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Do Guys Really Like A Confident Lady?

Im a pretty laidback person with not much confidence. i have a lot of boy mates that think im beautiful but weneva i ask them wot they look for in a lady somehow they mention a lady with a lot of confidence.

That confuses me coz with my chilled out attitude a lotta guys try to holla (not tryna brag here) but yet most of them like confident ladies.

so NL guys, wot is ur take on dis.

Confidence or Humility?

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Your confidence reflects in your personality and mannerisms. 

It doesn't have to be out there/in your face.  It can be subtle but men who know, recognize it.

There can be humility with confidence.  So being laid back doesn't mean you don't have confidence.

Missy B got it right when she said, people sometimes mistake pride for confidence. 

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I think men like women who can fairly stand up to their manly presence

without her being too overpowering or too too mushy.

Women who can think independently and considers a male advice in her decisions work well too.

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Only if the woman places career b4 her marriage. It's all abt [size=8pt]management of priorities[/size]. Besides a lot with slimmer chances of getting married usually have a past.

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My man I know what im talking about matterfact I see it on the daily, The higher women are on the career ladder, the chances are they are single,

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@Ebonyeyes

Not in this present dispensation girlfriend! The no of guys who appreciate women in this class is increasing day by day!

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true , its a good virtue 4 a woman to be confident. ur guy will be proud of u anytime

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There's absolutely nothing wrong with you being confident of yourself, who you're, what you're all about and your general personality. One advantageous fact about it all is that, it makes matured guys hover around you; but, insecure guys will never feel comfortable around a confident woman.

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Yeah, cos u dont have to continually say hw luvly she looks

u dont hav to ask her what she wants cos she'sgonna tell u.

if u run outta words she 'll pick up and continue the convo

she is not afraid or ashamed of been seen wit ya

And lotta other things,

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Hello,

        I don’t believe the other posters meant insult by inquiring age its necessary to better advise you.  However, your confidence is a reflection of how you feel about yourself.  Most guys, (assuming he is a well matured man)… like women with confidence because she doesn’t have to be continually reassured all the time. (In most cases, such women that lack confidence wants a man to always remind her of her self worth), on the contrary, a women with confidence already knows this without doubt….She also know how to spark of a conversation, how to take control and handle a situation and can pretty much light up a room, fit in anywhere,  ECT,  Let's stop here as I believe you heed my point.

On the other hand,  if we are talking of a young male say 16-22yrs,  then his definition of confidence could simply mean "swagger" the way you dress, your hair, your nails, ect,  this is my opinion but some may disagree due to cultural differences, however, I hope this helps

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Alotta guys tend to mistake confidence for pride prolly because there's a thin line btw both and from your last line . . . . .You belong there.

Confidence and humility are two positive qualities a guy should look out for in a woman.

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wots dat got to do with the topic?

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I was gonna ask the same question!!

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