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Does This Girl Loves Me Or Not?

Hello Friends,

plz i want u to advise me,i met one lady at the cyber cafe and she was very beautiful and a girl of my dream.she did not know how to browse but i shown her to prove to her that i cares for her,later the dad call her on phone,the siblings told me the dad and thier mum base in u.s.a,well i did not love her because her parents base abroad,remember i never knew her dad base there before i approach her.she was friendly and the siblings were friendly too,i got to know little about them,

all this while i was busy typing mails for her siblings who never know how to browse,while she was busy on phone.

she spoke with her dad about her birthday which was to be the next day and i was happy that i knew little about her,i was happy.she was busy talking to her dad on phone and there spoke like 1hr on phone that was when i believe that the dad base in u.s.a,later i ask her about her phone number and she gave me,i was praying inside me that she agrees when i approach her about my feelings u know all this ayebota childrens is not easy to get them,

i call her that night when she left wishing her on her birthday,and she was very happy,i ask her if i could be her guest and she said yes and later said no that male visitors are not invited. well that was when i was a little bit confuse and discourage,well i had to still put more effort about getting her because i was dreaming of a girl like her,the next morning as early as 12am i send her a congratulation txt telling her that i wanna be the first person to wish her happy birthday.and she never reply until i call and ask her if she saw the txt and she said yes and thank me,well i later made up my mind to take the risk of asking her if she will like to be my girlfriend and she said no!

that she does'nt wanna have sure but we can be friends,well i was happy that atlease i have done mine,and i was busy loading my phone to make sure i txt her 4times in a day,she never reply nor calls

well i did not blame her oo

somedays later i call her and she told me that she was sick and that why she was unable to attend a church service,i send her a prayer and also advises her to pray alldays,and that was when she reply and thanks me.i was very happy to read her txt.

she even call me that day,i was surprise,

we spoke like 4min and she told me that she wanna get back to school and that she is broke that i should help her with some money,i had the last money i had and promise to meet her that night,she calls and calls and i later met her somewhere with a guy and she told me that the guy was her brother and we exchange greetings and settle down in a barbing salon.about 5min later she we stroll with the bros and i gave her the money which was my school fees.

well i never mind that because love is blind for those that are blind.

so the bros promise to visit me the next day in my house though we may not be as rich as there are which i told her before.

the next day i call her times without numbers and she told me the bros is busy with her studies and that he will not have time to visit me until JAMB is over.well i waited because i have been hearing that the patience dog eat the fatest bones,after jamb i call her again and ask her about the bros she told me that the bros has travel because i wanted to have a cordial relationship with the bros so that it will be easy for me to get her.

well i never stop sending txt all this whiles and still calling to tell her my interest.

but she always turn my request down.

later i call her and she told me she was in school and that she is about to write her exams,i now change the topic of asking for relationship to wishing her good lucks,in a txt messages.

i was sick and i manage to call her and she ask me where i was and i told her she never even care to ask me how my health was or where the hospital was which i know if she was the one sick i will have been there within 10min of getting the information.when i left the hospital she calls me and ask about my health i told her i was a little bit okay now,do u know what she requested? Recharge card.

i told her am broke and i don't have anymoney,well to show her that i love her not because of what she is but because of who she is. i borrows money from a friend and send her 1000 naira vmobile recharge card so she will not hate me.

she call and told me she has gotten it.

well since then i have been mailing and even txting her and calling but she never reply for once.

two weeks later when i call her she told me that she has lost her phone and that her parents will kill her if she will not get a new phone,and ask me to send her half of the money of the phone that she will look for half,all this whiles i have been calling her and she told me that she is using her friends phone,well i told her i was broke which was true i was looking for money to pay my fees which i gave her when she was broke and she never allows me to rest now asking for another money.well i stop calling nor txting her for sometimes because i was totally broke and there was no money to make calls or even txt in my phone.

