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Do You Consider Kissing Someone Else As Cheating?

I keep a long distance relationship wit my girlfriend and we try to live it up as much as we can, even having phone s3x sometimes. I`ve known her for 18 months, but we started dating 5 months ago and she`s a virgin (better that way cos of d distance), moreover i trust her very much cos of the love we share and her very principled nature.

Recently, she asked me a simple question which i`ve been thinking about it:

'Do you consider kissing someone else as cheating?'

My answer:

'it depends. if u have a crush on someone presently and u kiss the person, then it`s cheating. But if somehow u get 2 kiss a random person one day and it ends there, then, no big deal, cos body no be firewood'

Fellow Nlders, though she`s said she`s not kissed anyone, i dont know whether my answer was good enough.

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Na so una dey start.small time you go sleep with am then you come dey ask us say,if having sex with some one cheating.

comot for road. olojukokoro.

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obviously its cheating and could lead to anything else but if it doesn't lead to something else, i believe the partner should be forgiven and also given a second chance and if it led to something else, he/she should still be forgiven but you giving her a second chance lies within how much she means to you but you'll have to fight so hard to earn back her trust so i think you should let her go, its simple

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Would you kiss the person in front of your partner? If NO, then yeah, it's cheating.

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That was why I cudn't waste a sec. to pummel a younger fella that ws tryna force a 'hot one'(kiss) out of my gf few days back,  she cudn't help bathing me wif kisses whn we got home, until I seriously pleaded for a break,  Awesome, isn' it.

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ver true.if your heart belongs to sum1 else apart from ur partner, then u r cheating. u don't

hav to be kissing or sleeping wit the person.

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Cheating is in the mind. U can cheat even without kissing, and u can kiss without cheating. Had to beleive but when u get to experience that situation u'll understand what I mean.

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^^^ lol interesting analogy.

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The whole stuff is like a football game; PECKING is like getting ready for a game, Kissing on d lip is like getting into the football pitch, FRENCH KISS, (ehe wahala), is the kick-off, wut follows after that- passing the ball around, showing some skills, and wait! Wut makes a game very interesting, GOALS 1, 2, 3, , the formation doesn't mean a thing! hahahahahahahahaha

Pls tell us the result of the match when next u visit home, she might b a C. Ronaldo looking @ Real Madrid or a Fabregas who's mind is divided.

Best of luck dude.

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in a relationship, undue contact (bodily or orally)with the opposite gender who isn't yours is simply cheating, talking about a kiss,it depends on the kind of kiss-french or friend!, for french, it's outright cheating. for friend, it depends on the mind set of the individuals involved,

@poster, for her to ask you that kind of question, it means she was about to or she's been considering the thought of kissing a guy she's had a lil' crush on, who stays close to her, or she has already performed the act, i think you should give her a better answer on your stand against it, or else,

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kissing is cheatin, whether you like the person you kissed or not, don't fool urself, or her into thinkin it's all about feelings, it isn't,

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Guy yu 4kup,hw yu de lt her knw say kiss anoda person na small crime 4 relationship,

kai yu don let her knw say she get ryt tu cheat n sx wt anoda person n ask question,n yu incorruptible judge go mumu say no, sorry

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you start thispatern,when does it end?

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OK ladies, if I Nyansh you but didnt kiss u, can u call it cheeting?

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I think kissing is more personal than the actual sex as there are people who will allow you have sex with them but will not allow you kiss them. Also when a girl allows you to kiss her to your hearts content she is merely informing you that at appropriate time and place , you can get the whole goods . So yes if i caught my girl friend or wife kissing another man i will consider it cheating.

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Absolutely agree, if you wouldnt do it in front of your bf or gf then its cheating. Kissing can easily lead to something else so definately its cheating. Just my opinion.

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Of course.

Kissing someone else other than your partner in a romantic way is C.H.E.A.T.I.N.G

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Kissing,cheating<they kinda rhyme>

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Considering that this topic is just slow,I am not surprised to see questions like yours."What is a phobia"?SMH

google it, can't you just do that?

Homophobic/Homophobia, fear of homosexuals, thats pretty easy.

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No how can it b, its a criteria 4 an award in faitfulnes mtchew!

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No how can it b, its a criteria 4 an award in faitfulnes mtchew!

