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Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

So do nice guys really finish last? This subject has been the big topic of discussing since ages and almost every guy out there wants to know whether nice guys do finish last. You see there are a lot of misconceptions on this topic but the facts are only known to a select few. Now you are being introduced to the real facts. Read on to discover what the real answer is and put an end to the mystery forever,

Yes it's true- Well in one simple line yes nice guys do finish last and there are several reasons for that. You see nice guys make several mistakes due to which women are repelled.

They adapt to anything- They are willing to change themselves according to the woman which means they will do anything to be around the kind of woman they want to be around which is a very strong sign of weakness and women don't like weak men. They want to be around someone who is a strong decision maker.

They are highly insecure- This is one of the biggest reasons why nice guys always finish last. You see the problem with most nice guys is that they are some what insecure about themselves and they are not sure about their own opinion about themselves that's why they go around asking for someone else's opinion. At the same time they feel they are just not good enough and they will never find the kind of woman they desire therefore they try to be overly nice when they do find one. They have a loser like attitude which women dislike and that's why they finish last.

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No time for long sermon

The Kingdom of Kitty-Cat suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force

Thats food for thought fellas get a plate

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nice + women= failure

get it right, the opposite in this case doesnt mean absurd thinking arrogant turd, but as for nice guy, jeez, well good luck with that.

berra grow some balls and think straight, wonder why u wanna be nice to a woman.

check it out, take your time and watch how women behave to fellow women, friends and strangers, now tell me if that can be called nice?

dude, berra wake up, being nice is different from being sensible and sensitive

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"@pastor" YOU SCORE 80%. There are different ways of being NICE, u can be nice but your decision may be TOUGH. what can you call that?

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there cud be two different scenarios for being nice

ur nice to the ladies, as in giving them what they really want,or you seem to be nice by giving them nice things and not being able to give them the nicest thing they really need

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^^^^^ thanks "happylady". . . . . . . .i had been away from NL after being banned but the drive to reply was just too much on some of these threads.lol!

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please dont misunderstand a "nice" guy with a "desperate" one. . . . . .  the one you just portrayed is a sucker who should be ran away from by all women. this is the kind of men that will pretend to be someone/anyone to get woman and then becomes his true self with time. . . . . . .  by then, the poor gal will realize that she is dating/married to a sucker thus the reason for breakup. just a waste of time!

i think you are referring to insecure guys which has absolutely NOTHING to do with nice guys.

where did you get this degree of yours?! you got robbed bro!

let me help you: one of the reason why nice guys "finish last" may be because some women are attracted to bad boys and think they can "tame them therefore overlooking quality.

also some women DONT want nice guy and if YOU think that a nice guy will always win the good gal then you are living in lalaland and dont have a clue about women.

it could be that nice guys finish last with bad gals and that they only finish first with top gals. . . . . . . . . .  dont be blinded by all the wolves in sheep clothing out there, not all that glitters is gold.

also it could be that what YOU perceives as a top gal might not be the kind of gal that "nice guy" is after. . . . . . . .  after all "nice guy" will only settle for the best!

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@poster,ur assertion sounds myopic.The reason why it is often said that nice guys finished last is because nice guys dont really run the same race with bad guys.In the short run it may appear that bad guys are ahead but at the end of the day nice guys get things right.Relationship wise,nice guys may appear weak to a player but they are the real men because they know what they want and stick to it.Bad guys are often confused sets of pple,they dont know what they want& they are always illogical when compared with the nice guys.Put a nice guy beside a bad guy and ask a gal that knows what she wants(one dat is not confuse&want to be treated like a queen) to pick one,she will go for the nice guy 99.9 times in 100times.How i wish am a nice guy,i would ve bin so innocent because sincerely there is no good tale in most of the experiences we guys wanted in the first place.If a nice guy is reading this please continue to be nice,most bad guys here on NL jst want to drag you into d mud they are already swimming inside.In their heart of heart they wish they are nice.

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You're about 85% correct with your analysis.

From my recent personal experiences, women are most often attracted to guys who are confident in where they are gong - not neccesarily the "NICE" guys.

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