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Did u start slimming down or dressing differently after she accepted you?? Didn't she notice these things b4 she accepted you??

I mean 4 christ sakes,it's clear she doesn't or no longer loves so for f.ucks sake, change the channel!!

Sorry, i meant find anoda girl!!

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dude, its obvious she doesn't love you but then, you should also try to pickup in your mode of dressing (just an advise). you must worth something good before you can have it, period.

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@Poster,

If she truly loves you,then she wouldn't mind what you put on.

If you change your lifestyle now then be rest assured that you will still have to undergo many changes in the relationship and it might continue until you perfectly turn into a chameleon.

So, the Choice is Yours. . .

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Girls, some r very, very silly. If u check sef, she no make sense. But she want beta thing. Guy leave her. Gurls plenty

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don't waste ur time with the poster pple like that know she doesn't love him.but yet they still hang on hoping she'll change her mind.have you ever heard of the Lover's Circle

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i think she just picked on your dress sense and body build just to let you know you are not her type

so even if you dress properly in her view and get fat, she will still find another excuse to put you off.

however; it doesnt necessary mean that when someone comment on your appearnace that it automatically mean they dont like the person, it could be the

honest truth though, but just the way she acts is kinda a sign i don't want you.

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~ Its obvious that she doesn't love u. . .she still won't even if u run around Unclad. There's no need to force it. . .it comes naturally. Just leave her be & get sum1 els. It ain't that easy but. . . ~

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@poster

if she doesnt love you for who you are then she is not worth dieing for, let her walk so some one else who will love and appreciate you for who you are will come. read the signs she doesnt love you

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How young is she again? She doesn't seem to love you for who you are, sorry about that.

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thanks guys. i believe i will take your advise. thanks a lot fellas, u have been helpful

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she begged and said that she is sorry and that she will make amends immediately.

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i will do that now or when extra cool is on and tell you what she says

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Yeah yeah, I've heard similar stories before. Promising to make amends is only 1/2 the battle. That may just be to keep u quiet for a while. Watch out for if she actually acts on her promise, and then take your decision.

Remember, you can take a horse to the stream, but you cant force it to drink water!

Cheers

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You are a man, which means you must learn to confront situations as a man.

What you should do is to walk up to her and tell her what’s exactly on your mind.

If she refuses to change, then you go.

If you purchase a rabbit in the market and later discover that it’s not worth rearing due to its destructive manner, you throw it away and look for another rabbit which you feel you can contain.

That’s how life is my dear brother.

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i think so too mate but what do you supose i do?

confront her or just leave her? come on, am exasperated here. help me out

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What are you saying?

How can a girl who doesn't even bother to call you kill herself when you leave her?

are you sure you are not being black-mailed by her?

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it is just not that easy. i assure that one, cos from all indications she is not willing to let go, so how do you think one can possibly tell her to leave or better leave her myself. it is not about the love matter but grther the fact that if i leave her what will happen cos her best friend confided to me and also begged me not to try that cos she could kill herself. now i dont want a dead body on my neck but how do i do it so as not to hurt her like her friend claims.? huh?

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You are the one who is punishing yourself.

Why would you waste your time on a girl that doesn't even call you to know who you're doing? Get realistic. You claim to love a girl and she doesn’t even bother herself if you’re alive or dead. If you’re sick or well. Yet you claim to love her

That you love someone shouldn't make you start acting foolishly. If you see this girl doesn’t match up to the kind of girl you’re looking for, then let go.

There are girls everywhere.

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am trying on the jealousy part and about the jealousy part, am trying to remove that part and yes am a new comer, you know, the sort of guy who is and was shy of girls and who spent his entire primary school playing soccer and who started noticing girls just when he has secured admission. so thats typically me and i must confess i find it tiresome at times

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IT SEEMS U ARE NEW IN THIS GAME ABI? she no love you so look else where

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Its obvious she dosn't like u, leave her and move on. U must try 2 remove jealousy, it ruins.

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@poster

Guy pretend as if you don run down, tell her stuff base on your feeding aspect, and wash, her next step will determine what kind of girl she is,

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@ sagacious but some girls run for money so she too did

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, I think money doesn't have any thing to do with love,It just a natural occurence ,it's not what money can buy,It's depend on your own observation, You need to be sensitive if she is for real.

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Oh Boy my advice is that just put her to test and see if she can cope with you not having any money at the moment as of when she ask, peace

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Relationship is about give and take. If Ur girlfriend is take, take, take,take abeg dump am

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A r/ship is not all about "give me, give me".

I second this.

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Try not giving her money again. See if she still sticks to you.

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It is obvious that she loves taking but what is she giving in return. advice you to focus on getting the best out of her by telling her her value is measured by what she gives. if she doesnt change let go you have your money to gain.

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She doesn't love you.

a girl who really loves you won't constantly keep asking you for money.

or does she think you're a bank.

where does she want you to get it from? maybe she wants you to become a robber

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RUN and do not, I repeat do not look back.

She don't love you!!

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My dear, simply because ur girlfriend is a mercinary does not mean all girls r like dat, u r just unfortunate and dat does not mean u shld call ujs names

Look elsewhere for ur girl, she is not right for u

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i dont she loves you ,most especially nigerian gurls they love your money more than the owner of money.

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Bros, Runooooooooooo, make you know fall mukwu

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She loves your money.. and the things u buy for her. Not YOU!

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She does not love you. Period. Even if you are Bill Gate, does that mean she should turn you into an ATM machine?

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I think he was being sarcastic...or am I wrong...?

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I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she will not be with you if you don't have money to buy the things she want. she doesn't love you. maybe you should stop buying her things that she want for sometime and than see if she will still stay with you.

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dude if shes too damanding......she gat to go

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Isn't it a bit OBVIOUS?, she just needs ur money

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demanding too much does'nt necessarily mean she does not love you....

The question is, are you happy with her?

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my qwestion is that>What do you do,and how pwetty is this gal were talking bout?

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i don't think she loves u da least bit,she's probably just after ur money

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let her know then go after her. i think she's still interested thats why she said she's not in a serious relationship,

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