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Does Calling Ur Bf/gf On Phone On Daily Basis Means U Love Her So Much?

Just because I did not call her for 2 days due to some reasons, she said I dont love her anymore and I am having an affair outside. Does calling your gal on daily basis measures the degree of love you have for her?

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Nope but i try my best to call often

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Ladies should learn to call their guys if they(guys) don't call. This shows if a relationship is balanced and not being driven by one party while the other party sits there waiting for calls everytime withouth returning any of such calls

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nope. but i try to call as much as i can cos it counts too

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I've not call'd ma gurl in 10dys n stil countin.am soo into her though bt i've bin callin 4 a longtime nw.she shld shw she cares too by callin.am nt into callin bt i stil try cuz i wanna hear her voice.

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I don't get it!!! how can you not call someone you love for a whole frigging day? it truly beats my imagination. i speak with my bloke up to , i can't count. i call him anytime i want to speak with him and same for him. when he calls at a bad time, i tell him, babe i am busy now lemme call u back the second i am free and its the frigging same for him.But we talk constantly through the day. The only time we dont talk as many times in a day is when we have got lovers' tiff. He's got a job and i've got one too but we never get too "busy" to talk.

So poster not calling your girl for two days is very worrisome. She also needs to learn to call you even when she wants to speak with you. She doesnt have to wait for you to do all the calling.

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Communication is key in a relationship. The purpose of calling is to let the other party know that i'm still interested in you no matter how long we have known each other and  i still enjoy talking with you because you capture my interest even though i do not have any sensible thing to say at the moment.

A woman is very observant with changes in the pattern of whomever she is involved with. As much as its within your power  if you call her everyday try and keep up with that pattern you started with, but if you must change at least be kind enough to inform her so that she does not read meaning into your actions. She should also make effort to call, text or flash at least to show that you are also on her mind.

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If one have set that standard of calling daily and a day or two passes w/o you calling the girl will definitely be worried, but why can't the girl call? although most girls in Nigeria are good on waiting for the guys to always call them, they like economizing credit a lot, you can even send them credit of N1000 right now and instead of them to call to say thanks for the credit they'll just flash you maybe for you to call them back so they can say thanks. very absurd.

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That is preposterous(calling everyday) only to miss a day, then the tap gets running. Why don't she beep at least to know the status report

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Bullshi.t!! If i gave her ma word "i love her", then i didn't call for sometime then she starts feeling funny then let her go hug transformer jor. Btw she no get phone nor credit ni?

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sometimes people do it out of duty than out of real love

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and by the way,

Just like I expect his phone calls during breaks, he expects me to answer when he calls, IF I DON'T ANSWER, he will call me about fifty times or call my mother fifty times until one of us ANSWER THE PHONE,

When we do answer, IS EVERYTHING OKAY DO I NEED TO COME HOME? I am like chile I was washing my azz, can I wash my azz in peace? But that my husband so I deal with it,

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2 me its a way i know he still atleast thinks of me

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No,

My husband always call me during his breaks so I expects his phone call if I don't get it then I do think something is wrong,

That why I tell men all the time don't start nothing you are not willing to continue,

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IF u call everyday to her, then why not in 2 days, We women sometimes get spoiled so given a good reason for not calling for 2 days can be excuse, wenti again we fit add.

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I like what MRBrown says. But then @poster if you are not calling why wont she call you? simple

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I hv been searching for this topic.

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The most important thing in a relationship is communication. I dont understand how someone will go a day not to talk of two days without communicationg with someone you love.

Lexi has a point though - she could have called! There's no rule that says only the guy has to make the calls.  Of course it makes us feel better if he calls . . . but either way, 2 days is too long for people in a relationdship to go without any form of communication!

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Oh boy have you been released?

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If I FLASH HER 3 TIMES IT MEANS I LOVE HER,2 MEANS I MISS HER. MUST CALL HER OFTEN?

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Dude, some people actually have things to do. . .  Like some of us have really busy schedules that keep us out and about for like 18hrs a day!!

If a call matters so much to her, why cant she call?

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That's the problem with most r/ships. They just lay back and expect you to call. Even when there's no money, or when u have nothing important to say. If a girl calls me regularly i'd really feel funny. I mean, a brother needs his space.

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callin her evryday doesnt measure d love , but goes a long way of she knowing u are thinkin of her nd i think everyone likes to know they re being thot of, esp by their loved ones.

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Talking from experience uh?

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If you truly love someone - how can you not call them for one day? That is bizarre!!

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no, infact personally i dont like dat.instead calls shld be sparingly if not i'll term it BUGGING.

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@Poster: Your's was 2 days, mine was a day, and its not like i forgot oh, i went to watch my gunners play a soccer game. . . i didnt call cos we lost and i was pissed. . . Its crazy!!!

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I hate talkin on the phone text messages are WAY better

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Never start a relationship with something you not sure you can keep up with.

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My Guy, na the orientation wey you bin give so you no suppose complain. Well as for weda calling her everybody will show her that you love and care for her, My brother, na lie. Dey no dey use that one measure love at all. You no call person no mean say the person no dey ur mind

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@poster

put it this way: if you have been calling her everyday for the last year and you suddenly stop calling for 2 days then she has reasons to worry since you have changed your pattern.

let her know the reason why you suddenlky stop calling her ET VOILA.

as for the love bit, tell your girlfriend that calling her everyday is NOT a sign of your love(especially if you have nothing to say) but just that you are a caring person.

your love should not be valued via the amount of phone call you make to her.

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@poster

Ur gf is a slow thinker.

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@Poster u and gf probs well it doesn't definetly not!

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You too no do well for not calling her but if you didn't call them she should. I try to call my girlfriend everyday and if I don't call, she calls.

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Imma need you to stop going to the ganja farm Vic,

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