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Do I Still Wait For Her?

Dear house,

i just decided to write out this message cos i've been seeing alot of messages and also being giving my own solution to most of their problems, but every1 surely gat a problem and needs a solution.

Now the thing is this, there is this girl i love so so much that i can do anything just for her, i swear house i just can't Xpress the level of my love for her with mere writing but the truth is that i love her so much and am ready to die for her if the need arises, becos of this girl i still dnt have a girlfriend till date. I LOVE HER, when i say i love this girl u just cant emergine how much i do; she knows too well dat i love her so dearly and can do anything for her but the problem is this, she has a boyfriend whom i knows very well but this guy doesn love this girl for all i know, even if he eva loved her that was in the past cos he's cheating on her of which we all knows even sometimes she comes around and tell me about it but the truth is that she doesn wana leave this guy claiming he is her first love and it's didfficult to do so.

all of her family knows me well, each time i comes aroung the mother loves and appreciate my visit but she dnt like the guy for one reason but this babe will not just let go of the guy.

i know this babe loves me abit but not as much as the guy; the xcuse is that she doesnt wana leave her first love. house what do u tink, there is really more to this story than i can write but the question is "Do i still wait for her?"

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@ Biiola

baby ur questn is really a specific one, actually we've ended discussions abt this here in the house since yestaday but comments kept comin in & i wana answer this what i really like abt her, hmmm! You wont undastand, i love every bit of that girl even till date the truth is dat she occupies a positn no other woman can take in me. she's my other half, she makes me feel like wantin 2b a father. i bless the verydaY i met her & i love the fact that she exists, she's truLY mY eve.

but u know 1 thing? am very sure dat her guy will leave her somedaY, a break-up must surely occur someHow cos i kno he's not truly inlove with her like they first started even she knows the guy is cheating on her and she comes around to tell me sometimes, that'd why i just wana know if it's advisable to wait abit.

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what do you really like about her.lets pick it from there

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You shouldn't wait, you could get your heart broken for nothing

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@poster

Forgive my rudeness, its just that dumb posters and silly people easily exhaust my patience.

see ya

wdn't wanna be ya

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Hai

i wuld love to make u undastnd dat in NairaLand we dnt fight neigther do we quarreL, i riLY dnt know how oLd u'r in da House but i want u to note d fact dat NairaLand was meant for maTure minds, people who undastnds maturitY in HumanitY, am a very kind heaRtd guY and i dnt Love it wen its doesn appear Or goes amicabLY

Though atimes we dO & saY fuNNY things dat makes Odas Laugh & som evn douBt just 4d House to caTch it aLL fuNNY & paSs tYmes, But we aLL stiL maitaiN dat sence of MaturitY in Our minds ok? sO dnt fight nor QuarreL ok? cos NairaLand neva provided a Forum for Fights & Quarrels.

@ everYbodY [all posters]

10q 1s again ok? am riLY graTefuL 2 y'all & i wan u to kno dat

U'r 1 Of da KuLest tiNz

LYfe eVa SLaPpt mi wit

nO matR wat da fuTure hOLds

iM sUre u'L aLwaYz be paRt Of iT

cOs as Long as we'r frNdz

LYfe rOckz, HaPpY fiesta!

Its KaYsY,

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hello gentleman, there is no need waiting for this girl cos she has a boyfriend that she loves, as sista woman has said, just let her be for sometime, no visit, no calls, no mails, if u leave her and she comes back to you then she was meant to be with you, if not move on man

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@poster

I don't think anybody forced you to wash your dirty linens outside in the first place.

Since you decided to do that, NAIRALANDERS were just on hand to draw you down

from the bus of stupidity.

Thank God you have come to your senses, taking cue from numerous advices (free) offerred you.

Maybe one or two idiots would learn from your mountain of madness.

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HONESTLY I hate somebody saying " i can't stop loving her" or she has given me concotion. it's all lies

Stop wasting ur precious time, she not ur missing ribs, there 're many other pretty babes out there,

get like three of them n' conduct ur interview, put them on probation and finally choose the best.

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Why not, don't you think she's woth waiting for?

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@poster

You don't have to rehearse to be yourself. All this talk about your machopsyche sounds like a little boy who lost his toy.

Get a life boy. I think sistawoman has done justice to your predicament already. Need i say more?

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@sistawoman. thats rily cool.

@poster: just follow sistawoman's advice

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Please sweetie move on and find someone else.

The only way to flush this girl out of your system is to stop seeing her.  Go cold turkey.  don't call, don't visit, don't text, don't visit her family.

Focus on you, spend time w/ yourself.  The last thing you should do is go jump in another relationship right now that would be hurtful to both you and the new girl.

