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Do I Say Yes Or Do I Say No?

Hi guys really need your help on this one.

My ex-boyfriend has just proposed to me. We dated for a period of three years and within that time we even lived together and enjoyed every moment of it. I called the relationship off after finding out the he had cheated on me with a girl that he works with, he assured me it was just a drunken-mistake while they were on a business trip in Milan. I do really love this guy and haven't been with or in another relationship since we broke up 5 months ago. My concern is does he really want to marry me or does he just see this as the only way to get me back, and also his mother and sister don't particularly like me and he has always had my back on this issue and his brothers love me and are rooting for us. What is a girl to do?

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best to say Nes. . . or maybe Yo. . . what the heck!

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hmmm, marriage.

very sweet at start

but you need to be prayerful

then you will know what to do about him.

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dear,say yes to me instead i wil do u rite

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@Poster i had a similiar case sometime bk, very similiar i tell u, wtout d in-law part. He made it a point of duty 2promise everyday dt it will never happen again. And He's bn truly sorry. We're married nw n i've never regretted any bit of it. Give d guy a chance if u love him n u're sure he does same. If he's a gd guy n did d act in an abnormal situation n owned up 2it be4 u even found out, then u got urself an honest man dere. Give him a chance bt 1st pray abt it. Gd luck

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We could go on with a thousand + reasons but the truth is, you know him the best. But I feel he's for real this time.

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I feel since you guys have been together for 3years, one "drunken mistake" should not let you give up if you really love him. As strong as we guys are, we know we still have our weaknesses.

Let me ask you this, while you guys were still together, did he strike you as the "player" type? If you answer to this is a NO, then I'll say, give him a chance.

I'm not married and never have been, but I do know that the answer to the question lies within you. If you have been comfortable with the idea while things were good, carry on with it. I doubt if he would use marriage talk just to get you back without really meaning it.

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The onus lies on you sister to know what to do.

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Girl my best advice for you is that if you are not sure dont even bother going into it cos if you do you will have yourself to blame

Since you say that his mother and wsister do not accept you PLS DONT VENTURE AT ALL cos if you do you will have your self to blame in the end

Cos here in Nigeria when a mother does not support the child's relationship it ends in a hatefull and wasted time of ur life.

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