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Do You Allow Your Partner To Pick Your Calls?

My girlfriend can pick all calls except some, of course, hustler calls. This is because these guys are students - broke Bottom guys and i dont want to "chop" their credit. Even if the president calls, she can pick it, afterall, if we see each other's body, what else have we to hide?

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anyone can pick my calls

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as a matter of policy, I don't pick her calls and I don't pick anybody's call.

the only call I allow myself to pick is my cell phone or the house phone.

any time her phone rings even when she is in the bath, I let it ring or I take it to her.

the only time I speak into her phone is when she gives it to me to talk to some one.

becos i already carry on this way, she has no choice but to respect that policy.

I have found out that whenever you pry into her privacy you get bitten so hard you hate yourself.

so better let lying dog lie.

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He used 2 pick, checks my text, call logs, etc without any permission from me & i dnt do dt 2 him.

We once had a big argument abt it, nt bcz im hiding anythn bt hez invading my privacy & smtngs r private.

eg. wt my gf's & i text 2 each other he dsnt hv 2 knw, mayb we discussing him(wt wil he do). or wt my sista text 2 me(family matters).

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y not. my fone lies around anywhere,gat nothin to hide.

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we trust ourselves enough not to pick each others calls

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i told my gf to stop because there when we were still in school i asked to pick my cal as early as 6am and when the call came in she pick without her knowing it was my dad. i had no explanation to giv to my dad

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I personally dont mind if she wants to because i have nothing to hide,

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Even in marriage,privacy is respected.Why cant it be so with a relationship.Hola at ordinaryman3000@yahoo.Com

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My HUSBAND can pick ma calls but boyfriends - NO.

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I don't pick his calls but I really don't mind if he picks mine.

He was in the bathroom yesterday and his call rang 3ce. When he came out, he asked me why I didn't pick it up. I simply told him that I didn't because he didn't ask me to.

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My relationships come with a warning on the pack

[color=#990000]Warning[/color[b]]; Pick my calls at your own risk. I will not be held liable for incidences resulting from reading my txt messages, checking my e-mails or answer my phones.[/b]

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@ gem87

there's nuffin worng with it because i'm clean

U rily dnt av the sligthest idea of wat u r saying! All cats are clean!

It's not just becos u av noting to hide, it's not becos she trusts u, its nt b/c u trust her,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, It's becos u want to keep ur relationship and avoid less friction. Even if u feel a call wuld mean no harm cos u av notin to hide, ur partner may read it odawise even if he/she is the holiest of holies. It may nt lead to a breakup bt may jst lead to unnecessary CONSTANT friction btw u two. I don't tink its rily okay

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Trust? Only very sad couples would base trust on cellphones! Solid couples shouldn't have to prove their honesty by "permitting" their partners to answer their calls.

The "permission" merely fuels further securities.

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No way, do not receive any of my calls n don't read my messages. I don't even touch her phone

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yeah. he picks my call and i pick his sometimes maybe when i am not there or he is not there. no big deal. even if it is of the opposite sex. we respect our privacy though.

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anytime she does, i can bet, she wont like the outcome

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Love is all about trust! allowing your partner to pick ur calls is left to the policy both of you have set. The fact is this, your partner must know every details about you and the other way round too. It all depend of both of you loving each other with all your heart. It is possible for your girl or your guy told you that this happened today, i mean, it is possible for your girl to tell you that she exchenged phone number with a guy due to preasure from the person so she just had to disclose her number should in case he called, he should understand and from there the guy will know wats up. This is all about trust. Thank you

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My partner does not and i dont, my cell phone is my privacy likewise his, so why should i, the best way to stay strong in a r/ship is STAY AWAY FROM HIS/HER CELL PHONE

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only with my permission, same applies 2 me. if i'm not permitted, i won't pick hers either[color=#000099][/color]

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No, I wouldn't. I'd never answer my girlfriend's cellphone either.

If one is destined to cheat, they'd cheat, before the advent of cellphones and internet / email, there were cheats. So, answering your partner's cellphone because you're suspicious of their activities boils down to a trust issue. Then, you need to ask yourself - are you answering your partner's cellphone, because you genuinely think you're being helpful? Or merely because you think there's something going on that shouldn't be?