she now send me a txt that i have stop calling her and that if i love her i will have gone extra miles for the one i love.well since then i was discourage and i think she is foling me,but i never give up,i still call and txt her.anytime i call her she will ask me if am still broke and i will say yes which was true.i was discourage because she never accepted to be my girlfriend now she is saying that i should go extra mile for the one i love how will i do that,from that day anytime i call her she willl not pick my calls and to know if she refuse to pick my call i will either hide my number or used another line to call her and she will pick and told me that she is busy,anytime i call she will ignore the calls and i stop calling thinking that it was because of her exams so i txt her that i will give her a space to allow her concentrate on her exams,

i later travel for my visa interview at the embassy and i call her when i arrive lagos and told her the new story and she ask me where i wanted to travel to,i did not told her instead i hangoff the phone,3 weeks later i call her again and she said that i stop calling her and that i have forgotten about her,well am confuse because i love this girl but i don't know if she loves me atall.

plz advise me

u can send the advise to me via my email address;itocoonline@yahoo.com

thanks

Itohoimo

p.o.box 1623

uyo

akwa ibom state

Nigeria

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topic shud be " am i really a muguu"

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Too long a story, u sound like you are just starting the relationship thing which brings this question "how old are you". Dude concentrate on how to improve your status and grammar. definitely she doesn't love you so move on and save your little cash fro yourself.

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Denex, thank you for your observations regarding my last post on this thread. Pls do yourself a favour and review what I said about loving a stranger.

Your comment about me would have been ignored but for the fact that you look serious. I have a only two enemies in the world. LIARS AND THEIR LIES. Therefore, I would rather shut up than lie to please people like you. Two, I am strong opponent of love at first sight. Love without idea of who you are dealing with. You are speaking from your heart not from what you read if you ever read at all. Three, NEVER TRY TO RELATE ONLINE NICKNAME of anyone to their real life personality UNLESS YOU HAVE CLEAR EVIDENCE TO DO SO. Fortunately for you, the usernames are meant to be phony. It would surprised you to know that some of those using absurd names are actually responsible and far above you in status and wisdom. Check it out and you would learn courtesy as a second language. I once met a guy online (not nairaland) who bore a funny name and 'acted' I got on well with him. I later discovered he works in a bank. People like that are in nairaland. Learn to respect everyone unless they give you reason to do otherwise. Enjoy the jibe and try not take it personal. It is foolhardy for anyone judge without evidence.

I refrained from calling the boy a MUGU for personal reason. I believed that he had been hurt already. If he had wanted to have fun, he would not have taken pain to write such a lengthy exposition. He knew he was being taken for a ride but sought your input so he can move on.

I do not need to add salt to his injury by calling him silly names. I happen to have a useful knowledge of classical study and psychology so I quite understand you.

As for my English, it doesn't bother me. I don't even read my post before sending them. You may wish to help though. Just be informed I have written 2 books already. But I would welcome any improvement from you,

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@olanajim

I am disappointed in you. From your name, I know you're nobility. You can have the ability to lie. How can you then tell this guy that he is not a capital MUGU? How can someone just suddenly meet the girl of his dreams and fall in love in a cyber cafe.

@poster.

At first, I didn't want to read through the whole of your post but someone forced me to do it. Your English is abysmal! What school fees do you keep mentioning? What school? Quranic School or Tradomedical Training School?

It takes me months and sometimes years to fall in love with someone but the rate at which you people fall in love daily alarms me. Are you guys cripples that you just keep falling in love anyhow? Abeg watch your step jare.

You just see a beautiful girl in a cyber cafe and she's the girl of your dreams. You've not heard her laugh, you've not seen her cry and all of a sudden, she's the girl of your dreams.

Be very careful so someone will not use you for money rituals.

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apparently,in ma own opinion,she doesnt!!!itz so clear shez afta ur money nd wantz yu to call or txt ha wen she needs it.shez draggin u on nd u kip succumbin meanwhile shez suckin yu.yur education cumz first so y d hell did u giv ha ur skul feez?(love i guess.so blind!!!).i guess u fell in love wit ha beauty in d first place.and u allowed dat same beauty lead yu on.forgt d gil.move on nd concentrate on yur bookz.i for one wudnt "love" to date sum1 wit poor diction.and yh,it ws real tough readin yur write upz.am glad i finished without havin to take panadol.and one more thing,without soundin rude---improve yur english, it payz!!!

