I'm 24 and she is 22. She is just my friend and we are not lovers although we are close. I took her for sightseeing. During the discussion with the tour guide, he paused and asked her whether she will marry me, just like that.
We were not discussing relationships mind you. He was showing us around the place. And when I asked him why he asked her such a sensitive question, he said he doesn't talk anyhow, that something just put it in his mind to ask her.
When we were about leaving the place he asked me whether I will marry her. I told him I had to think about it.
How come he didn't think that she could be my sister, cousin etc.?
Both of us are graduates, but you know as a girl she will be looking out to get married very soon and definitely, I'm not ready now.
what do I do cos she might be the one for me. Also what do you think about the age difference.
Could it be that we were destined to be together and we didn't know all these years cos she has just been my casual friend, although I know I love her.
I happened to call the guy later and ask him the meaning of what he said, he just said I should think about it. that there is a day that a guy and a girl came to the place and he made the pronouncement and today they are married. I'm confused.