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Do Women Love Money More Than Men?

In nigeria it is believed that to woo a woman your pocket must be fat. Does it mean that women love money more than men? Please honest answers will be appreciated.

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I am sorry to hear all this sad stories but there are several stories out there too where the woman is the victim, whereby she stood by him but after he made it, he leaves her to marry a young wife back home. It goes both ways. You have good and bad in each gender. One just has to pray that one finds the right person to spend the rest of one's life with. Chikena!

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The discussions were one sided. They paint the man as the one who is ALWAYS the guilty one. I had some personal and first hand experiences to share, in the hope that young people would learn from it. We live in Europe and my wife brought two of her siblings over at our expense. When I later made a feeble attempt to assist one of mine, she brought down hell fire. She wrecked everything as a result.

When I came to Europe, I had a circle of six friends. Many years agos, one of the friends brought his fiancee to Europe, the woman left him after ten months, leaving him to nurse one month old baby. Because she had no time for a struggler.

Another friend got married shortly before he came over to Europe, then close to two years later, succeeded in securing visa for the wife to join him, but the wife arrived three months pregnant. Another one of us, whose wife had one child and didn't have another one for several years got us all worried, thinking it was due to a medical problem. Neither the husband nor the rest of us knew that she was on contraceptive, because she was busy raising money and arranging visa for her lover to come over from Nigeria and didn't want to have another child for the husband.

The wife of one the six, who was the closest to me, was bringing a boy friend home, calling him her uncle. The man had free access to the house and was visiting several times per week, even when the husband was home. He would walk straight upstairs to the bedroom. He spend the night with them on many occasions. Trouble erupted and the matter burst into the open when the wife of the so called uncled couldn't bear it any longer. But it had gone on for many years.

About a year ago, a man who had to walk across the North African desert to reach Europe, recently succeeded in securing the permanent right of abode, after several years of pain, brought his wife and children over. And guess what, within two months, the wife called the police to chase him out the house. Such is the power of woman in Europe.

Am I suggesting that men are angels and women the devil? Not at all. I just want to draw attention to the fact that every coin has two sides and every story of man, woman relationship has two sides to it. So, men are bad, and women are no angels either. Women have the capacity to make men as good or as bad as they want. Women control men. Men labour for women. Men live to die because of women. I hope I make some sense.

God bless you all.

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As long as it takes. Then divice another means.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]

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They are already doing that .Some are lesbians and some use toys. I think the idea is revolting.

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homosexualism and some other way isnt it mellow?yeah right ,but how long will u guys continue?

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Yes we can. Care to find out?

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are u saying that women do not want men for sex? i have seen a lot of women who just want men for sex.

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naaaaa mellow women can always get their satisfactions elsewhere and with other things,but can u men?

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that is not true; men just want to lift their women to meet their taste.

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thats why i never replied him

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naaa u men wont let us be,always finding faults on watever we do

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ofcourse we do but the women wont let the men be

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homosexuality is sickness. it is not a way of life. such men are mentally sick.

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and u guys dont appreciate the women do u?

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abi o. . .most men are sick

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when they are old, they don't only want fresh meat so that they can enjoy sexual intimacy. they want them so that they can keep warm. the old meat has lost the heat.

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The way men think is crazy. they think they are ageless. they have their own punishment because the older they get the less they can perform, and the women they left their wives for would seek men who can perform

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u people r not even happy that women manage some poor guys sometimes huh?is it her fault that d husband is a failure and a lazy dude who does not want to work hard to feed his family?

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no wonder you see an old man still acting like a kid and never wanting to grow up. but hey blame it on the wife.

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What you want from the world is not what the world most times is

ready to give to you. Make proper use of what you have before

you start to  think had I known. If oga drive away hid wife then

oga most definitely knows what he is doing. maybe you guys ave

not seen the way the wives of somw poor men treat them.

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be greedy and selfish? why would we want that?

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how can you love on empty stomach or non appetizing food? Life is not static but is evolving,but most women are too conservative to move with the times. that is why the times overtake them. Women should try to change from wearing wrapper for example to wearing minis. Instead of saying "I wasn't brought up that way or am too old for that". Ageing is in the mind. Women, please have a young heart as the men and things will work out fine.

