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Do Single Ladies Ask For Too Much ?

SOME SAY MANY LADIES THAT ARE SINGLE SEEK TOO MUCH OF THERE FUTURE HUSBAND OR MAN.THEY SEEK PERFECTION WHICH IS RARE TO GET FROM A MAN?

SOME SAY THEY FIND IT HARD GETTING DOW FROM THERE HIGH HORSES?

HOUSE LETS COMMENT ON THESE AND OTHER FACTORS THAT MIGHT HAVE SELF IMPOSED BEING SINGLE ON MANY LADIES.

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Mrbrownjay. . Can we talk om YIM? Pls

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^^^^^^^shouldnt you say that thesewomen are the "smart" ones and that these guys handing over their valuables without any definite contract are the "dumb" ones.

just because a guy is paying for a toto, doesnt remove the fact that he is a mugu. . . . . . . . . the minute he forgets that and puts his guard down, the gal will remind him of that with such act as the one you stated!

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Men give to woman and in return woman give to men(sx). Think of it as socialized prostitution. The problem is when women take gifts and things with no intention on giving anything back. These women are the lowest of women. They should be upfront from the beginning and just not take any gifts for meals; they should just pay their way equally like a man.

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Single Ladies asking for what?? What have they done to warrant their demands? What do you guys bring to the table? Some of una no even fit boil rice so where do your rights to ask for stuff comes from? A lot of y'all don't have anything else to offer besides some a$$. So again i ask what right do y'all have to ask

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what i meant by a guy spending willingly is someone who offers a gift, after dating the said gal for a while, because she deserves it. . . . . . important words here are: FOR A WHILE and DESERVE

if they just met and the guy just spends for no apparent reason other than to bait that said gal then he is a lost soul and probably deserve whatever "animal" he will attract.

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I thought it was the LOVE MONEY tendency of the ladies that made the man apply what they want to get them.

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but when guys are willingly spending money to get girls' attention, it's bound to become a requirement sooner or later. then you shouldn't blame girls if they pay more attention to the guy who spends the most.

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GL the catch is that: if a man WILLINGLY spends the money then so be it but if its a "requirement" for dating then thats where i think that some people have lost their mind.

of course, guys should buy gifts to their partner, if the said partner deserves it and only for that reason.

in my book, such "money hungry" women are like children, if there is no discipline then you will never be at peace!

the gals who dont ask for money but yet label themselves or act as high maintenance is all the same thing.

i love high maintenance women as long as they take care of their own maintenance bill. lol!

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GL,

you are very right about what direction i was expectant the debate would have taken but the many points raised from the very start of the thread raised an issue which i guess many wanted to say one thing or the other about and indeed am sure many must have gained or learn one or two things from.

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i think for some guys spending on girls is a status thing. i know girls who don't ask their boyfriends for money, but these guys still try to go after the 'expensive' girls. guys seem to enjoy chasing after girls who expect several suitors to buy them the latest phones, fancy lingerie, clothes etc, sometimes i don't blame girls for behaving this way, cos guys always find a way to spend their money on girls. it's as if that's the whole idea of earning money, so even if the girlfriend doesn't ask they'll spend it on other girls.

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depends, if it's about money some single ladies do ask for too much. but if it's about attitude, i'd say ladies don't ask enough. i know no man/woman is perfect, but there are some disturbing attitudes you see in guys nowadays. young guys who already have the impression that women exist to please them, guys who already have the master mentality before marriage, guys who specifically look for breadwinning wives who would double as servants. if a lady decides that issues such as lack of respect and laziness are deal breakers, i don't think that's asking too much.

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You need to more specific.Too much of what? It is a common thing that ladies should ask for some things from their guys.Your ability to meet them is another question of its own.I believe if a lady demands for something and it is within the ability of the man,he should give it.The only thing I will not be happy with is if the lady demands for unneccessary petty things that can be done without.Also if the demand becomes too much,I will simply conclude that the lady is only in love with my purse and not  me as a person.In conclusion I don't advise ladies to make much demand on their guys it doesn't speak well of their morals.

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You need to more specific.Too much of what? It is a common thing that ladies should ask for some things from their guys.Your ability to meet them is another question of its own.I believe if a lady demands for something and it is within the ability of the man,he should give it.The only thing I will not be happy with is if the lady demands for unneccessary petty things that can be done without.Also if the demand becomes too much,I will simply conclude that the lady is only in love with my purse and not me as a person.In conclusion I don't advise ladies to make much demand on their guys it doesn't speak well of their morals.

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what is the basis for this your "honest and unbiased" sense of entitlement? God created every plain jane to receive more than she gives?

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IN MY HONEST UNBIASED OPINION, Girls dont ask enough.

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LOL, no wise wealthy man would invest his hard earn cash in stocks/shares(women) that he could possibly loose entitlement overnight due to a hostile takeover.

sadly, many of these (not so wise) men would use pregnancies to try and secure a lifelong hold on these stocks/shares, not knowing that, this is just a mistake that will have them throw MORE of their hard earn cash into these shady shares!

with time, the value of these shares will depreciate rapidly and you will be left with worthless shares!

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I am sure the Honey Flaunting men know what the Honey lady are and wont be surprise when they disappear with a Bigger honey Flaunter

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these men should know that "what you attract with honey, you will loose with (bigger) honey"

the person i feel sorry the most in this picture is the guy who isnt as wealthy as "flaunting guy" and who thinks he is in a fantastic relationship with such "money" ladies. . . . . . .  his wakeup call would be the hardest!

