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Do Perfect Relationships Exist?

What Is Your Idea Of A Perfect Relationship? Does It Exist?

Some says it does by having a sincere, caring and faithful partner.

Some says it doesn't having been disappointed severally,

To some its a total mystery meant to be kept in a box and never dare to open.

What do you feel about it?

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my guy,u gee mouth dat just it

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Let me create a PERFECT illustration!

u think you love uche jumbo cuz of her credentil( nt tlkin of acdemics)

but wait till genevive winks at you! Then u fill this has to be it, but wait till aniston does it to u, then j.lo, then beyonce, then kim kardashian then salma hayek, Get the pix?

this is from one angle to us boys.

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To put it mildly,no! there is no such thing as a perfect relationship because there is no such thing as a perfect person.a lot of ppl go thru a lot of pain because they aimed for perfection wen goin into d relationship.love ain't a bed of roses,au contraire,it can be a cruel,wicked and painful emotion.it can also be d most wonderful thing u'l ever feel.dnt aim 4 perfection,because evn a match that seems to b made in heaven wil inescapably hav it's share of ups & downs.

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Good relationship? yes

perfect relationship? No

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no one is perfect only god is perfect, no perfect relationship

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If perfect people do not exist then perfect relationship cannot.

Its just that people need to learn to compromise when it comes to their weaknesses.

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I don't think it does exist because no one is 100% perfect, even when you think you have a perfect one something suddenly out of the blue might happen that taints that perfection, but very good relationships does exist though.

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it doesn't exist. when everything's smooth it's not always interesting but very boring.

when there are arguments it makes the relationship interesting, so the perfect relationship is where there are argument everything.

don't get me wrong it's just observation.

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perfect is a relative word and the sense in it is totally dependent on your own point of view, what we try to do is create a generalised sense of view for it which may not be applicable at all times.the imperfections people talk about are the very factors that are put up to test the perfectability of every relationship. eg temper, considering that temper is a normal feeling that every body must exhibit, it would make it very normal for a relationship to undergo strain as a result of mismanaged temper but the true test on how perfect your relationship is, is how well the shock absorbers of your relationship takes these hits. a perfect relationship would always survive the imperfections of man

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i have suddenly felt the need to let you see what im saying at all cost cos people only either havent felt it yet or are shying away from the truth. tru luv exists

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Life itself was not made to be totally pervert.

So what do you expect!

God said that eyes have not seen neither have ears had what He will do for those that love Him,

including  a perfect relationship.

Loving the lord will introduce you to  perfect people and then a perfect relationship is sure

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no such thing as a perfect relationships!

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perfect relatonships exist.people just find it hard getting into them, which is understandable considering the fact that people usually arent patient enough.when was the last time a brother took out 3 months to find out about a sister before asking her out?when was the last time we looked for relationships with people we can actually handle other than with people that can handle us?when was the last time we got attracted to the opposite because of behaviour instead of beauty or money?no relationship can stand a chance at being perfect if it doesnt happen with your friend,a person you can fart before(accidentally though) without feeling like committing suicide, a person you can cry to(even though you are a guy),a person you can discuss menstural pains with(even before he asks u out), a person you can freely gossip with. because at the end of all the initial gragra attached to infatuation, attraction and love,only friendship can withstand the deteriorations that happen to the physical and mental state of the parties involved over time

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I do think a real good relationship exist by the simple formula:

GR=CG + NG

where GR=Good Relationship

CG=Cool Girl

NG=Nice Guy

Ask the guys now, they understand.

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You can only get perfect relationships in the novels.

In reality, never expect it. Even u as an individual is not perfect and so also is your partner. How then can you both do something perfect?

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there aint nothing perfect in this world and same goes for relationships. i think its all about making an imperfect relationship perfect for you. i wish i knew what the hell that meant though,

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of course we all know beta than the existence of the word perfect dat even our so called perfectionists are only approximations.

so there aint not like perfect,

chao!

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The notion of a perfect relationship is the boy meets girl, they fall in love and live happily ever after. This happens only in fairy tales. In reality, loving someone and being loved by another is full of ups and downs. Two people from two different backgrounds, families and ideaologies and at times different cultures come together, of course, sparks would fly. However, i believe strongly that a relationship can only be made perfect if the two parties are willing to make it work.

As a result i believe that perfect relationships do exist after the parties have come to understand themselves.

In conclusion, relationships are not beds of roses. They require sacrifices from both parties and only when that is given will such a relationship be deemed a perfect relationship.

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Still searching jare,

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yeah it exists . . . in fantasy land

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Perfection in itself is but an ideal. You can't find perfection in anything on Earth! There must be one flaw and perfection entails flawlessness.

