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Do You Think He Misses Me?

'Don't know if this is the appropraite section, but here goes:

We were lyk best friends @ schl even up to the beginning of the semester, then he did something very silly on FB. We were so close, most people thot we were d8n, or were brother and sister. We don't even say hi anymore.

Do you think he misses me, cos I rily do miss him, altho I miss him less everyday.

What do you think I should do abt this, if anything at all? I know the rational thing is to talk to him but I'm not going to do that, I guess I'm too proud. Nways, he messd things up so I thnk it's only fair that he fixes it. Besides, I've got other friends

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shilling i am so proud of u

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Ok, so, he read my note, said it was so damn deep. Also said that looking back this whole thing was his fault but he was too immature to step up and apologize. Said he was sorry, hope I've forgivn him. I'm so happy I did this, thnx guys for your help, appreciate it.

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All the best, if in doubt - go with your heart, if it doesn't go as planned, you'll always have some laughs in future.

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Hi Shilling,

I'm sorry I'm hijacking your thread. I've been trying to get in touch with you for some time without much success. Please I have some questions I'll like to ask you about botswana as I intend to relocate there soon. Kindly contact me through my email idowuodupitan@gmail.com . I'll be glad if you can do this, as I'll be re-editing this message to remove my email address later. I look forward to hearing from you.

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A little update:

I've written him a rily touching note apologizing to him on FB, so let's see if he responds and what he says, hope it goes well. Thnx 4 ur help guys, I'm finally swallowing my pride

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I'm guessing you guys never sorted things out after the disagreement, what a shame, you two may still be talking.

It's pride that causes you to hold your tongue even though you really want to talk to him.

Who cares if he doesn't miss you (even though he probably does), who cares, why don't you just take things into your control, don't wait for him to call, but instead, you wanna talk to him? Talk to him.

I know that maybe there is more to this story and maybe there are feelings involved in this, but as for now, you need to forget the pride and be the bigger person. If he doesn't speak to you, you can rest assure that you tried your best to reconcile things.

Life is too short to be holding grudges and keeping malice.

Peace.

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@Poster , Yes he Misses you.

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Pardon me. But I think your story has little depth to attract the kind of views you will need to work with.

For any relationship to succeed, it must be a union of two forgivers, you must be open and approachable

to each other and exhibit the spirit of humility and maturity.

Does he miss you? It is possible both of you are in the same shoe, waiting for who will make the first move.

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@shilling

have you called him yet

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We didn't meet thru the net, we were friends in person. But, I get u, thnx nways

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If it’s through the internet you people met, then don’t take it so seriously; internet relationships are like winds and clouds that brings no rain. They end in nothing.

But if you can’t control your longing for him, then it’s ok to send him a mail and say hello to him; there’s no need for you to hide your feelings and suffer in silence when you know you love someone.

But abut your question whether he misses you, that’s a question I can’t answer; it’s up to you to figure it out.

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dailing, grin, grin, he picks,

hay naughty, wats up? or aw re u doin? wit smiles

okwu ebiena

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Thnx guys, I think I'll call him. Thing is, I'm not to sure of what to say. Maybe I'll go with y me's idea, I've got some thinking to do

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shilling when i saw ur name here i actually thought it was one of my lil' chics - her name is SHIRLEY,

now we both had our misunderstanding and the gr8 thing there is that she actually calls to fix things up and at the end i just discover i respect her more for her maturity than mine

now back to the point,

"they say matured people act matured, proud minds are proud" if i were u i will call him because i swear he will never call you again because ego wont let him do so, ego i know are for men not women, because women are known to be more understanding and matured emotionally, and not proud and egoistic

take care!

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@ Dvampire

Thnx, I get ur point, besyds, blessed are the peacemakers, sons of God.

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@ y me

Gud idea, I'll think abt it, I'll be honest, dont think I'll be able to. Put yourself in my shoes, he screwed up big tym , y do I ve to be the peacemaker?

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just as you said some silly argument

why dont you just act as the matured caring girl you are and just call him

But note do not show any form of strings attached to the call just tell him long time that you just felt like hearing his voice and act as if nothing ever went wrong between both of you.

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What caused the disagreement?

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In the disagreement you guys had who was wrong and what caused it

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lol, thnx guys

@ romade

thnx, I'm kinda proud of me too!!

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