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@what.lyf

Oh please. Go f**k yourself. I work in the advertising industry and I come across people from various walks of life so my experiences and views on things are very diverse. I'm not going to bury my head in the sand act like it doesn't exist or go around bashing gay people. Last time I checked gay people are human beings as well. What makes you any better than a gay person? Why do you even care? Why is someone else sexual orientation any of your business? As for my parents they know what my views on homosexuality is, and it not an issue for them. They have their views and I have mine, end of story. Yes, I know know Nigerians [and many other African nations] will "never embrace homosexuality" but the fact of the matter is there are gay people in this world whether you like it or not. You and I both know that's not going to change anytime soon.

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Do you understand what a "phobia" is or are you simply misusing language?

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Well, its true so don't act like I just made that line up. Most Nigerians are homophobic, I didn't say all Nigerians. Look fool, call me whatever you like. I know what my sexual orientation is, just because I'm vocal about my views on sex and human sexuality, it doesn't make me a lesbian or bi. Unlike you, I don't go around trying to make people feel bad about who they are.

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Inked_Nerd baby, i am proud to disappoint you, HOMOSEXULITY and BISEXUALS will never be Embraced in nigeria, I wonder if your parents would still have given birth to you were they homos, Sorry lezbian, you are a big disgrace, If only if your parents saw d future coming, they would have aborted you long ago, U are just a complete waste of sperm!!

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Its definitely cheating.

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Better have sex than you telling me just a kiss. I had the babe I was dadting one day I just decided to shake her a little Me: what happened I suspect you had sex with another dude after all the asking She was like: Just a romance I was like watttttttttttttttt? lol I just manage to finish that round and left her to go and continue with the "Just Romance"

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Cheating is cheating but cheating pass cheating. Some cheating can't be helped and some can.

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Well, its true so don't act like I just made that line up. Most Nigerians are homophobic, I didn't say all Nigerians. Look fool, call me whatever you like. I know what my sexual orientation is, just because I'm vocal about my views on sex and human sexuality, it doesn't make me a lesbian or bi. Unlike you, I don't go around trying to make people feel bad about who they are.

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Yes, kissing someone that is not your regular 'girl/boy friend/lover' or husband/wife in a romantic way baby, is absolutely C H E A T I N G!  Please, don't ask any more!

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If you feel bad and if you can't do it in the presence of your lover, then it probably is.

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oboy, ur babe asked because she is getting already some "french kiss" from some available dude in ur absense, i also have a gf back in naija who is also a virgin (at least i feel some form of security because u can never trust babes dis days) whom i love with my heart and hope to get married to her on return. she dare not ask me such question because she knows what my response wil be even without asking, shine ur eyes dude and wise up

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C'mon, grow up. Don't act like people don't kiss people of that same sex. Let's not act like school children here.

Yes, its still cheating, even when it someone of the same sex. If you and I were dating, what would make it ok for me to kiss a woman but not ok to kiss a man? Or what would make it ok for you to kiss a man and not ok to kiss a woman? There's no difference. Either way, your still stepping outside of that relationship, therefore its cheating.

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ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww disgusting. . .

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This discussion on kissing is becoming boring.

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@ topic

hisssssssssssssss

its a no brainer

KISSING ANOTHER PERSON IS CHEATING!!! PURE AND SIMPLE, STOP TRYING TO JUSTIFY THIS

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what of a kiss from the same sex? ?

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NO!

It is cheating only when you kiss yourself!

What a question!

Abegi

cheating aint got two names!

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if its a peck on a cheek like by saying thank you to me its not cheating but, if its all tongues touching too then i will considered that as cheating

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@post

It is cheating pure and simple - no need to try and justify it - if u justify it. you r simply playing devil's advocate.

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u answered well but u shldnt av said such an encouraging words to a girl who actually misses u. that is if u dont mind an acting lover in your place, who might fool her from kissing to romance to sex.

I advice u discourage her.

best of luck shaa.

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Kissing, is kissing and that is an exchange of  fluid. If the  writer or the receiver understands what kissing is, then, the writer should know that immediately you exchange kissing, you are sending message between you two and that could lead to sex. 

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my their is nothing there. my girl and i does that. so no big deal.

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Googles, Madam nevr say never.

BE nice and u can have me someday (mwaaaaah)

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Gooogles. Madam if we waz to Nyansssh without kissing, can that be considered as cheating?

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no its not o

we are sewious

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it depends, is it kiss on the cheeks like italians do or tongue action?

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@190, Babay calm your nerves,cork is just blabbing.as per d topic, personally i cant kiss sum1 dat is not my bf.trust me

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