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Does It Hurt More Or Less?

For guys, will it hurt u more if u caught ur gf cheating on u with another girl than a man? Same question to the ladies, will it hurt u more or less if he cheats with another man?

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its digusting; I mean in our society its a terrible thing to do

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Dude is just having a sexual adventure, he truly loves his wife. Homo is a very tricky shyt, u keep wondering why men/boys you never expect get caught up in such act.

As for me, if I catch my gurl with another lady, I would feel bad, but would feel more hurt catching her with another guy.

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Pple are telling her to hang around and seek help together, even her family and his family too.

They are very happy family, nobody wants to believe her cos the hubby is very likable man.

I'm shocked as well

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True, not only because it's a marriage but they have kids together.

Hopefully she finds strength to pick a path she can walk on with no regrets.

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She wants to run but then again its not easy

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Sometimes, they keep it in, in the hopes that the feeling goes away. Others try to prove themselves wrong, sometimes they are just afraid. . .I always tell people to get their gaydar up and running. If yours is strong, you can sense it. . .

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Up untill last wk when she caught him, she never ever susppected nothing, they dated for abt 3yrs b4 marriage, now this

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Ahhhh

Well he loves her as the mother of his kids, wife and companion but he's not necessarily jonesing to jump her bones. It happens. Some couples work that out. . .like having an open relationship, some divorce. . .others struggle to keep the family together and not cheat. . .

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U know sometimes when one is cheated on with an opposite sex, u will be thinking why did he/she do that? Was it cos i'm not doing enough in bedroom department or the other woman/man is good at something.

But when the cheating is with the same sex, its hard to figure out what exactly that drives him/her to that.

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If u are madly inlove with him will u let him off and keep him?

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Hmmm, to be honest, its a tough one. I'm not sure what i will do if i caught my gf screwing another gal

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More or less, same thing i was thinking

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That would seem more normal and hurt less.

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If he tells u from day1 wouldn't that be a turn off?

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Exactly! cos u be wondering wht is going on then again u will think well, he is getting what a woman can not give him but u can't figure out what exactly its

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I think my first reaction will be a major turn off. Then definitely followed up by disgust. And then may be awe i.e. after getting over the fact that its a man. But generally I dont think I will get hurt because it would be a strange and shocking position to be in. But u never know, posa dearest might have a point there too.

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If the person has informed me from the beginning that they are NOT monogamous in anyway and its been my choice to continue the relationship, then it may not hurt as much because I, myself, will be playing my own game. As they've been upfront with me from the getgo,

I imagine that it HURTS more when theres an expectation that this individual is monogamous and then, aarrgh, they're with another person.

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If I find my girlfriend with another woman in a sexual act, I'd feel more disappointed than hurt. I bet she will have a juicy explanation for her action.

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It hurts either way. It depends on how much you really like the person.

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