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Do I Leave My Girl ?

I have a girl I met in 2005 and ever since we've been dating. She didn't really want to go into the relationship but after

I convinced her that I won't hurt her feelings, she became more compromising. The problem now is that lately, she's been acting funny. She's not cheating but she doesn't keep our dates, seldom call and I don't think she ever misses me the way I miss her. Well, right now I have a beautiful girl that's all over me and want me to commit but I don't want to hurt my girl by leaving her since I can't two-time. I've told the new girl we can only be friends but she won't give up for we're always spending time together more than I do with my girl. Please what do I do ?

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This is enough reason for you to leave her, or do you want to wait till you see her cheating on you? You are even lucky to find another loving girl around you so I suggest you should go for her.

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Well you are the one dating them both so you should be able to know which of them you really love.

But about the attitude of your present girl; you have to let her know she’s not the only girl around. Some times you have to make girls feel jealous in order for them to take you more seriously.

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see some ladies don't app. good things not unitl they loose that person and at times when they find someone else, they are not so so comfortable because of what the other guys does that makes him good,

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That is a sign of disinterest. It mean something is wrong, Find out before it is too late.

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Call your girl and have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her how you feel and the situation of things. Ask her if she still loves you or not, is she seeing someone else and does she want out of the relationship.

Free yourself from the other lady first cos you can't think right when someone else is in the picture, there's always the tendency to compare people when you have more than one on your heart.

After the discussion, you should know exactly where the problem is and where you stand. If both of you decide to break up, don't jumb into the next relationship just yet, take time to chill down and make sure you aren't making a mistake.

Good luck.

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