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Itohnimo,

I have a feeling you are undergoing intensed emotional rumbling right now. I would want you to email me at oracle_nj@yahoo.com there things I could not just post on this thread because of the presence of daughters of Eve. I wouldn't say you are mugu because you are not. However, I would say, you allowed your heart to rule you.

To begin with from your story, you committed a great blunder from the way you started the affair. You handed her the key to your disappointment by showing TOO MUCH ATTENTION AND DESPERATION. The girl noticed how you responded when she told you her dad is in US.

It is obvious the girl is never interested in you from day one. She starte SHOWING INTEREST in you when she saw money. While your first should be forgiven, I strongly admonish you for using your schoo fee to satisfied her lust. The fact that she know the source of the money and still take it pointed to her Unclad greed. She even asked you whether yov are broke! She is as dirty as her prank. She played on your emotion. She made a fool of you without remose.

My man, NEVER SHOW WOMEN TOO MUCH ATTENTION WHEN SHE PLAY HARD TO GET. I know this sounded strange I am sure great guys out there know how truthful that words is. Even women does, though they won't admimt it.

DISDAIN WHAT YOU CAN'T HAVE. SHOW NO ENTHUSIASM FOR AROGANT LADIES. She would die(within) of starvation if her clamour for attention wasn't met.

My advice to you is simple. Accept what had happened. Stop dreaming of her. She doesn't love you. You are a man, stop calling her. If she call you ignor her. Let her do the chasing if he want you. Focus on your future. If you are actually travelling out, you can turn the table. Find your lady elsewhere. She is not worth your effort. Don't allow any lady to take you for a ride again. Learn from. But if you want to punish her, that is another angle. You can do it without lifting a finger. Be bold. Forget her. She is of the lost world.

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rotlmao, okay this a joke right?, as in this forum and the posters, because all i could do is LMAO,

Poster shei na your calabar accent u take carry write this essay ba?, u just dey fire bullet left , right and center.

All i could deduce from your post b say the girl na aristo(runs) babe, she dey tok to im aristo con dey lie na im papa wey dey abroad, lol too funny mehn, easy on the bullets bro,

lol mehn, i need to come on here more often to laugh,

what a bunch of jokers,

infact, lol x 100

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hard on what, giving more money, ?

dont hear her oo,she's also a gurl,

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And you say the gurls are not interested in you too?

how do you carry yourself?

Anyways, just keep working hard ok?

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I cant believe this,do guys like this still exist?

How can u be so dumb to give wot u dnt have becos of a gurl who never understood ur situation, mhen ur a fool.Thank ur God i dnt know u,wud have hit u on tha head so hard u gain ur sences back, MONKEY,

And i hope u dont talk exactly the way you type, cos only little sence wud be derived from ur long speech, mayb thats y the gurl was using u, she don see maga, mighty mumu

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@ Oga madam. It's ten kobo mum.

Please I'm sorry if you are offended. I didn't mean to offend you and am serious about that. To be be candid, I earn 10 kobo p.a. Think you can help a soul?

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Before i can proceed with my answer,

how old are you?

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Silly very Silly Boy,

In Zamunda we don't have king Shaka, we have:

King Shakatange-Shikwashike-Kandinashitandishi The III

Anyways, i passed him your greetings.

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Silly boy his letter was too long for me to have patience.

But, I wouldnt bring up such sons in the first place.

If you have seen coming to america, with eddie murphy, you will understand what am on about. Thats were Zamunda is from.

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@Topic

Face your studies !

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i cant read weren't u thot summary in school damn ,

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Hey man you are da dumb! Never knew a brother man could be so dumb! Thought I was dumb, but believe me, I now believe my pastor that keep telling me am the smartest.

What the hell was the long story for? Make sure you don't approach any girl for a relationship again untill you are 18! Then go read "Agbo goes to school" for you grammer. Heck!

