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Does He Have Feelings For Me Too?

I have met this man through a sport my daughter has taken up.  He is separated and so am i.  As i have got to know him, i like him more and more and am very attracted to him.  I am getting vibes he may also like me but can not be too sure.  He seems a little shy at times, but will approach me and talk to me, although at times the conversation becomes stilted!  I have noticed he struggles to make eye contact with me, for example, i sense when i am speaking he is looking at me, but when i look at him he looks away! I also am struggling to make eye contact with him because i really like him!

I have also noticed he will come and talk to me when its just us, but around other people, he doesn't converse with me on our own, but in a general conversation with other people, we have spoken. I am thinking that he is shy and doesn't want everyone else to see his feelings, but i may be wrong.

He does seem to want to be around me and i have seen him look towards me.

I have been lucky enough to have him smile at me and it would have to be the most sexy smile in the world!

He is in my mind all the time, i have been a single mum for over 6 years and this is the first guy i have felt feelings for, for a very long time.   We see each other every second weekend, and our contact is not a lot, but i am hoping things may progress the more we see each other.  I too tend to be a bit shy till i get to know people and i feel he may be the same,  and when i think about it, i have probably not given a lot of clues to how i feel, although i know i am nervous around him which i am sure he senses! And i do respond when he talks to me and smile at him etc.

So does it seem he likes me or am i just dreaming?

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Best advise: Wait two weeks more while the shying still go on.

The invite him to lunch alltogether with the kids.

The romance Genesis will jump start from there. TRUST ME.

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Yes its an idea, to bring the kids into it. I will have to see how things go, i don't want to rush it thats for sure but i don't want to lose him either!!

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you are on track then

why don't you offer to take the kids out for lunch and when he agrees also offer to 'invite' him along. just look for a newly open fast food and suggest he comes along as they have nice menus with a perfect customer service.

he could also offer to take the whole four of you to the movies (i guess this way he will open up more) and before the film ends you will know a whole lot more about him.

Do you best (but don't act desperate) to get him so you don't end up regretting after he might have fallen deeply in love with another woman.

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Funnily enough his daughter and mine are good friends! So that does help. He has dropped my daughter off before when i couldn't make it. Yes i think talking about things he is interested in may make him more relaxed when talking to me. But reading up about shy guys, in a group situation, they don't make any contact with you when everyone else is watching which is fair enough, so i really do feel he is a little shy. I think they do prefer to talk to u on your own. Which is what he does.

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can you make your daughter and his a little closer? 'cus that could help a whole lot.

You might have him pick up your daughter after sport and drop her. in such cases i think he will feel a whole lot more relaxed.

i ain't suggesting you rush things that way oh! but getting to make the children close will deffinately bring you guys closer.

Also try and find out his topic of instrest i.e sports, politics, geography, history and if you share such instrest as well talk extensively on it.

A guy (even ladies) could exhibit that shyness for as long as you can imagin if they can't feel relaxed talking to you on a particular topis of instrest for a long time.

He sure likes you but attract him more with your intelligence and humility

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Any other comments on this issue of mine? lol

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I can only but hope lol

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If ur fact's are right, then u've nothing to worry bout, but just be careful aight. just pray,and let love lead the way.

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Wow, this is all looking quite positive for me lol, yay! I do have a feeling he does but then u never do know for sure! I would hate to be reading too much into it and then he have no feelings for me.

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From al u've said, I'm 95% sure he lyk's u,when a guy seems shy or behaves funny with a lady, it's a sign of attraction.

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Thats cute Gabby!

Yes i agree, i prefer a man to take charge and let me know how he feels and to take the friendship onto a romance, it has always happened that way in the past.

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Thanks. Yes you are not wrong, they sure are confusing! I am hoping the signs will become more obvious as time goes on!!! I need more to be absolutely sure of how he feels. But as i said the signs i give are probably just as confusing! He is probably in the same boat as me, not sure of how i feel, as i try and not look too interested i guess to stop being hurt if he doesn't like me, what a weird mating game we humans play!

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Thank your for your reply, yes i feel he may be shy, i would love to tell him how i feel if i could get the courage up but will wait for awhile and see. I intend to make my feelings for him a little more apparent when i see him next, flirting does not come natually to me really but i will be friendly and chatty at least.

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He seems to like you, the only problem is that some men are confused; he might think you're physically attractive but not be ready to go into a serious relationship,hence the delay in communicating his feelings. Alternatively he might want to date you but feel too shy to tell you. I'll advise you to try as much as possible to read the signs and try to subtly encourage him, if the signs are ambiguous and u're still not sure about his intentions, then maybe you should take the initiative and bring up the topic in one of your conversations; confronting an issue is always better than skirting around it. Besta luck

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Thank you for that! I wouldn't expect love as we don't know each other that well as yet, but like is all good!

No i am not Nigerian.

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