the same time, practical with money and romantic, not a player but knows how to make me swoon, is in tune with his body so even if he is a virgin he at least knows how its done (it is possible since sex is very natural).

It is possible to find people with these qualities, that is why when a man who has found a woman he complete adores and respects, he seems to describe her in such a way that you may not believe how a human being can be all these things.

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man!!! am 100 percent supporting this statement

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They mostly want sex, not necessarily women.

Men, and all other human beings, seek three main things:

Sexual satisfaction.

Satisfaction of the desire for power.

Spiritual satisfaction.

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Yes all guys really does know what they want , but female will never, because they know guys will always get purnished for it.

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all guys want is someone to cater to their ego. case closed.

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ur french sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

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Oh yes they do. . . The activities you as females see is the sifting exercise.

When they see it. The world can stop for all they care (Infact, the world WILL stop).

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you are a confused guy

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of course they do;

just dat the complexity of the women folks makes

him insecure,

mind u evry lady has got issues

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well, girls are more true to what they want no matter what pple say, but guys always want to conform to some societal norms.

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Chill girl.

i was only saying that for you to make a generalization that All guys think sex when they see a girl, you must be goin thru some really tough times with em.

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Huh dnt srt with me-----This is wat i read ,hear,see waz ur stress Boi? Did U see me say it happens 2 me Even if thatz wat happens when they see me---waz ur PROB?

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maybe I am silly. . . the odds are I'm not.

It's funny you're still bent on you assertion that ALL guys think sex whenever they look at you. You make a pathetic mind-reader.

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No bcoz they still think with their head up their a s s

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In real life, things happen differently than they are planned. Before I say any more, one question for you: How exactly does [b]your point that men have no description of who they want to fall in love with have anything to do with the fact that they are men? What makes your statement true?

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>scondy<........If there is no discription of "who" to fall in love with, i believe there is discription for "who" to MARRY

THANKS.

It's me

ayourhinde

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well,i must admit that efik ibo really feels my gist.

most guys feel they know what they want and go for it but the real gist is that they actually dont know.an average guy if asked to describe his ideal woman wld rant on and on,but when it actually comes to confrontin such issues they are handicapped.the thing is, the ideal woman a guy wants in his thots actually bores him in real life cases.why?because guys haven`t realised one law to romance and love,which is...............THERE IS NO DESCRIPTION TO WHO U WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH.......it is something that flows and whatever that makes that person her/him is what u r fallin for not what u want or think he/she shd be.

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@ baalisso... no where in my post did i say they r married to virgins. I said they WANT 2, dont mean they've achieved it

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Thanks for your contribution. I would like to conduct a start on how many guy married to a virgin.Note this,90 out of 100 girls got deflowered at between age 12 and 19.the issue of lost of virginity is a natural phenominon.Therefore, I would like everybody to remember the philosophy of human differences.

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correction; I would like efik_ibo and not myself to conduct the stat i talked about.

thanks

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some guys probably know what they want and some obviously dont. Like the kind of guys Efik_ibo, thoughs kind of guy dont really know what they want putting in mind that all guy are not the same. There are really some that have ambitions and know what they want in life and will not rest until they get it, some that are straight-headed.

i really think some guys know and some do not know what they really want.

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this is no issue for discussion

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Am a bit surprised @ your conclusion that guys will not accept your acertion.Why not?

NOw to the discurse.A number of guy no what they want and in most cases they go for it wholeheartedly.I wondn't say you gave this topic of dicurse out of experience but "whatever"

I for for person know fullywell what i need i found it,grab it and am still on it for the past 5 years.

thank you

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Hello scondy,

Please elaborate on the issue. We're waiting on you!

Seun.

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