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if i am your Dad - I will say to u - u have failed me terribly - because of u to be able to use your brain, I sent you to school with my hard earned money - u forgot the saying that a fool at 40 is a fool forever - but u remember the one that says patient dog eats fattest bone? Na only bone? may that bone choke you as you wait to eat it - in short - u have choked already.

So na ayebota now - no be ajebota anymore? well, i just pity u because by the time this girl finished dealing with you - na only bone go remain for your body - I don warn u.

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Your English is so bad!

Why do you pay her school fees, when you are the one who needs more English classes?

No wonder the girl doesn't want you.

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To know that you are my brother and doing this obnoxious things really pissed me off. Do you really love the girl or you just have a crush on her. Her parents are in US, so what?people are suffering in US too. Find that special person for you.

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Sorry men got no time to read all the stuff. The grammar makes me feel a lil cranky. Call ikaite to explain pls.

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I feel ya dude, i dont think u are silly or blind ok? u wanna have dat girl? the best tip is to run away from her and she will run after u, take my clue, this love stuff is a game, only those dat knows how to play the game win,

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mickplus its not my fault oh. i said what i felt and i know many feel thesame way. It was a gruesome reading experience.

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kai my head. English poor, love poor, in fact brain not working. Heh God what is this? why me? why did i read this long nonsense? kai, i would never repeat this. itiohiomo dont ever do this again.

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men,is this dude being used big time or what?!!!!! oh boy,u need to leave that golddigger alone and find a girl that will appreciate you and not demand mercilessly frm u,drop that girl like it's hot

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You don't have to be dating someone to drop them it could be mentally. I could be inlove with someone that does love me and could choose to drop them from my mind cause abviously i'm not going to get him. After all the girl did ask him for something didn't she? and the because the guy can't provide it she does want to talk to him atleast thats my analysis of the situation. On the other side i totally agree with you, she is giving him what he deserves.

A word for the wise if you are talking to a girl and she is ALWAYS giving you some kind of excuse leave her alone she doesn't want you.

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  No comment! this is a joke right?, do u want me to move it to the joke forum?If you are then  read davidylan quote well said menh , for u answer CAPITAL NO,SHE DOES NOT LOVE U, IS THAT WANT U WHAT TO HEAR, am sorry that is the true

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@idleflirt,

How can he "drop" someone he is not dating? How can he call the bluff of someone who completely disregards him and has no respect for him? How can the girl want a sugar daddy when the guy was the one literariy "forcing" himself into her life? She is not playing him, she is only giving him what he deserves, a lesson in how not to approach a woman!

Ol' boy, gather what is left of your pride if there is any left and go face the task of raising the rest of your school fees! Leave that girl alone! There are many fishes in the river is very true but there is only so much as your fish hook can catch. Stop trying to hook more than you can carry!

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mayne, this guy is dumb, sorry mayne but u got fleeced, girls can be b##ches at times u kno

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tell him oooo Davidylan

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@itohoimo

**Ater 2 attempts and 2 short breaks, i finally read the whole script**

***Head still spinning at the lenght of story****

GOSH!!!!

How old are you?? You just got your first playette!!!

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In a clear terms ! She doesnt love you ! Okay ! She used you and if you are not careful, she is going to use you again. Like beyunce said, "can love be that blind " theres no point thinking with your area, just think with your head and stop dreamimg dreams that you love her or something. she doesnt love you and she is just using your innocent self to achieve her aims. Dont be soiled in infatuation yourself and think clearly before you do anything in love cos the love you think you have might just be an infatuation in disguise !

Just forget about her,okay !

Bless of luck

Cheers

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The girl used you, that one no be love and nice story you got there.

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I know that is not love. Sorry but she doesn't love you

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Man, na love, i'm confused. I'll say dat na money love!

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Man, na love, i'm confused. I'll say dat na money love!

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Man na love, i'm confused. I'll say dat na money love!

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yea really long.

to cut it short sha. the girl used u.

I am disappointed in u. can love be that blind.

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