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Does Finance Matter In Any Relationship?

This question have been bothering me ever since I met this girl and she told me without money this relationship would not work I was scared because of this statement it made me feel she just needed my money.

I left her and had to go searching for a lady that will go out with me for who I am not for what I have, what do you think? Must i bring in money in this I don`t think so?

Pls help me.

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YES.finance matters o.

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this is the 21st century guys. there is no romance without finance.

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Finance definitely matters in a relationship.

You need money to do so much - u may not have too much but you gotta have enough to do certain things like going out etc.

We were just talking about this the other day, when we watched a nollywood movie when the guy pretended to be poor to see if the girl liked him for his money or whatever. I just simply replied that God has to be on ma side to pass that test - cause omo i dont know o.

Its not like i am after a millionaire but we must be able to afford the basics now.

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Of course money's very important, but nobody says it has to be from the Man. She can always 'finance' the r/ship. If she's a student, then forget it bro. Wait till you have money, before you start thinking of a r/ship.

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@poster

at least 95% of ladies will consider their man to be well to do (money) but at the same time shy away from letting you know.

You will only find out when gari is out of stock in the house, no oil, no meat on the rice etc, when this occur in the family affair the woman rakes and reality will show up.

Please dont be deceived, work hard and pray i believe you will always enjoy your relationship and marital life with great riches.

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Assuming you live in Abuja and have two men hitting on you and both live in lagos. The one that has a job can afford to come to Abuja and see you often while the other that is an applicant can barely afford a phone call how much less visiting you although he really loves you and wants to do those things. Which one will you fall for? Finance is the operating system of any relationship.

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It matters; money is respect; when you have money, your woman would respect you.

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As for me, it matters . . . BIG TIME!

I no want sufferhead

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I personally find it difficult to ask my guy for money. Sometimes, I get to spend on him when I know he is flat. Though I dont give him cash, cos it might affect his ego, rather I buy foodstuffs and stock his kitchen, and stuff like that.

I dont think money should determine a relationship.

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Money deaos not really matter in a relationship

as such.butit deos abit anyway.the main point

is that if in a situation where ur parter deos

not av anything at a glance,u shouldn't act

otherwise, aiight, safe

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ok read the thread. it does matter if:

1) u cant stand on ure own two feet you depend on her all the time

2) alwys borrowing never paying back

3) u can never cut ure coat according to ure size.

ok so if u have enough for you u dont need to hav enimore we can compromise, HOWEVERRRR if u are depending on me and im eating mama putt and u want to eat mr biggs WAHALA DEY OHH!!

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Oh it does matter, face it, money matters for sure

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YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

by by the way i havent read the thread yet. but, lets just say theres been a lot of digging for gold around my area.

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It depends on where you live.If its in the city yes money does matters.If its in the village money does'nt matter much (I'm saying this beacuse when I had my posting at the village I don't need much money).

I wish you good luck in finding the girl who takes you for who you are.

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I think it matters in all relationships

Even the Bible says "Money answereth all things"

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you can bet your life on this

it matters alot.

there are some things u need no one to remind u

u need to get for yr girl.

some times you find yr self in delematic situation,

yr girl need cash to tidy one or two thing which ordinaryly

u are suppose to tokia of.

and she draws the demand curve,

and u dont repond

it will be so annoy to u wen u find out that u are not meeting up

with the demands of yr personal person

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i believe finance isnt really a criteria for dating. any gal telling u without u being rich ur relationship wont work then ure in for it. just leave and forget it because she just told u the plain truth by defining her self in few words.

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Concerning love and money:

- Can A Girl Choose A Husband On Love Alone?

- Romance Without Finance?

- Does Finance Matter In Any Relationship?

- Does Love Have Anything To Do With Money?

- Can Love Without Money Work?

- Can There Be True Love Without Money?

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love is love

if i really love a guy i wldnt give a Bleep whether or not he's got cash

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Money matters if you're thinking about marrying and starting a family. Before that there should be discussions on how you and the woman feel about money issues. This should be seriously talked about if the relationship is becoming more permanent.

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Well it doesn't matter.. only if she understand you better, that is why its kinda good, when toasting her, you got to come out plain and not saying blah blah blah.. i mean liessssss.. that you father is the president of nigeria

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it really does not matter at all i am in aserious relationship now and looking towards marriage i live in amerca{we both do} and if you know america very well you would know it is not easy for one person to carry everything when i first met him he had so many comminments that i didnt get moni from him i only got occasional gifts and i still loved him there was atime he was not working and i still loved him so it reall doesnt matter and i too didnt work for a while but we love each other unconditionally moni shldnt be a citeria

pls my brther look for your real love

wish you luck

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