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Perfection belongs to God.As human we can only  move near to perfection.May be what you meant is someting close to prefection.It does exist.Its a mind thing, when we are honest in our relationship.when we  approach issues with  enquiring mind and not with suspicious mind, by so doing we will be able to demonstrate some level of trust towards ourselves.Perfect Relationships Exist!

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Perfection belongs to God.As human we can only  move near to perfection.May be what you meant is someting close to prefection.It does exist.Its a mind thing, when we are honest in our relationship.when we  approach issues with  enquiring mind and not with suspicious mind, by so doing we will be able to demonstrate some level of trust towards ourselves.Perfect Relationships Exist!

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the problem with a lot of relationships is that people expect to get their hapiness from their partners. i think only a person can make him/herself happy depending on choices made.

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The only place we can expect a perfect scenerio,is only in the world of forms.The world that we live in aint even perfect.

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It sure does exist.

When its between you and yourself.

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I'm sacred when everything is all rosy, I can't even be in relationship wit yes & amen

I think its more fun when u don't call each other for like two days & u both yell on the next call, instead of forming understanding. Abeg jare I don't want perfect relationship, i want true relationship.

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it actually depends on how u see it. a perfect relationship can only be born only if u both make it work. seeing the other party as ur friend first always helps.

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it's all in the mind,if you believe in it you just might find it, but for the less sentimental and emotional people,love is overrated and overstated.

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PERFECT does not exist, neither does a "perfect" relationship.

People spend a lot of time trying to create a picture perfect of their relationship to the outside world while it is far from perfect behind closed doors.

Dont be decieved. human beings can always stive to achieve perfections but theyll never become perfect.

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COMPATIBILITY is the word and not perfect, cos perfect doesnt exsit.

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It doesnt exist and you cannot force it out, you just need LOVE chikena. That is why LOVE is simply COMMITTMENT. Committed to your partner despite his/her imperfection, adjusting to your parner's imperfection, seeing his/her impections yet correcting with gentleness, patience and perseverance (if you are strong in those areas). Complimenting each other in your imperfections, tolerating those imperfections and finally living with those that will not just change no matter what or how.

Good Luck

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Ain't nothin lik a perfect relationship.

Close to perfect maybe but never perfect.

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@larrie

in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

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na true now my son

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Search for the number of things "humane" which have the word "perfect" as a befitting adjective. List them out here on the thread.

A task for all and sundry!

Do it!

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@ UFOBABA

in this life, nothing just happen. u have 2 work 4 what u want 2 have.true relationship still exist.hapiiness can be found by doing what u do best and not worrying about what the other person is doing.

it is wise 2 weigh the pros and cons of anything that reguires commitment. nothing has the power 2 determine what happens in your life like the coice u make.

people that are always having problems are yet 2 realise their mistakes.maybe u are looking 4 beautiful girls who will soon dissappiont u because she knows 4 herself that she is beautiful.

romance tells u nothing about character and is extremely unreliable as a method of determining the viability or vitality of a relationship

there is true love, only if u can open your eyes

anyway, goodluck

WORD!!!!!

U HAVE TO WORK ON UR SELF FIRST! AND ALL OTHER THINGS FOLLOWS

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Perfect relationships do not exist - they are made. The patners

must make an effort to make the relationship perfect by loving each

other to death.

I know a pastor who says he has made it his project to find new

ways of making his wife happy - so why should that relationship not

be perfect when people are working on it. If you dont work at it

then you are condeming it to doom - like everyone else's. If you wait

for a perfect relationship to 'EXIST' you'll wait till Kingdom come.

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i will say sweet and happy relationships exist and not perfect becos when u say something is perfect u are saying it does not have a defect in anyway , inside out.

relationships will always have its bitter moments becos of the differences in the individuals involved but the sweetnees comes in when u can tolerate the other person and love them despite thier weekness thats is when the person can become close to perfect in ur eyes. theres a say ing that goes thus: "nobody is perfect until we fall in love with them"

u can make ur relationship tend towards perfect if u take time to work on it, but u will need alot of patience cos atimes it will seem atimes that ur efforts are just waste !!!!!!

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No, it does not exist but you can find someone you are compatable with who will compliment you.

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If you see any perfect relationship.

It means that the duo are fooling each other.

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U hv jst said it all.

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oh that z so true the only place the perfect man exist is in novels & film. where the guy is tall, handsome & very rich most preferably a prince lol & the girl is very beautiful, extremely nice, very sweet & loving e.t.c

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Perfect relationship? Well it sure happen in d novels. Gbam

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