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Love at First Sight: Do you believe in it?

Initially I counted this[b] love at first sight[/b] [phenomenom] to be madness or infatuation, but I was later trapped in it.

My current girlfriend, I felt in love with her the first day I set my eyes on her and I was forced to tell her, but there was fire. The first thing she said was that I am crazy. To be sincere, I accepted the insult to be the fact. [I agree that] I was being really crazy to tell a girl I was seeing for the first time that I have tender affection for her. She was even the one that bailed me out, because the way she saw me staring at her after what she said to me she came and said we can be ordinary friends but as time goes on she realized I was not joking when I expressed my feelings to her.

Isn't this funny? Please, all guys out there if you find yourself in such situation, do not hinder expressing it!

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There is no hard and fast rules about the number of times u see one b/f u can fall in love with him or her.It is a thing of sight and mind.

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New topic: Do you believe in love at first sight? (part 2)

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there is nothing like love in the first place, people just mess around while using the words

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LOVE at first sight? hun r u nuts gosh dat sounds more like INFATUATION to me

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i call it attraction at first sight.

there cant be love at first sight, na wetin u be winshh.

the thing is when u see someone and u attracted u gat to check it out and kow if its really what u saw or thought,now when it comes out to be what he/she thought they say it was love at first sight..

well..

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I agree with you vexxy.

Emotions are feelings

Feelings are unstable

And you can't depend on something unstable, so verify and be sure.

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Yes but emotions can lead us in a very wrong direction. So I'd say be careful if you think it's love at first sight. Take time to truly assess the situation.

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Hmmmmm, that's very true vexxy. But some people are just allow themselves to be overcome by their emotions, hence, they say "love at 1st sight"

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Whao vexxy, those were real life stories? If they are, I hope some would not be misled by it cause those involved did not say it was love at 1st sight.

The bottom line is use your head and pray to God.

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2 weeks. Can you believe it?

He said he prayed about it and it just felt so right.

Here's another one: (I love love stories)

Some friends of ours who live in a different state were in love with each other. She was 19 and he was 21. They dated for only 5 months before getting married. The parents didn't think it would work so they were against it at first. These two have just celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary. They have 9 children, 20 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren.

I love hearing their story every time they tell it.

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I can vouch for a story like that. One night a few years ago I went to a club with a few of my girls. One of them hooked up with a guy that night saying that he could be "the one."

The following week they went on a date.

That was the end of it. She left mid-date and never spoke to him again.

I don't think there is love at first sight but there is "chemistry" that makes you want to see this person again or get to know them further.

Another stroy of chemistry/connection:

A pastor friend of mine was walking down the street and he bumped into a lady. He said that there was something about her that just pleased his very soul. They dated for 2 weeks, he proposed, they were married 7 months later. They are still going strong (married for 7 years) with two beautiful children.

He didn't say love at first sight but he did say there was a connection.

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there was the babe i saw one night in a cyber cafe, her seductive dressing "crazy iruka" almost blinded me but i decided to use my head so i chilled. I later saw her the following day near her hostel and i was very sorry for she was "an epitome of all ugility" her "manchester" not with standing so gees apply wisdom o...

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Cry never, over what?

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and y may I ask if Great pete crying?

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Infatuation.

Love isnt a deadly passion.

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sorry ooo But I beg to disagree with you guys..

If there is nothing like love at first sight then what is that thing that holds you spell bound when you see someone for the first time and you have a lump in your troat that does not go away. You eat, dream think and feel that person until .... wetin be that feeling abeg?

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I agree with Ra.  I would think that love comes after you get the chance to know someone.

This reminds me of a bad pick up line:

Excuse me but do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again. . .

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there's no such thing as love @ first sight. at least i don't think there is.

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No I don't. I can like someone at first sight but not love coz love takes time to grow.

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@ Bibi

u are right .u can,t love somebody u just met for the first time it is imposicant.

love @ first sight ko love @ first sight Ni.

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I think its LUST at first sight. Usually it sabout how she/he looks and the immediate errotic feelings. Thats not love, but lust. Usually doesnt go the long way.

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fabian why dont you give us the fulland complete meaning of love

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Yes i believe in love at first sight.

it depends on the personalities the guy potrays.

First impression matter,i will always remeber the first day i ever set my eyez on him,

what happened and how it all went

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BET award was crazy. The guy was like.....drooling, i am sure he "thingy" was so hard. Oh me gosh..he eyes were poping out.

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de guy will wanna start crying lol..den he'll say..i'm so in luv wit u..remember wen beyonce gave dis guy a lapdance in front of evry1 at de BET

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lol..am talking bout de guys and am talkin bout real life as in she comes to meet u

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No I don't believe in love at first sight. I only believe in infatuation, attraction & lust at first sight.

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i blieve in love at 1st..........realy.........and..cool

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NO. I BELIEVE IN LOVE AT SECOND SIGHT.

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i believe in it. but i know its not for everyone. its life everythings unpredictable

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guys..lemme ask u, if u see beyonce or halle berry for de first time..wot would u say?

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well to start with u have to know somebody before loving the person. so i do,t believe in love at first sight.

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I believe in love at first sight. But, in some instances, I don't believe it (instances like when the guy/girl says "gosh, he looks hot, his dressing is the bomb", with so many outwards apperances being the judge of the love.

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Your reply to this topic will be appreciated. <editor:snip>

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Interesting topic <editor: snip>

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I believe in love at first sight, too. I mean the way de person looks and the perspection of the person you get in your mind worths it. But someone has got to be careful because first appearances might be risk taking.

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I do not really believe in it. To me it is lust at first sight.

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