You should heal your heart and then start dating again.  This girl loves this oda man, she will not love you so as long as she loves him.  Please I speak from experience, there is nothing more irritating some dude who just does not understand that I my heart will never flutter for him.

Just because you look nice, have money and love her to death it does not mean that she will love you.  Everything is not for everybody.  She is not ment for you or maybe she is but you will not know until you let her go.

If it is ment to be it will be. . . . Let it go and if it comes back then it was ment to be. 

don't hold out hope of her coming to you, just live your life and love another, your true soulmate might still be out there.

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Prove to her that you can die for her, and if she still dosent agree, sorry.

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@ Ujujoan

baby see i kno but u know wat? i wish u culd just see & kno how i look like, Iswear i look so hot & cute dat any girl i toasts today hardly believes i dnt have a girlfriend, they all tinks am a player dat i wana play games on them.

infact there is this current 1 now, she likes me, sHs even d1 telling me "kaysy u'r too handsome, i dnt wana take no for an answer dat u dnt have a girlfrnd"

so wat do u tink, how do i handle this, U wont believe wat am saying, am riLY in tROUbLe Oh!

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@ Ujujoan,

baby i really love u & the way u place ur words am serious,

and to ur questn, if i love sm1 just as i've said, u see? sex is not always part of my agenda at all

i've neva had sex wit her and each time i time am always around thougths abt her, nothing like sex or even anytin related to it crosses my mind at all

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@igwe 1

  arh! no, no, no  see am much more capable in getting sm1 else, see am a very hot guy oh! forget all dis 1 am saying i kno how to trick & track a woman to d core, even right now as some others said in the house, some girls out there are riLY wishin & dat i culd be there man somdaY, some even wish and hope i culd jst say Hai to dem somHow' but u kno wat? if u had watch the last soap opera on AIT "Second Chance" u kno how dat miss Anthonette loved Ghuadalupe, dat's how i do' if i don love a girl i don love am be dat, my love no de fade Just lik Romeo to Juliet

but if u doubt me jst try me wit ur girl, all i will need is her number then prepare to countdown ur relatnshp status wit her, shae u gree?

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there is also probability of her ex coming back to her.

i just noticed you re incapable of finding another girl as to stoop low like this.

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i really love wat Ujujoan, chika98 & so on has said in the house but do u kno wat am scared of? if eventually i left her & finds sm1 else den alone the line her guy finally breaks-up wit her whila am now in another serious relatnshp, if she comes back to me the truth is dat i'll still accept her that is why i dnt wana resume any serious relatnshp now cos i dnt wana break somebody's heart, am scared

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this reminds me of one of my fav songs,

"gallery".

guy if u really love her as much as u claim from ur post, give her sometime.

wait a while and dont rush her. just always be there for her.

things have its way of favouring us at the end.

my only fear wud be wen u eventually get her, wud u still feel same after a while?

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i really wana thank the house for ur opinion ok?

atleast i have my vote ratio now. but the truth is dat i cnt stop loving her when there is no other to take her place, as for wat u all said dat i shuld move on wit my lyf, i kno i already supposed to move on but d thing is dat i still find myself returned to her at last. i dnt kno if she's used somtin on me cos this love is really a crazy 1 at dat

Ur opinion riLY matrz oh, cos am in a dilemma for this baby,

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First I'll tell you not to wait.What would bad boy advice?When you wanna fall in Love again try as much as possible that the person you're falling in love with loves you in return okies?I don't wanna be blunt but guys still fall in Love ? Uhmmm Maybe am lost,maybe am a wicked Soul.Whatever.That's my advice for you.Spike?

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What are you waiting for? Hell to freeze over or the sky to turn yellow?

It doesn't matter how much you are in love with this girl and how far you would go to die for her (oh lord) or for her love, she's not interested, she's with someone and is not willing to leave him for you or anyone else.

My advice to you would be this, go out and get laid, women out number men 3-1 these days. You sound like Mr.Romantic, i'm sure there are girls out there that wouldn't mind your company. So go out and find someone else.

You only get one chance to live, do you really want to spend it pining away over some girls who's with someone else. If it's meant to be it will be and if not, well you'll find someone better.

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My friend don't waste your precious time go and look for another girl.

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I say, move on with your life, don't wait in vain.

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My friend play ya game like no other existed and stop writing essays

Be tha man jare. Essay ko Debate ni!!!!

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Hi peeps.

@ujujoan

its been a loooooooong time pretty.how u doin?

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Leave her alone for now. When she comes to her senses she will be the one all over you. I do hope it isn't too late then.

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