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Do You Have Any Regrets? What Would You Have Wished?

Many relationships ended in so much pain and hurt, distrust and mistreatment. Others ended with misconception, misinformation etc.

Now, what are those things you wish you had done better in your past relationships; things you wish you hadn't done.

If you have the opportunity of having to turn back the hands of time, what would you avoid and what will be your input to making it all work out fine?

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No regrets. . .just wish I were wiser back then. . .

because every experience has been a stepping stone. . .to doing things better than I did in the past. . .

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i wish i didnt get pregnant now, i ve offended people close to me, but am still a little happy about it sha, and i wish i never met him-- he knows himself i wish i fell in love with another person not him

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There is no point dwelling on the past, I 've made my mistakes and i've learnt from them, No Regrets.

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I regret falling so deeply in Love with Arsenal.

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What is past is past, I'd better move on with my life than grieve over spilt milk.

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Do reveal your name. As you reveal so shall your request be granted

I can't muster up the energy to explain my reason for wishing I had said no. Maybe you can explain your reason?

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im just sharing my thoughts without going into detail

sheesh

and no, its none of the above, so stop making jokes.

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I liked what Davidylan said, even though I'm pretty sure this topic is not about catering things to what people want to hear.

I wouldn't change anything about myself apart from a few times I compromised my deserved decisions, decisions that anybody who truly loved the person they were with, would have supported.

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@ezinne, I don't know if I agree with your philosophy, not that there's any problem with you choosing to live by your own conducts. It just seems as if that approach would destabilize your relationship from the onset. You can cut your clothes according to your size while also remaining honest.

I see nothing wrong with being compassionate and honest with someone you're dating. I would agree more with you if you had said it's better to hold off on any grave revelation(s) <unless asked> until your partner gets a chance to know what you bring to the table.

That lack of honesty could do more harm than good, by causing your relationship to cripple

Compassion for a human being regardless of one's relationship status is an admirable quality.

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I hate regrets, but I've definitely learnt that compassion and honesty should be shelved until men earn your trust.

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Nothing. Waste of time. Error in judgment.

Oh wait a minute, but I wasn't even in a relationship per-se

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regret being used,wish i was more matured then but i'm better for it now.

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I have no regrets, am happy that Naughty Person is out of my life

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Would have traveled less,being around more, trusted less, all in all it was a good ride, some other time some other place a new lesson to be learned,that's the essence of living anyway, gathering lessons via experiences and generally making amends and giving it all you got, in the pursuit of happiness.

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Do I regret it ? not really.

I wish I had told him I loved him,even if it is  by faking it but those 3 words never and still never comes out of my mouth.

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i wish i had seen past the sexy smile. i wish i wasn't that romantic. i wish i had nag more often. i wish i could thrust a sword in hi heart until it bleeds out his life, lol just joking but i do wish i could cause him more pain.

but then, i am wiser now. i know i have to talk out more. some say it was cowardice even though i argued it was being patient. i have to leran how not to jump into conclusions and have an open mid to issues that arouses a raised eyebrow,

i wish i had smaller bosoms, he always thought i attracted guys with the bosoms,

i wish i could more bitchy then i wouldn't have to take no bullshits,

i wish the love we shared was strong enough to pull us through,

above all i wsh him happiness , well wt a little p;ain though

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Never regret anything because at one point in time, it was something you really wanted.

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hahahaha The Seeker I know you regret not meeting me first before my man lol

I dont have regrets at all he was , he is and he will be the best ever to happen to me and you know who lol

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If we dont hav regret we dont learn anything. and be afraid of a r/ship that jst turns out Very very g8.

Communicate,

communicate,

and more communication.

thats what is required.

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Cool talk there.Whats past is past we look forward 2wards a great 2morrow

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Wiser and more mature now to know that I won't put up with poo! I regret nothing as it has made me a better person

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Nothing. I would change nothing. I never regret anything.

What's gone, and what's past help, Should be past grief

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wish I killed him with arsenic and then dumped his body under third mainland bridge for it to ROT.

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Don't have any regrets

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I would have a longer thing.

Lol!

Nigeria Is Blessed!

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