In the same vein, do you open your partner's mail, and go through their emails?

Some things are best left alone, you could answer you partner's cellphone all you like, steam open their letters, access their emails etc. It would NOT stop a determined cheater, and if you feel you can't trust your partner, then I'm afraid you should not be together.

Your partner should NOT have to prove he / she's faithful by allowing you to access their phone calls, those with insecurities will always find something else to fret about, regardless of the fact they answer their partner's cellphones and find nothing incriminating.

The next step would be to start following them when they go out, and hiding behind bushes.

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he wud want to respect my privacy n not pick, except i tell him to

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My girl wont pick my calls no matter what and i will never pick her calls. there is more to trust than picking of calls.

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Why not?got no skeleton in my cupboard!i pick his calls too.Understanding matters!!!

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Trust is lacking, you need to reassure him from time to time that he's the only one. Better still swear on your great grandma's grave (if she's not alive) that you'll be faithful to him for[b] as long as his love don't change[/b].

Next, put yourself in his shoes, if his best pal is a girl and she buzzes him almost all the time, especially when you have a clash or you are enjoying a romantic moment and he starts smiling like he won jackpot on phone with her, girl, u gotta be kidding me you'd be okay with that?

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As a gal most of my friends are guys infact my best friend is a guy weneva he's there<my bf> and i answer the phone he'll be like who is that. talk more of wen he's the one who picks the calls. Wen we talk of my friends he always wants to hear me talk of the shes and weneva he hears a he, he'll be like pardon repeat yourself if he picks my calls and hears a hes voice men its a case

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I will like 2 do it, but would not do such. There is always lack of understanding in ladies infact both sex.

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I could, y not. Its only when u've got sumfn to hide that u'l be jumpy.

However, it is not all calls. Only calls in which he knows the caller.

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sometimes people that want to break up just wait till they find a reason to do so.

The other boy on the phone came as a good oppunity.

But for me i rather give someone i do not know so well a cell phone number that my house number because the house phone is something i have had for like 16 years now and i do not want to change it because of funny calls.

the cell phon is changed more often.

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Home boy is full of poo, he been wanted to break up with you but didnt have a good enough reason until he answered you phone,

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Why is it that relationships are so hard these days.

Heck ! Pick his call or don't pick it ,what does it matter.

For all I care,I will pick or not pick a call ,depending on my mood.

My girl can pick my call if I am not within reach but she should not do it because she is suspicipous of me,otherwise there is no basis for the relationship.

People have simply messed up this relationship thing.

Now everything is viewed with suspicion and ulterior motives.

Picking a call is a simple thing that should not have called for a discussion.

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Say the truth, has it ever caused any misunderstanding?

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Do you pick his calls?

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there's nuffin worng wiv it cuz i'm clean

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I have nothing to hid anyone can pick my calls.

But then I do not have a cell phone and do not need one .So the house calls can be for anyone .

But i will never pick anyones phone , and even with my kids i only pick their cellphone if they forgot it at home. i answer Hello ***** phone??.

When i still had a cell phone onone picked it.

I think there is a big difference between house phone and cell phone?

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No apology, with all due respect, there was no love in the first place - take it. It's understandable if he is jealous, but requesting for a break-up is welcome. He only underlines the bottom line.

He wasn't meant for you.

Actually, i hardly ever pick my giffy's call, but I like it when she picks her call, infact if she doesn't some people will ask me "is she not there, why didn't she pick it?"

Its fun to be open and free - you won't even want to cheat because nothing is hidden here, your past will catch up with you, so why not just be free?

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i try that onetime but i will never do it again,

one day i told my partner to take my call becos that day my mom suppoed to call me

and i was in the shower,so when the phone ring i told him to take it and it was

not my mom and it was someone else a boy from my school,i didnt know what to do and the same day me

and the we broke up,becos he was too jaloers and i told him that the boy that called i dont have nothing

to do with him,he stay didnt believe me and he said he was leaving and he left,

he call me and the next day and told me say he wanna beoke up with me becos i have

another boy friend.

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ah but what the hell she can if she catch me than she catch me (just joking)

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I agree with your policy. It makes sense. Cheaters won't agree.

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