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Do The Words "i Love You" Still Mean A Thing To You?

Just wanted to find out from you boys and girls, if you get a kick out of being told those words from ur partner or a friend. Personally, i think those word's 've been abused, but once again, thats what "I" think.

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hmmm, "i love you" well, i love you comes in different ways, it cld be said to show appreciation for care rendered, but the phrase tends to be exagerated when pple jus use it aimlessly, imagine a guy seein a girls pix, nevr met her in person and already sending a txt i luv, 'likeness' could start from a glance but love grows, with time',

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it only makes sense to me when my mum says it

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Well,the simple sentence has been basterdized.Would i really commit myself to it?Time will tell.yet.it still means a lot to me cos i say it and i mean it.

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It doesnt mean no jack. the context matters as well

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They mean a lot, but I read your body language when you are saying it, not the words themselves.

The thing is, love is in levels (english is so wickedly crippled), there are different kinds, even romantic love is in levels. How do you differentiate between the love you feel for a girl you've been friends with for like 12 years (though u aint going out, yet she knows everything about you), and the love you feel for your own girlfriend? You know they are different, but u will still say "I love you".

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sincerely speakin, it doesn't,

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'I love you' means something when said to the right person but doesn't seem to mean much to me. i've never say the word to anyone apart from my parents and my siblings and i'm still happy about it.

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ofcourse it does mean a thing, even though it has been abused but there is no law that says its is a crime to say or believe it. so its up to whoever to believe whatever. As for me, it means a thing to me even though i dont believe in it. I say it for the fun in somecases and in some cases i say it because i mean it. it depends.

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Yes, those three words " I Love You" could be the beginning of a whole new happy world, or it could be the beginning of a heart-break and a disaster.

Surely its been bastardized over and over again.

I wont say it if I dont mean it, and thats my advice for everyone. Dont say it if you dont mean it.

I love you has 2-great dependencies:

- what you meant when you said it

- what you heard when it was said to you

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yeah but only wen some1 real says it

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As for me, it's all bullshit and lies.

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The words "I love you" confers meaning when love is first manifested, and later on said.

From experience, love has to be felt first. I don't need to hear those words before I know it's there. However, when it is spelt-out, then it reinforces all that's been done to manifest it.

You cannot fall in love with someone within a day. That's infatuation.

When that persists to an extent that you start moulding your life around that person, then love sets in.

Girls would want to hear you say it. And you better be staring them right in the eyes when you do so.

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i am too hot 4 fake luv, i have luv 4 whoever has luv 4 me nd i aint got luv 4 peps wid no luv 4 me U KNOW

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i am totally wid u babymine every 1 should know that if u don't mean it don't flliping say da shxt {i luv u} not

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i love u sshy, what r u gonna do about it , hahhahha

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i am totally wid u babygirl every 1 should know that if u don't mean it don't flliping say da shxt {i luv u} nooooooooooooot

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@SSHY

girl there's a lot of em, jus make ur self confortable, have a swell time

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even when ken d says it!!!

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the words ''i love U'' to me is just like calling out ma name Rhodalyn!

U meet a guy out today and he says to U''i love U''

U meet some lil kid and he also says to U 'i love U''

now, how da fxcking hell am i to take any of them serious, dat word''i love U'' means no shxt to me, absolutely no fxcking shxt!!

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that words not mean a thing to me when someone tell me it

it just fly by my ears

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When I say those words, I mean them. But when I hear it from others, I am not sure if they are being sincere. Many men use it just to get what they want from you.

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Did you write this yourself? Pretty good.

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hey cantango how are you,we gould use a friendship

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My BF knows that these are wot i mean when i say to my him, ''I LOVE YOU''

When I say I love you,

I mean that i never want to stop loving you

when i say I love you,

it means that when i'm not with you, i wonder what you are doing

when i say I love you,

it means that i can trust you

when i say I love you,

it means that no matter who comes through and trys to split us up it WONT happen

when i say I love you,

it means that i will never cheat

when i say I love you,

it means i mean it and i always will

I LOVE YOU !!!

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Any time i tell my babie "l love you", there is this feelin that immediately comes over me while am saying it.My mind tells me its true.

But if its any other girl,i say it but,i dont mean it.because that feelin doesn't come over me.I just say it casually, but she go tink say na true.

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hey i think the word I LOVE U doesn't really mean anything to people this days but well i still cherish it but for me to know u love me u must sho it. And to Seun u ROCKS u've done a good work here keep it up. love u all.

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No just sounds like "good mornin". they tell u that cos he or she feel its what u want to hear. this is the new age so learn to use new words or act it(show love if u mean it and not tell me the lie i want to hear).

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It is better acted than said, so if your actions compliment the words, it could still have some meaning it all depends on other factors, cheers all

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@ Kave

can you pls,Tell us the difference in your action whn you tell your babe and when you r faking it with other girls.

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yess ooo, but only if its coming from a sincere heart, and at the same time, HOW WILL I KNOW ITS COMING FROM A SINCERE HEAT

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to me? yes o. cos wen i tell my girl, i mean it so much.

but if its to any other girl, believe me its not true.

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people say these words very easily these days without meaning it

cause there are more playas around

the still means a thing to me

but they dont have an impact on me.

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It means lets have sex

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The word I LOVE U has been turn to another thing that is it is of no value again boy and girl says i love u on the tip of their tongue alone but the next thing that happens is to get the lady or the guy having an affair with another guy or lady which makes that word useless but the best way to say i love u now is by showing it acting it letting the other party feel it then he or she will know that really u are in love then u love the person

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The way the word is been use today has made it to loss it value. To me is a big word which need to be said only when one meant it. Only my tue love hear that from me. And not what i made common like the air we breath in

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it mean nothing to me, show me extend of telling me

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Did anybody just say that Dojo is a sweet guy? hey any body there to wake up?

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They would mean to me if backed up corresponding actions.

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Maybe she's broken up with Ken. Did you notice her signature has changed?

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sincerely speaking, those words do not mean a thing to me

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babygal i totally agree with you it's too abused don't say it unless you mean it that's d drill

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"I love you" means a whole lot to me. I don't use it anyhow and I don't expect people to say it unnecessarily to me.

I do not believe it when guys say I love you on first meetings (even if it's true) because actions speak louder than words. Show me love over time, let it grow and then when you say it, it'll be a verbal confirmation of what I know.

I'd rather not say "I love you" than say it and not mean it.

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i love you can mean different things at the same time

it cld be i want you in bed or i love your money or your body, it all depends on who is saying it and who they are sayin it to

i love you. why do you luv me? what do u understand by that L-word? these are things we girls shld consider b4 believing it. guys can do anything to get wht they want including saying i love you because it gets us just fine but girls are different just lie guys are so my ladies when a guy says dat u may want him to explain himself.

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Grizzly Bear, haven't you ever had mixed emotions before?

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To me it is as good as the chewing gum which anyone can chew for pleasure at anytime he/she feels like

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Very true but how do one know it's coming from a sincere mind? Personally, I still believe the act of actually showing the meaning of those words as well as saying it

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I've overheard some girls complain that "I love you" only comes from the man in bed after the act -- as if they can't say it otherwise.

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