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Do I Have A Reason To Be A Little Pissed Or No Need?

There's the guy I've known for 3yrs that has been asking me out but I was already in a relationship and I never really liked him for relationship, just as friends. So he continued, flirting with me and all that. Sometimes when I go to his house, he's all over me, touching me, kissing and still be asking me. I told him, I know he's playing around with girls and not ready for a committed relationship, that he just wants to be benefitting but anyways, he had a party and invited us, so there was a particular girl, he kept talking to at the party, but no need since I'm not interested in him that way.

Today I saw him and the same girl together but this is the person days ago, that was calling and upset because I did not come to his house over night to spend with him. I just want him to be honest with me, so I saw them, the girl saw me and waved, but he didn't see me. I told her to not say anything.

I don't know why I am a little upset, or not or do I have any reason to?

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fact is whether or not u re in love wit the guy, jst as some have said when the attention shifts you naturally feel jealous. being there before. you'll get over it.

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What do you care if he is lying to you or not. You guys are just friends right? look, you are jealous. There is nothing wrong with it, everyone gets jealous once in a while when attention shifts from them. For him to claim he likes you and wants to spend the *Night* with you shows what he wants you for. Also, you have seen his behaviour and how he is quick to get new girls and flirt with them even in front of you. He doesnt want anything serious with you, and doesnt respect you enough to want to have anything serious with you. So your best bet is to forget him and stick with your partner. You are upset because you are falling for his charms, and his ability to not be so crazy about you. Its natural.

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Hi Lacrissa,

when you loose what is available, it touches you.

May be not love, but definitely some form of jealousy.

Let me explain. We guys can fool around without building emotional bonds.

But women by nature build bonds once the get 'close'.

You might not have felt this way if you still had your own relationship or the girl did not meet up.

Well it is time for you to look for someone permanent, serious and not just a bus stop,

Take care and pray about it,

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Why re u so concerned over a man u claim u don't want to have anything to do with? Or is it a case of you're saying something else while ur emotions are doing another? Pls be careful where u allow ur heart to rest, so u don't regret.

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Omega, I don't presently have a man. It was after my man and I broke up. He is my good friend I've known even though the flirts and him wanting more. I dont like to or want to string any man along but at the same time I don't want to lose any of them.

I can have him if I want and I'm not jealous of any girl or girls he's with. I just don't know why I felt a little upset, maybe because he's lying to me? or

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you have a man but you are chilling with a dude who is kissing and touching you (on God knows where) so now he met someone and you are mad because the attention you were getting is gone. Yet you still have a man as you claimed. hmmm i think you should focus on your relationship and stop stringing men along who eventually get tired of waiting.

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Ur falling for him because you are jealous of the other girls he is with. People always want what looks like they cant have, and especially when the attention is shifting from them. Better snap out of it and face your relationship because this one will shred your heart to bits if you have anything to do with him. just commot eye, and forget about it.

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