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Unfortunately there is a lot of that fake happiness going around, really sad!

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True bad it is for a guy that does not have the money to entice a girl that would not have seen him if not for the money.

Don't you feel if the Ladies refused to be enticed with money or other material things then the man that rely on flaunting his money to get them would stop?

The fact remains that money ladies love the money and that is the usual point of attraction.

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^^^^^^^but what a contradiction. . . . . . how poor is a man who has to resort to enticing a mate with money to find happiness. . . . . . . . . . its a fake sense of happiness that will disappear as soon as the money does. this kind of man will always be alone (even if he is married to 20 gals).

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Money money money ,without this a man is almost not a man in Nigeria.

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Ebonyeyes,don't you think the guys have to flash the money they have or do not have because i think that is the language most ladies understand,Abi?As bad as things may be it is hard to live a life without WOMEN.they are the salt of life.

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Chika,i do not think he was daft enough to have gotten ripped off.I think when we are in love we find ourselves doing thing we would ordinarily have not done and it sure can happen to you too.

Lets just pray to meet a woman that is meant to be with us.

SA Goddess,

the unhappy truth remains that most ladies love are for sale .Or what can we say about a scenario that the lady only start feeling something for the man after he might have spoilt her with gifts and many other goodies.

A man without money with get a lady from a very close limited options and a man with the cash would get almost any lady he desires even if she is presently in a very serious relationship with a man that has less to offer.

There LOVE IS INDEED FOR SALE.

I know we still have ladies that would love strictly because they are in love and would never allow another man to buy their love no matter the gifts of other material things showered but they remain very Few

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The guys want one thing and will do whatever they have to do to get it. Tell the broke-down, cheaparsed muddafuggas to stop flashing money they dont have to get the girl they want to fook with.

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It seems the norm that most Naija guys expect to pay (monetery or with gifts) a girl to be their girlfriend, interesting, so if a guy has no money he can't get a girl?

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hey Pro01, thanks. i was banned and took the opportunity to stay away from NL for a while. . . , . . . . . but it didnt last, lol!

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@OP. Some aren't like that. Rather, it only SOLELY depends on the level of maturity of the lady in question. (Likewise the guys)

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Lol! The inimitable Mr.BrownJay. Where've u been? Missed u around this frickin place. Welkom back all the same.

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a woman who's got it all has all the rights to ask for as much as she "thinks" she is worth in emotion/care etc

the problem is that too many have absolutely nothing to back these demands.

some poor sod who has got a volcano down his pants will comply because he is so focussed on the toto that his brain aint functionning right.(all the blood dey in his cokc thus starving his brain to function right)

look at this brotha here for instance:

- what was the aim for all the spending?

- 3months and you already spent so much, no wonder she now expect much more. did you run out of steam?

- this gal is being real (and hungry). . . . .  she asked before, asking now and will ask in the future. if you cant take the heat then get the hell out of the kitchen!!!!!

- what did the gal promise to offer in return for such lavish spending?

- if s e x was ONLY what you were after then dont you think that you would have been better off going to an ashewo?

- do you even think that you have a base for complain?! if you do then why dont you go and face your "extorter"?!

she probably is right there next to you, TELL HER!!!!!

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It's as simple as that. Many women think their mere 'womanity' is sufficient to make them worthy of Mr. Perfect. That's laughable. Yet they never talk about their part of the deal. Even if you pamper them, spend your life savings on them, etc, they may still be disloyal to you in every sense of the word. So what do they have to offer in exchange for a man's best efforts? I wish I knew.

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they simply ask for too much

whereas they posses less than what we men require from them~

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Aftr 3 months of larvish spending on my newly met chick, aftr extorting me, nw she complains am nt doin beta dn i did b4. U can imagine even dough i stil nevr enter The pLaCE. . She is still demanding! Gush! Love and money!

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There is nothing like perfection. Doesn't exist and will never!

Some women aren't asking for much. Problem is the least bit most men seem to lack

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Be ni oo.O ye Olorun.Ki a sha ma dupe ni ipo ki po ti a ba ba ara wa.

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FlGators,

Ma je ki o su e oo,notori wipe igba ti eniyan ba ro wipe o ti pari nI oLUWA nma gbe ise iyanu re de.

I know we still have many a gentlemen out there and back then a GF was a GF and not one that would have many a gentlemen that she dates solely because she wants to continually pool resources from and not because of love.

Gentlemen of our present age too has gone HI-TECH too as they do not want to continually play the fool as some ladies feel not to say we dont have the very good ones.

In these days,the orientation for the ladies was more of surulere and what sort of developed orientation do we expect from a NOW made guy whose boyhood sweetheart left because she could not stand Surulere?

I go through many thread and see what many a ladies desire from there dream future man and many of these exist only in fictions.

Nothing wrong in asking for a mental support or financial support BUT frankly many ladies seek more.They seek a reincarnate of what they have read in novels or seen in movies.

All i can say is that we all just need to be realistic and learn to imbibe the patience our mothers implored that made them last long in there respective marriages.

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No, I think we ask for too little.

Whatever happened to being a gentleman? What about the monthly salaries?

Back then, having a gf meant having a wife. Thus you treat her like a wife, by paying for her bills, taking care of her like a real man.

What happened to support? mentally and financially?

O ti su mi jor.

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Iice,well i agree with you that some do not but many does.

Their desired perfection is always non-existing.

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I'd say some don't ask for too much.

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