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Does Love Exist?

A callow but spoony Bashir is a friend of mine who met a certain witty girl named shamsiyya in their family. They had, for years, being deeply in love. They happily cheer, laugh, hope and dream almost everyday.

Eventually, their love life had now faced a ravage life (as I’m thinking) because, he last week came to me in sheer bewilderment asking me question; “is it how love is?” I asked him what had happened but he vehemently repeated this and repeated for many times.

Thereafter he revealed that he overheard shamsiyya saying that he was the most ugly person in the whole of their family. Surprisingly as he heard that he soon appeared before her, but she shamelessly repeated it and even added a question: “is it not so?”

Thus, to my own assessment, that girl does love him not. Reason: Bashir is not that, even if he is, I don’t think she could have said that. So I advised him to part way with her.

Subsequently, as I said earlier, Bashir is a foolish lover; he is now telling me that he thinks she loves him, so he is going back to her.

I don’t want to do things off head, so decide to seek your advice. If you were I, what could you suggest him to do? Should he go back or not? Does she love him?

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I hope I need to post a topic call love for Nairaland users now, cause many don't know what love mean and what love can do.

Love exist and true love exist and even last long. To love someone is to look for the best of his/her success.

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yes of course, love does exsist.

how do i know? im sssooooooo in love

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of course love exist, you have to fall in love before you can actually know that it exist.

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there aint anyfin lyk luv man, dont y'all get it? its all lusttttttttttttt!!!! and infatuation!!!!!!!l lol

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LOve exist, yes !!in your IMAGINATION!!

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ya it does.

what happened tothe saying love is blind?

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Yeah! Love does exist, I've been there only once and had it thrown in my face, But dat doesn't change d fact dat what i had was true. Disappointments and betrayal notwithstandin, dre's true love. Just dat darin to get there is riskin incomparable hurt.

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If you think it doesn't exist, then hit your younger sister or brother with a hammer

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hi dear, are u really sure love exist?

i mean the kind of lobe he's really talking about?

coz i don't know . . .

i am Jude

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yes,i agree love exist,but we people can not practise what the Bible says about love.

It takes 2 to tangle,so if i love you and you don't love me in return,then am a fool in love,and it can never be equal.

if compartibility,tolerance,understanding are in a relationship,there's probably those involved will think they love each other.

it not easy to practise.really i'd not seen anybody in love that will not cry at the end.cos it hurts

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hey

i love my sisters,brothers,mum,dad,Bf and friends

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2 me love doesn't exist u can really like someone but can neva luv d person actually 2 me u can't luv anybody but urself

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i know everything in the Bible exist

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@SWEETNINi

everything in the bible exist.

some people dont love their neighbours and this is a sin

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Yes it Does but not in the way of the movies

like: Diego+Paloma=Love

Romeo+Juliet =Love

Emeka Ike + Genevieve= Love

My Mummy + My Daddy = Love

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yea love exist in that level also

but seriously how many people on ur planet earth love their neighbours as themselves hu?

even when they don't know someone they beef the person

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i believe love exists cuz it was written in the bible to love ur neighbour as urself

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Thanks sweetnini, in novels exactly

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Love exist in the movies too

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hell no we all know its just a game

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i beleive lov exist but,

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It does, huh? Am asking between my friend and his GF not in real life.

Please re-read the post and then reply

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been thru things a 1007 things

NO, IT DOESN'T

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That's exactly what i mean my dear.

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Hello,

Why some of you just do reply without reading the main content of the post?

Better change. It's an advice 'm seeking from you.

Read it then please!

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Love exists because even though it cant be seen with the eyes, cant be held with the hands, it can be heard with the ears, explained with the lips, felt deep in the heart, and truly, anything that can naturally satisfy one of man's senses must surely exist, at least to an extent.

Love doesn't exist because it is usually that feeling that cant be explained with words.

in short, Love is whatever you make it or call it.

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Love does exist. Only fools do not recognise it.

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@retro

well, dats for me.

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You're the first person that's ever said that. (That I know of).

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nope it doesnt exist for me.

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Love does exist but not amongst people that are suffering for a living,

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I dont believe there's love anywhere.all i believe is ,get someone you can cope with,someone you cherish,someone you always love having around you.cos this thing they call love ,i cant see it any where,i girl will tell me she loves me and she will go behind me to Bleep up or play smart.or you wanna talk of guys now a days?

It doesnt really work like that anymore.My lady will love to hear ii love you everyday but when the time comes to show the real love you wont get to see the person.they will give condition,that it' because the person did something wrong that is hwy they left,but true love will stick everything and anything

nobody interferes in true love,it's from the inner mind,u dont force it.

If only people will not rush things and let it flow,relations and this world would have been a better place,cos after some weeks or months ,you might see that this person is not good enough for you,but the person will be all over you that you cant even try to say something like ,am tired or this thing is not working

So i will advise anybody going into relationship to take his or her time to study the partner,not just the way he/she react to you,but poeple around him and you.cos it matters a lot.when he;s tired of you,he will be acting like that to you.

What goes around comes around.

Learn not to push things,especially ladies.take time to watch where the game is going.

Cos it's a game.

sex is good,but dont let it be the first thing you will share,cos it's very difficult to know what's going on inthe mind of the guy.i might just be another player.

Be yourself.dont pretend and be open,after getting to know the prson.

Most young guys are afraid of settling down now cos of financial problems ,jobs and Country situation,but with your support(ladies) he can make up his mind,dont nag him off,just be supportive,and RESPECT HIM,respect his decisions.

Call him your head,he will always feel like a King.

it's just an advise.

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love is being truthful

if he's ugly and she says he's handsome then she's lying to him and herself

love exist but i dont know if true love exist anymore

if true love exist it's hard to find

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well love does exist. just because she said he was ugly doent mean she doesnt love him, kai!!! but that must have really hurt his feelings, ayaaa!!!

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