I was raised in the UK and have not had much experience dating nigerian men but right before I went to a recent visit to Nigeria I emailed this guy, I met once in college in the UK to ask him about Nigeria since he was living there at the time. We were school mates but did not know each other well. When I got to Nigeria, I called the phone he gave me by email andwe talked for sometime and he asked me to come visit him but I declined the inital invitation because it was little late at night when he asked and my transport issues did not allow for such. (Although I only told him, I thought it was too late) . He then invited me to a work get together at a local resturant. I went and enjoyed dinner with him and his firends but we didn't talk much and I had to leave early due to transport issues. I emailed him when I was about to leave and told him that if he was ever in my area in the UK he should call me. He came back to the UK and sent me an email saying hi. After about two weeks he went back to Nigeria to work for some time and even while he was there we continued to talk back and forth over email for about 1 month (just jokes and about our respective work) and he even teased me saying "I look innocent but he knows that I am not" (what does that mean?) After about a month I asked him to add me to his IM, he said he already had (I just hadn't noticed he added me a month before that) we talked on IM a few times (still same jokes etc) but only when I started the conversation. The other day, I started a conversation with him and he said he had to go and he would be back on IM in an hour, then he came back on after 45 mins and immediatly signed off. I took this to mean that he didn't want to talk to me so the next day, I signed on as invisible to him, he was on IM all day, even longer than he usually is (I began to wonder if he was on there waiting to talk to me) Anyway, the next time I signed on I didn't say anything to him and he didn't say anything to me. That's where we are now and I really can't tell from that if he is interested at all? Should I have done something else? Can I do something more now? I mean he is in Nigeria for the time being (not sure when he's coming back to the UK) so shoudl I just wait until he gets back to the UK and contacts me? What do you think? Thanks.