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Does Giving Her Money Make U silly Or The Man?

I'm asking dis cos alot of guys i've met don't like spendin' on their gurls claiming they would be taken as 'mugus' or 'silly'.So guys,where do u stand?As for me,i like spendin' on 'em cos it makes me feel responsible and if d gurl decides to leave,i let her go cos hse doesn't owe me!

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All depends on who she is.

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the guys portrayed by the posters are children living like adults. the mugu is the guy that cannot evaluate a situation and work accordingly.

not all women are the same and therefore not all relationships should be viewed equally. if a man decide to NOT SPEND with any woman for fear of being seen as a mugu then he has definitely lost the plot on life and relationship.

the key is to spend rationally. if you go out with a girl and you guys go for dinner/movies etc then there is nothing wrong in paying or go dutch (if thats how you rock your boat). if you date someone for a few months then there is nothing wrong with buying gifts for them (as long as YOU decide what the gifts should be).

the problem lies when some partners would DEMAND for money/recharge card/favors etc these are the rats that people should run away from but, like i always say: if a person hangs around rats then they shouldnt be surprise when they can only find rats to date.

ps: and if she comes with BS stories like "my mother is in hospital" kinda crap then tell her to go and talk to her family (fater/mother/aunts/uncles/cousins etc) who knows and care for her probably better than you do.

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Like someone else said it depends on the girl and the nature of your relationship.

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You give cuz u expect to get something from them n 80percent of girls will like to take advantage of that.I once met a girl n we do always go out on a date n it wasn't up to a month n she asked me to give her money to fix her hair up n I was stalling n few dayz later wen I called 2see her she said why will I want to see her?meaning its all about d dough 4her.@ebonyeyes,its written all over u that u re a golddigger.

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IT TOTALLY DEPENDS ON THE KINDA GAL UR GIVING MONEY,

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