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which is why we need to get half of what they have when they are rich, when they play such silly stunts.

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its amazing how men only think with their tummy and Joysticks.

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ok,just one simple question for u and dat is

why did u not go to them when u had nothing?scared of expenses huh?cos im sure a poor man cant afford them ,can he?

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I guess it is true that you can never know sum1's tru behaviour unless they become rich!!!

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back to square 1,when poverty is eliminated some of u men leave your wives(this same woman that went through thick and thin wt u,this same woman that smoked garri and groundnut wt u) for sweet sandras,sarah and stepahnie outside

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thats why a reasonable woman will not hire one, to come reap where she did not sow, just like she is human i am human. no third party in my marriage.

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Dont be so derogatory, some housemaids have better values than married women. they are also human and can even replace the Madam of the House.

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may be because the sandras, sarahs and stephanies are more polished high society ladies and know how to cook curries, pizza etc. and not always garri, amala with some soup.

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that is wife poorer couples love each other longer. May be because they face common enemy "POVERTY". but when that is eliminated, they turn the hatchet on themselves.

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and if she wants to obtain money from u guys,some of u are akagum and very stingy,u'll end up telling her that shes only dating u for ya money

men please how can we women please u?what will we ever do that will be pleasing before your sight huh tell us?

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i dont agree. A woman's role in a family is easy to overlook UNTIL she is no more there. That is when you realise you never learnt how to properly turn on the gas and change diapers, that your bedsheets did not wash themselves, your socks do not fall from heaven, ur clothes were not mended by a secret tailor, the kids didnt learn their times tables on their own . . .

Its easy to relegate a woman to the background. . . but i tell you, when u've been involved with one you learn very quickly to cherish what seemingly tiny changes they bring to ur life.

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still not enough reason for him to go outside,oh yeah right,its d mans fault for not knowing her too well before marrying her,ofcourse a man is supposed to know his wife's character in good times and even in bad times,and if his wife falls into d category of terrible women,then its d guys fault,he should leak his wound instead of going outside to commit one silly adultery all in da name of frustration

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if she is dating him, then she has to obtain more money form him then or make the most use of the relationship without appearing greedy and selfish.

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Taking care of babies is not an easy job.

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She may not have supported him emotionally during the time she was staying with him. And she may not have contributed anything tangible to the business that generated the wealth. She might have done nothing more than complain all day and take care of the babies. The only money she deserves in that case is the amount of money it would have taken to hire house helps to do everything she was doing for the man!

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sometimes it is not only fresh meat but may be because the woman is not as educated as the husband. many past Governors have had to get new wives because of their position in the political and social circle.

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yeah you're right though,but women don't do it as much as d men,men do it all d time,infact d only time a woman can ask for a large settlement is when shes married to d guy,but if they r just dating she can't ask for it can she?

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It will stop when he is too old to attract fresh meat.

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if she stayed with him when he was poor and now he is rich then she deserves half cuz they both did it together.

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and since the woman's body was the reason he went for "fresh meat", when that one becomes old he will dump her for another "fresh meat" and then dump and get more "fresh meat" and . . . and  . . .

when will the fresh and old meat cycle end?

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and those are the kind of men I brand useless and worthless. . .how can you dump a woman that went through hard times with you?

na, that is just not only being cold, that's also being selfish. . .

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sometimes the women jump ship as well because they want their husband to settle them from the wealth. I still remember what the wife of a prominent nigerian ( i think Chief Ferdinand) IN UK did to the poor chief. Sought a divorce and a huge settlement.

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Seun, i dont agree. I'd rather stick with a woman who went thru thick and thin with me than pick a "youthful" body who never understood what it meant to weather the storm with me.

If after the struggle "madam's" body is no longer as fresh as it once was, no problem . . . we shall enjoy what we have together.

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Yeah in some situations lol

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no wonder when some babes curse them guys ,d curse works ,because y not leave her early so that she can find her way,its very heartless of a man to allow a girl suffer wt him and wen he has made it,abandon her for a mint product,that is unfair

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still not enough reason for a married man to look outside ,nobody is perfect u know

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