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Do We Really Need To Fall In Love?

Sometimes you find out that you're ok being alone but most of the we want to fall in a relationship, how do you view this if you think of it?

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DO We REALLY NEED to FALL IN LOVE: NO!!!

Would it be great if everyone could feel genuine Love?: YES. There's nothing as amazing as being in true love, or more importantly being loved by someone else.

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You can love lots of pple at the same time,

just in varyn degrees tho,

but then u shldnt fall in love wiv two pple at the same tym, its possible but it aint right

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Last I checked, you were in love. . .What happened?. . .It disappared? You suddenly stopped caring?

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Hey, it's cool to fall in love.Like it's been said, it's difficult to find the right person these days because a lot of people are looking for a lot of different things.BUt if you're so lucky to find someone who wants to be with you-unconditionally- hope you'll be matured in handling the relationship, strive to be understanding, work hard to be compatible and give all to make it grow!

  Regards!

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Crap. . .Love is far from innate, attachment to a person is.

Another huge fallacy is the idea that you can only "Love" one person at a time, bullcrap.

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u are the only 1 here who understands LOVE

excellent post

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Yes. At the right time and with the right person

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love goes beyond the feeling of being in cloud nine,it goes beyond the kisses,hugs and sex,love has a uniqueness that develops both the lover and loved.to experience it u must grow in love.open ur heart and love unshelfishly only seeking to better the loved and if u are not appreciated do not dwell on the lost object of ur love open ur eyes and ur heart there is someone better just ahead of u.just ensure that ur love is unshelfish.

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We just have to accept this fact:

Love is innate.

From the cradle to the grave, it is our greatest need.

Whether we like it or not,

at one point in our lives,

we will fall in love.

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Ist corr 13;4  "If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.

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2 And if I have prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.

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3 And if I shall dole out all my goods in food, and if I deliver up my body that I may be burned, but have not love, I profit nothing.

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4 Love has long patience, is kind; love is not emulous of others; love is not insolent and rash, is not puffed up,

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5 does not behave in an unseemly manner, does not seek what is its own, is not quickly provoked, does not impute evil,

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6 does not rejoice at iniquity but rejoices with the truth,

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7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

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8 Love never fails; but whether prophecies, they shall be done away; or tongues, they shall cease; or knowledge, it shall be done away.

John 4:8 "God is love, and he who abides in God , abides in Love and God in him."

In summary, only a person who has God in his heart, can love. Then you can overcome all the selfish and animalistic tendencies of man.Love is for the pure at heart . Not everyone has the capacity to love, so do not look for love in the wrong places.

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One need to be in love with someone thats nature and we cannt cheat it.

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@ pearlyseed

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Love is a wonderful feeling, and its also a choice you make. After Love comes commitment to the person you love. When you decide to love someone, then you go a step further by being committed to that person against all odds.

Yes we do need to fall in love.

thank you, we need to fall in love with our heart not with other thing

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Me I don't want to fall in love o . If I fall and break my neck she will leave me and go after another person. Almost happened to me with Radiant.

Still me

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meet me behind the Iroko tree

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falling is one basic or start up point of love relationship and you develop upon that failure to you will always face cut off heart not heart break

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Love doesn't always have to be negative. It can be a good thing. . . It just depends on your opinion of what it is and your outlook towards life.

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Yeah, we really do need to "love"

Love , what a very wonderful feeling ! however u want to look at it, its good to fall in love atleast once !

As for me, i am gonna fall in love even more.

Being in love doesnt mean u are in captivity! u only need to be matured about how u go about it ! FYI, love doesnt work alone, love needs some other things to effectively work e.g undersatnding, compatibility,maturity e.t.c Once the much needed condiments are in place, Love becomes the sweetest and greatest thing that can happen to anybody in the world !

Cheers

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@ Topic

Dont lets blame, those who say love does not exist. it could be as a result of an earlier instance. Maybe a guy showing a girl lots of love, an the girl eventually Cheats on him. e.t.c

But Love exists. Its just very very scarce.

The love u will easily find these days, is the love of Money and Sex

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@Topic

Yes i think it is a great thing to Fall in love. But its kinda difficult these days. Most girls and guys out there want one thing or the other in a relationship.

If one is lucky enough to fall in the real love, I think its Best to Hold on to it firmly.

Safe!

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@Donzman

That your own opinion right

but my say there is something called love

even u yourself can fall in love when it's not expected, right now u are still young that why u saying all that trash. but when u finally find that one, u will change your mind and heart.

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Keep fooling yourself, whatever you're falling into, make sure you have a rope to pull yourself out of. In reality, there are other factors that determine how well a relationship goes, love is minimal. How is it that divorce rate and rate of break-ups has gone up with all the increase in "romantism". The rate at which people fall in love nowadays, the hole can't be that deep!

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THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED LOVE

THE ONES THAT DESERVE IT ARE DOES THAT NEEDED TO BE LOVE

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There is not and has never been anything like love. Whatever you're falling into, only you know but it's definitely not what these Hollywood clowns run around portraying.

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oh,yes,if you don't fall in love?then how do you get "THE FEELING" that this guy love me?

see, LOVE itself have so many definitions---------------------falling in love------------feeling-------equal to ----------------follow your heart.------------if you really feel something inside anytime he/she comes around.

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It depends on what your definition of love is. One person's definition could be going everywhere with their partner to 'protect' them from contamination. This could also include beating them up if they talk to men.

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I see there are a lot of heart broken people here!

FIY: There's a difference btwn companionship and love

Yes we need to fall in love. (Or what we think is love). Even if it's just for the sake of satisfying our curiousity.

Some call it temporary insanity. Well, yeah! But train loads of people are curious about what it feels to be temporarily mad! Even you!

After all this plenty talk, love still makes the world go around! (Although, personally, Im dizzy from it!) Think about it!

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all this "fall in love", "grow in love", "been in love", "being in love" thingy is all crap!

love is love, and it sure hurts as hell . . it don't exist no more. All there is now is "infatuation".

people don't care bout love no more, They just wanna get laid!

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we dont need to fall inlove, its just the need for companionship that makes pple look for a relationship. nothing is wrong wit fallin inlove anyway.

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the best thing to happen about love is one you develop love for someone.

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All this falling in love of a thing sha!!! How would i be sure if a guy love me for real?

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rolls eyes lol

@topic do we need to fall in love? No. Do we want to ? yes becos we are social animals and its in our nature to want companionship.

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Falling in love sounds cheap 2 me (my opinion ooooooooooo).

i thinkin been in love is better.

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Nothing bad in it for some people. Some people love to be in love and go looking for it, forcing it and thus end up without anything.

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there is nothing bad in falling in love,but that is if u fall in love with the right person

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