I have been dating this girl for the past 3 years with little or no difficulties in handling the relationship. Actually, there is no form of sex involved in the relationship it was purely built on Platonic Love however, all through her NYSC (last passed outs), I was unable to send her Money as I used to do while I was doing my own NYSC last year. Now she is accusing me of not loving her as I used to do. I have tried but to no avail to explain to her that since my elder late brother died some two months back, I have gotten more responsibility than before. I will like to paste a copy of the email she sent to me:
Dear,I so much appreciate ur kind of love but the the
only thing u lack in ur r/ship is CARE.May be u
believe that luv is all about VERBAL.Sorry it is more
than what u thought.I wish u well in ur r/ships bt
learn to care 4 someone u say u love.Always tk gud
care of urself.
From the tone of this mail, I guess it is all over between us? Please what do I do? I need some help. I have also explained to the girl that even though I am working my current salary as a graduate is nothing to write home about. Mind you this girl is from a well to do family and that's what scares me the most. what do I do even though I am not willing to marry her, I will not want the relationship to end on this kind of note. please advise me.