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i am in love with this man for six years, he didnt say he ll marry me , but i am so much in love with him, i call him and ask him if he ll marry me he said he ll find time for us to talk, he did not call neither talk on the issue again. i sent atext to him but he did not reply nor call me. please advice me on what to do should i just forget about him and find another man, do you think that this man really love.

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common gal, wake up from ur slumber, six years relationship and d guy dosent want to be committed 2 u, dear the dis guy is just wasting ur precious time, he dosent love u, darling forget about him, he dosent wat being a man, he his still a baby, life goes on.

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Darling, Six years is a long time. . .Dump the boy this week!.

Reason: For wasting six good years of your life

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wat?

u mean to tell me a 30yr old lady is off limit?

abeg!!!!!!!

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@desorlah, That's a good advise

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xactly my point.

e may not b cn u as a material.

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@ poster,

6 years is a lot of time for you to be able to read your boyfriend and know his psyche, my dear proposing to him will not make him appreciate you more, it will only make you sound desperate and that may put him off.

but if after all this while, he is comfortable and seems in the right frame of mind to settle down and yet he hasn't said anything to you about it, then i think you should start shopping for another basket to carry your eggs in cos he may not see you as wife material and may not know how to tell you.

so look inwards, do what your head and heart tells you to do

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check what u think he admires in married women that u seem not to have.

when it comes to taking decisions bout gettin married,its entirely a different ball game.u have to b able to meet up wit his standards of marriage life in its literal meaning ooooooooooooor mayb its MONEY MATTER.

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i dont tink d guy is ready,get another guy.

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6 years with him u say?

      na waa 4 you oooo.

             let me tell u the guy don tire 4 u be dat.

spread ur net and look 4 another man .

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"If you love anything, see it free, If its yours it will surely come back to you.

You were probably assuming all these years that he was going to marry you. Ha!, six years is long oh. Don't try to pressure a guy into marrying you cos he'll just fraustrate your life afterwards. Best advice, start warming up to move on.

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Six yr's? Wat, so wat hv u been doing with him all this while eh?, how old r u now sef?

will gate back to u!

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Well just keep praying to God about the issue. Six years isn’t something to throw away like that. But I’ll also advise you not to write him off completely.

A man has to be finically stable before he starts any plans pertaining to marriage.

you might not just understand what he's thinking it's natural, you aren't getting any younger. But you should know that the key to every relationship is understanding.

Spend more time with him so as to know what's is on his mind before you make any final conclusions.

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Six year is enough to know ur stand in his life, if truely he loves u he would have proposed to u, so make hail while the sun shine.

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What happen is that maybe the man is scared of marring you or he has something in his Combound asing another girl. But don't waste much time so that will not marry at your old age.

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From what you have said, the man no love.

Then again marriage is one thing love is another.

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Girl, six years is a rily long time & i tink it's long enuff for u 2 know the position of your relationship. I mean, by now you should know where the relationship is heading to. The guy probably loves you too but is just afraid of commitments. Why not jus give him some time, maybe he'll come around but if he doesn't, girl, just move on. Wish u the best.

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It's only you that can really answer the question. You may need to find out if the guy in question is really ready for marriage. Guys don't really like a lady forcing them into marriage. For the fact that he did not reply you does not mean that he does not love you, maybe he has a set time for himself. Find out about when he plan to settle down, check it with yours. If ok by you you can go ahead and wait for him. if not, I will advise you push over. But remember "If you love anything, see it free, If its yours it will surely come back to you.

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