Hello All. There is this girl I met over a year ago. Actually she came to me when I first arrived here and attempted to be friendly. But I was not really not into the whole friendship thing so I was quiet with her and other people that tried to be friendly with me. Later we became closer as I always asked her questions about personal things like sex, family etc. Some months later I was already telling her that her liked her- although I added, as I have done with every girl I have told "I like You," that I did not want to date her. By this time she already had a boyfriend and I was sure I did not want a girlfriend. Since then we have become good friends (or at least, that’s what I think), but the problem is I seem to be the one carrying the friendship alone. On her last birthday, I gave her a pair of shoes and a book, and on my birthday, she gave me a saucer full of brownies. I am always the one that approaches her for discussion or anything like that. I guess that is because we really do not have too much in common. For almost a month now, she has not called me and I refused to call her because I do not want to continue the trend of being the one to show her attention. Very soon it will be her birthday, and I am wondering whether or not to get her a gift. I initially planned to get her a nice dress and a cake but then I think she is an emotional liability as a friend. It is almost like she is taking me to be her maga. In think I am being unrealistic and unfair to her. “If I like her more than she likes me, it is not her fault,” I sometimes tell myself. What should I do?