modified. wanted to delete, but cant figure out how!
i think she just picked on your dress sense and body build just to let you know you are not her type
so even if you dress properly in her view and get fat, she will still find another excuse to put you off.
however; it doesnt necessary mean that when someone comment on your appearnace that it automatically mean they dont like the person, it could be the
honest truth though, but just the way she acts is kinda a sign i don't want you.
Yeah yeah, I've heard similar stories before. Promising to make amends is only 1/2 the battle. That may just be to keep u quiet for a while. Watch out for if she actually acts on her promise, and then take your decision.
Remember, you can take a horse to the stream, but you cant force it to drink water!
You are a man, which means you must learn to confront situations as a man.
What you should do is to walk up to her and tell her what’s exactly on your mind.
If she refuses to change, then you go.
If you purchase a rabbit in the market and later discover that it’s not worth rearing due to its destructive manner, you throw it away and look for another rabbit which you feel you can contain.
That’s how life is my dear brother.
it is just not that easy. i assure that one, cos from all indications she is not willing to let go, so how do you think one can possibly tell her to leave or better leave her myself. it is not about the love matter but grther the fact that if i leave her what will happen cos her best friend confided to me and also begged me not to try that cos she could kill herself. now i dont want a dead body on my neck but how do i do it so as not to hurt her like her friend claims.? huh?
You are the one who is punishing yourself.
Why would you waste your time on a girl that doesn't even call you to know who you're doing? Get realistic. You claim to love a girl and she doesn’t even bother herself if you’re alive or dead. If you’re sick or well. Yet you claim to love her
That you love someone shouldn't make you start acting foolishly. If you see this girl doesn’t match up to the kind of girl you’re looking for, then let go.
There are girls everywhere.
am trying on the jealousy part and about the jealousy part, am trying to remove that part and yes am a new comer, you know, the sort of guy who is and was shy of girls and who spent his entire primary school playing soccer and who started noticing girls just when he has secured admission. so thats typically me and i must confess i find it tiresome at times